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Blog postWhat becomes of our body when we die needn’t preoccupy us but we can ease the burden on loved ones by letting them know what to do with our corpse.
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Blog postDying is a series of destructive events that by its nature strips our humanity and obliterates our hopes for dying with dignity.
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Blog postDying doesn’t have to mean foreclosure or that our last days need to be congested by regrets, or unspoken words and unrequited feelings.
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Blog postSome older people are waking up to their elderhood, but if the vanishing of our elders is any measure, it’s a rare epiphany.
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Blog postPeople living with chronic or terminal conditions have a host of reasons for wanting to die before death claims them.
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Blog postCompetence is a highly valued quality in our culture. But our store of knowledge and well-honed competencies don’t serve us so well in human affairs or the messy business of dying.
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Blog postPeople who have practical conversations with doctors about their preferences for their end-of-life care are more likely to die a ‘good death’ while sparing their families a lot of preventable heartache and distress.
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Blog postMindfulness means being aware of what’s happening in the present. It’s a way of coming home to ourselves that deepens our understanding and ends suffering.
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Blog postDespite assurances from doctors who say they can mitigate the pain of disease and the decline of a failing body, nobody should plan on pain-free living or dying.
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Blog postEach of us is called to particular work, according to our biography and talents and circumstances. Answering that call is to lay claim to our deepest truth and our kinship to each other.
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Blog postOur fear of death is based on a fundamental misconception about who dies, and what is deathless.
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Blog postThe purpose of culturally endorsed puberty rites is to end childhood and start personhood. These rites forge an ability to prize life and begin a kinship with death that says, ‘Your life has limits’.
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Blog postOne of the unique and troubling challenges of being human is our separation from nature. We harbour this separation in our heads, hearts and souls, a quandary that has rendered us homeless in a most profound way.
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Blog postOld myths taught people respect and reverence for life and the natural world. Like poetry and parables, the myths were pointers to a deeper wisdom about the nature of life, love, death and the unique privileges and burdens of being human.
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Blog postOur pursuit of pleasure and fulfilment is costing the earth. Yet our needs are small compared to what the world needs from us. Learning the wisdom and ways of reciprocity mean answering the call to become elders.
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Blog postThe idea of doing our bucket list before we grow old and die raises the question of whether we can live a full and happy life without satisfying all of our desires.
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Blog postDeath disrupts the habits of a lifetime. It’s arrival grieves us because it reminds us of what we’d shared, what we haven’t, and what has ended.
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Blog postTaking a year to live could be an opportunity to make heartfelt changes that renew and refresh our purpose and goals—long before death comes knocking.
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Blog postThe secret theology of our rational, secular age is that death ends relationships and reciprocity. But consigning our dead to the gone-ness of the past has far-reaching consequences.
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Blog postSome health professionals encourage hope when they speak to a terminally ill person about their prognosis and end-of-life care. But investing in perpetual hope means dying people may never learn how to die.
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Blog postFew of us want to admit our age in a Botox culture where it’s a compliment to be told we look youthful. This might be a clue as to why it’s difficult to talk about ageing and advancing frailty as inescapable facts of life.
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Blog postFaced with a choice between death, or chronic poor health, and the tantalising prospect of a cure, few of us can resist choosing more treatment. But the experience of many who choose new drugs and medical interventions isn’t what they imagined.
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Blog postPatients who receive new treatments in clinical trials do little better than those on existing therapies.
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Blog postSome diseases have a better prognosis than others but when the odds of survival are slim, health professionals can feel pressured to offer further treatments despite their low chances of success.
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Blog postOur desire to live longer, even at the end of life, has driven a multitude of ways of averting death. Yet people who accept their prognosis and who choose palliative care are happier and live longer than those who pursue life-extending therapies.
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Blog postMany of us are living long enough to become interested in adding vitality, meaning and life to our years rather than merely adding more years to life.
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Blog postThe removal of death and dying from our homes and families is slowly eroding our affinity and kinship to events that have been seminal to culture since the dawn of humanity.
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Blog postLiving with an open-hearted acceptance of death, whether our time is near or far, could be a way to craft a life-affirming legacy for our families and loved ones that’s nearly unimaginable in today’s world. It could also be a path to reclaim a richness we’ve been denied in our death-phobic culture.
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