THE CRYING GAME has been described as many things, and all of them probably true. Even after 15 years after its initial release, it remains writer-director Neil Jordan's insurmountable masterpiece. Not many casual moviegoers seem to know about this one, but serious film buffs hold this dramatic gem along the greatest cinematic landmarks. This film hasn't changed the landscape of moviegoing as we know it, but it's impacted the souls of those who've embarked on its journey.
And what a journey it is...one so intriguing and fascinating that longtime fans still refuse to give away its secrets. When THE CRYING GAME was marketted back in 1992, Miramax and Jordan urged audiences to not reveal the plot twists. That audiences respected their wishes is an unbelievable acheivement. The acheivement was so remarkable that even though I didn't see this film until 2003, I instantly knew that my blabbering wouldn't ruin just a few cheap shocks. No no no, to talk about THE CRYING GAME in too much detail is to deprive audiences of a legitimate emotional connection with the characters.
Let's get the plot setup out the way; if I weren't to include it, I'd be talking to myself when I want others to share my experiences. Several IRA operatives kidnap a British soldier, holding him for ransom. As Jody (the British soldier) is held captive, an IRA volunteer named Fergus reluctantly befriends his target. Basically, it's Stockholm Syndrome backwards --- rather than the victim embracing his/her captor, Fergus is eager to use the carrot rather than the stick. As things develop poorly for Jody, Fergus ends up looking for Jody's lover, Dil. From there, I will reveal no more...
The word "unpredictable" is an understatement. To call THE CRYING GAME a tale of love or loyalty does not do this film justice. This masterpiece deserves to be known as a "drama" in the truest sense. Webster's definiton is:
"A COMPOSITION IN VERSE OR PROSE INTENDED TO PORTRAY LIFE OR CHARACTER OR TO TELL A STORY USUALLY INVOLVING CONFLICTS AND EMOTIONS THROUGH ACTION AND DIALOGUE AND TYPICALLY DESIGNED FOR THEATRICAL PERFORMANCE."
A story like THE CRYING GAME's might not be plausible in our physical world, but the triangle involving Fergus, Jody, and Dil is every bit as interesting as a romantic or spiritual connection can be. When the definition refers to "a composition in verse or", I think Neil Jordan's film is constructed in acts very similar to PSYCHO. Although we don't meet very many characters, Jordan seems to keep reinventing what they're about. The central focus or narrative is in a constant growth, which is interesting considering Fergus is almost in every shot.
Another interesting note about the verses: Jordan's selection of music is appropriate on a variety of levels. He uses "The Crying Game" in several versions, each telling a different story. Percy Sledge's "When A Man Loves A Woman" opens the movie, and takes on new meaning if you watch the film several times (aside from the obvious "joke"). Anne Dudley's score for the film is a jack-of-all-trades, using military drums for intensity, and classier & seductive instruments for reflection and discovery. It's a rather wonderful music soundtrack.
The verses and prose continue with unbelievable sequences of dialogue. Just listening to these characters talk is an absolute joy.
"I can't help it. It's in my nature."
When a headbagged Jody tells his captor the fable of how a scorpion betrays a frog after being helped across a pond, we relate to Fergus. We realize the visceral impact of the story, but not the cerebral effect. We react, but do not understand. THE CRYING GAME works as a tease, but each time delivers a payoff, and each payoff is an unexpected development.
I think most of this movie's fans' favorite narrative tool is Col, Dil's preferred bartender. In Dil's early scenes, instead of talking directly to Fergus across the bar, she thinks aloud to Col, which the drink-server relays Dil's comments to Fergus.
DIL: "Ask him if he likes his haircut."
COL: "She wants to know, sir, do you like your hair?"
FERGUS: "Tell her I like it fine."
And to finally on comment on THE CRYING GAME's dramatic "theatricality", the pacing is tight with its 2-hour length. The film works a variety of tones from comedy to violence, from love to hate, and from love and loss. The presentation isn't corny like an American filmmaker would've treated this subject. We believe in the story not only because of Jordan's sensibilities, but also because this story has yet to be replicated. Few screenplays command such respect from future artists.
I could go on and on about this work of genius. Thankfully, I still haven't given away anything. THE CRYING GAME's truest admirers haven't, either. And once you've watched the film, you'll come up with clever ways to entice newcomers into the fold, while struggling to keep a tight lip.
DVD EXTRAS
---This Special Edition DVD includes a making-of documentary, which includes interviews from Stephen Rea, studio execs, Neil Jordan, and even two military officers from both sides of the Northern Ireland conflict. Jaye Davison (who played Dil) is noticeably absent, but Davison has been long-removed from the spotlight, so that's not a surprise. There's also an alternate ending that the studios insisted upon. The Alternate ending isn't terrible, but Jordan's original ending is vastly superior.
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| Contributor | Birdy Sweeney, Susan Ricketts, Stephen Rea, Forest Whitaker, Kate Nayberg, Jim Broadbent, Adrian Dunbar, Paul Cowan, Miranda Richardson, Andrée Bernard, Tony Slattery, Peter Morgan, Breffni McKenna, Neil Jordan, Nik Powell, Jaye Davidson, Joe Savino, Ralph Brown, Elizabeth Karlsen See more |
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- Aspect Ratio : 2.35:1
- Is Discontinued By Manufacturer : No
- MPAA rating : R (Restricted)
- Product Dimensions : 7.5 x 5.5 x 0.5 inches; 4 Ounces
- Director : Neil Jordan, Susan Ricketts
- Media Format : Closed-captioned, Collector's Edition, Color, Dolby, DTS Surround Sound, DVD, Original recording remastered, Widescreen, NTSC
- Run time : 1 hour and 52 minutes
- Release date : January 25, 2005
- Actors : Stephen Rea, Jaye Davidson, Forest Whitaker, Miranda Richardson, Adrian Dunbar
- Producers : Elizabeth Karlsen, Kate Nayberg, Nik Powell, Paul Cowan, Peter Morgan
- Language : English (Dolby Digital 2.0 Stereo), English (Dolby Digital 5.1), English (DTS ES)
- Studio : Lions Gate
- ASIN : B0006FO9BK
- Writers : Neil Jordan
- Number of discs : 1
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Reviewed in the United States on July 6, 2022
I had just finished watching Miranda Richardson's excellent performance in "Kansas City" and saw she was in this movie. Both watchings were second time around and I loved the menace Ms. Richardson brought to this role in strict contrast to the passive, laudenum-befuddled character she played in "Kansas City."
Reviewed in the United States on March 27, 2015
First, for those reading this to consider a buy, I paid $5.90 and got the Collector’s Edition, so do not pay $18 if you see it on Amazon. It comes with Director’s Commentary and hours of other interesting stuff. This alone is worth $6 , so you can stop here. I sense this is what is being sent and not a random gift to me. Also, it came with a free digital streaming and download from Ultraviolet for your computer and smartphone..
STOP HERE IF YOU DO NOT WANT TO KNOW ABOUT THE PLOT TWIST---
Some criticize the quality of the making of the film and some of its production values. They were on a poor budget and went bankrupt early on. There were several investors world-wide and they even had to make an alternate “happy” ending to get a bond. Thankfully, it was not used, but you can see it on You Tube---Crying Game Alternate Ending.
This not a review of the film but a review of the impact it made on this viewer. It made me think about a lot of things, and any film that does that is a good film. :) A 'film' is a good 'movie' :0
I have watched this DVD several times, also with the excellent Director’s Commentary over the film, and with sub-titles to pick up on the British slang, as I am U.S.
At this point in time I will assume you know the plot and that Dil is not a woman but a man. I knew before seeing it about Dil/he not being a Dil/she. This actually enhanced it because I could see it from the eyes of the character of the bartender, watching the relationship/romance develop and waiting to see what happens when the main character-Fergus- gets oral sex from Dil and later finds out Dil is a 'he' and how he is going to react and what he is going to do about it.
The basic plot is about a British soldier being kidnapped by the IRA. In fact it was, according to the Director’s Commentary, originally titled “The Soldier’s Wife” and might have been seen as a Social Realism-type film. Had Dil been a ‘she’ it would have been an ok film to see once.
But the twist of Dil/he made it more about a conflicted romance and dealing with a gender-bending relationship. This is why I like it. I am straight and I worked most of my career at a major University and have met many people. I think about what I would have done if I met Dil/she, got to like her physically and emotionally, got ‘oral from Dil/she and found out it was Dil/he. The emotional part would have torn at me, but I’d like to think it would have remained. The physical part…if I remained still sexually attracted to do Dil/he, am I straight? Or do I have to like penises to be gay? Could I go the distance in the relationship , as Dil/she asks Fergus . If I cared enough about Dil, I think I would go the distance. I think it would come down to actually caring about someone. And in real life, how would that affect me, impact my life. Making me think about it made this a good film.
STOP HERE IF YOU DO NOT WANT TO KNOW ABOUT THE PLOT TWIST---
Some criticize the quality of the making of the film and some of its production values. They were on a poor budget and went bankrupt early on. There were several investors world-wide and they even had to make an alternate “happy” ending to get a bond. Thankfully, it was not used, but you can see it on You Tube---Crying Game Alternate Ending.
This not a review of the film but a review of the impact it made on this viewer. It made me think about a lot of things, and any film that does that is a good film. :) A 'film' is a good 'movie' :0
I have watched this DVD several times, also with the excellent Director’s Commentary over the film, and with sub-titles to pick up on the British slang, as I am U.S.
At this point in time I will assume you know the plot and that Dil is not a woman but a man. I knew before seeing it about Dil/he not being a Dil/she. This actually enhanced it because I could see it from the eyes of the character of the bartender, watching the relationship/romance develop and waiting to see what happens when the main character-Fergus- gets oral sex from Dil and later finds out Dil is a 'he' and how he is going to react and what he is going to do about it.
The basic plot is about a British soldier being kidnapped by the IRA. In fact it was, according to the Director’s Commentary, originally titled “The Soldier’s Wife” and might have been seen as a Social Realism-type film. Had Dil been a ‘she’ it would have been an ok film to see once.
But the twist of Dil/he made it more about a conflicted romance and dealing with a gender-bending relationship. This is why I like it. I am straight and I worked most of my career at a major University and have met many people. I think about what I would have done if I met Dil/she, got to like her physically and emotionally, got ‘oral from Dil/she and found out it was Dil/he. The emotional part would have torn at me, but I’d like to think it would have remained. The physical part…if I remained still sexually attracted to do Dil/he, am I straight? Or do I have to like penises to be gay? Could I go the distance in the relationship , as Dil/she asks Fergus . If I cared enough about Dil, I think I would go the distance. I think it would come down to actually caring about someone. And in real life, how would that affect me, impact my life. Making me think about it made this a good film.
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Reviewed in the United States on July 1, 2020
The Crying Game was about the political troubles in Northern Ireland, gender, fate, love, and paying for one’s sins. It starts off with Fergus (Stephen Rea) an NRA member and his gang kidnapping a British soldier named Jody (Forest Whitaker). The two become friends and create an unexpected love triangle as Fergus starts looking in on Jody’s girlfriend Dil (Jay Davidson).
It’s difficult to write about this movie without spoiling it. It’s an old film so many people already know what happens but there are some that don’t. The theme of fate is at the start because Jody knows what’s going to happen to him. The second part is about Fergus and Dil which brings up gender and love. In the end, Fergus has to come to terms with what he’s done, but he does it out of love. It’s a very original story with some very good performances by the three main characters although Whitaker's British accent is pretty horrible.
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It’s difficult to write about this movie without spoiling it. It’s an old film so many people already know what happens but there are some that don’t. The theme of fate is at the start because Jody knows what’s going to happen to him. The second part is about Fergus and Dil which brings up gender and love. In the end, Fergus has to come to terms with what he’s done, but he does it out of love. It’s a very original story with some very good performances by the three main characters although Whitaker's British accent is pretty horrible.
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cora
5.0 out of 5 stars
Still Compelling 25 Years Later
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on June 10, 2017The Crying Game ( Special Edition) [DVD
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Neil Jordan's masterpiece from 1992 is one of those few films that, despite being dated, is as compelling 25 years on as it was at the time of its original release. Fashion has changed and, thankfully, so has the political climate in Northern Ireland and Britain, but the moral dilemma of Stephen Rea's character is as poignant today as it was then.
If you haven't seen the film, do yourself a favour and don't look up the plot on the internet. This is one film you want to watch without any previous spoilers. Seriously. Neil Jordan's original screen play won an Oscar, that should be enough to convince you that this is worth watching. Whatever else has been written and said will still be there later. Also, watch the film before exploring the bonus material. Same reason. Don't spoil it for yourself.
The acting is quite exceptional throughout, with highly deserved Oscar nominations for Stephen Rea and J. Davidson. There were further Oscar nominations for best director (Neil Jordan), best picture and best film editing. Yeah, this is seriously good. Also very good is the soundtrack. Especially the eponymous title song, which predates the film and thus was never eligible for an Oscar, is outstanding.
One word about the Optimum Home Releasing Special Edition DVD from 2006 I purchased. This is advertised as a two disc release, but when it arrived, there was only one disc. Which did, however, contain all the advertised features:
- Alternative Ending
- The Crying Game Making of Featurette
- Director's Commentary
- Original Trailer
Having bought a used copy I cannot be sure that a second disc was not missing, but since there is no mention of 2 discs in the cover notes and all features were present, I didn't follow the matter up and presumed it was simply a mistake in the product description on the site.
One possible drawback: There are no subtitles for the hard of hearing, which may be a concern for those who need them (Optimum Home Releasing Special Edition DVD 2006).
Neil Jordan's masterpiece from 1992 is one of those few films that, despite being dated, is as compelling 25 years on as it was at the time of its original release. Fashion has changed and, thankfully, so has the political climate in Northern Ireland and Britain, but the moral dilemma of Stephen Rea's character is as poignant today as it was then.
If you haven't seen the film, do yourself a favour and don't look up the plot on the internet. This is one film you want to watch without any previous spoilers. Seriously. Neil Jordan's original screen play won an Oscar, that should be enough to convince you that this is worth watching. Whatever else has been written and said will still be there later. Also, watch the film before exploring the bonus material. Same reason. Don't spoil it for yourself.
The acting is quite exceptional throughout, with highly deserved Oscar nominations for Stephen Rea and J. Davidson. There were further Oscar nominations for best director (Neil Jordan), best picture and best film editing. Yeah, this is seriously good. Also very good is the soundtrack. Especially the eponymous title song, which predates the film and thus was never eligible for an Oscar, is outstanding.
One word about the Optimum Home Releasing Special Edition DVD from 2006 I purchased. This is advertised as a two disc release, but when it arrived, there was only one disc. Which did, however, contain all the advertised features:
- Alternative Ending
- The Crying Game Making of Featurette
- Director's Commentary
- Original Trailer
Having bought a used copy I cannot be sure that a second disc was not missing, but since there is no mention of 2 discs in the cover notes and all features were present, I didn't follow the matter up and presumed it was simply a mistake in the product description on the site.
One possible drawback: There are no subtitles for the hard of hearing, which may be a concern for those who need them (Optimum Home Releasing Special Edition DVD 2006).
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M. Britton
5.0 out of 5 stars
After all these years of waiting for a blu ray release and BFI knocks it out of the ballpark! Thank you BFI for this disc!!
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on March 7, 2017
Finally someone gives this great film an HD restoration (scanned from the original 35mm negative at 2K resolution) it has so deserved over the years. And it looks amazing!! Thank you BFI for loving this film enough to do this much for us fans. Have felt this film has always been mistreated here in the US over the years and glad that the UK still believes in this movie. The extras aren't much to write home about (except that odd alternate ending and the great Neal Jordan commentary) but it is this beautiful transfer in 1080p that got me craving this release since it was first announced in the spring of 2016. It was well worth the wait! This is a region B blu ray so I have hope that Criterion could pick this up for a US release (which I will also get) but I have been a fan of BFI blu rays because I know that they give us great releases. If you are a fan you can buy with confidence because The Crying Game has never looked better!
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Boppinggeo
3.0 out of 5 stars
Good LIttle Film
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on January 4, 2021
I went to see this at the cinema when it was released and to be honest I don't think it has stood the test of time that well. Still an enjoyable (???) view
C. Crawley
2.0 out of 5 stars
Banal
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on December 7, 2018
I found this story rather monotonous. As a services veteran myself, I can tell you that I never saw a soldier as unfit, and 'un-military' as the one depicted in this film. He would not have survived basic training, even if he did, by some miracle, pass selection.
david lodge
5.0 out of 5 stars
This is a brilliant film. I had it on VHS and wanted ...
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on April 3, 2018
Arrived before the due date. Packaging was ok. This is a brilliant film. I had it on VHS and wanted to replace the VHS version to DVD instead. I would recommend you buy this film and have some tissues with you as i think it was a bit of a sad film for me.






