This a pretty disturbing book.
It’s scary, codependent, manipulative, loving, kind, and jealous. It understands things no other teenage girls understands unless they cheer, the massive amount of practice and body conditioning, and the brutal idea that you have to look and act a certain way.
It touches on the dangerous, and unhealthy diets these girls put their bodies through. It shows the manipulation of both friends and enemies, a deep desperation to fit in or even a deeper desperation to not fit in. It show’s the per pressure for having sex, doing drugs and alcohol, but keeping that perfect cheerleading persona.
To be a perfect friend, to be a perfect daughter, to be a perfect student, to be a perfect athlete, to be a perfect women, to have to play stupid high school games and play them to perfection or take a chance to be left behind. Left behind in a small going no where town, when you have maybe one shot at getting the hell out for good.
Then a real Couch comes along as a friend, a confidant, a manipulator, a very unprofessional person in authority, using her power of that authority over her girls and the girls falling for it. But there’s alway one rebel, one girl doesn’t want to play the same games, this girl doesn’t see Couch as a god, she see’s her as a fake.
The coach has ulterior motives, personal, romantic, professional, not doing her due diligence for the school district, her girls, the PTA, all the supports including the loving families she works for and those entities expecting 100% for their girls. A Couch is there to protect, care, nurture and teach the girls to make their own right decisions, get strong, and grow into well liked, smart, responsible young ladies who can think on their own. She is a bad Mom and a worse Wife.
For some of these girls the absolute desperation to get away and out from this small town, you’d do almost anything to just walk away. This is a sad story of a small town. The parents have done the best for their kids they can do under the constraints the families live by. But the kids don’t see this, they see ways out, any way out they can. The boys go into the military or off to school to play sports. Some of the girls see only one way out and that is cheer. They will do what every it takes to go away to college, damn their friends, damn their families, damn everything and everyone they have ever know, for them they need to get out.
Addy and Beth are in such a codependent, dependent relationship. Beth is so jealous of Addy, Beth would do anything to have Addy back as her BFF, but there is to much damage under that bridge, and they may never get their loving friendship back ever. They love one another, and they hate another, they feed off of each other and manipulate each other. It’s a very sad and extremely abusive relationship. Then you add all the other characters, storylines and a fairly shocking ending and you have a pretty entertaining book. I do wonder how close this hits home for these girls out there in small towns where the only way out is Cheerleading.
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Amazon Best Books of the Month, August 2012: Oh my, these beautiful, terrible girls, with their "Aruba-tanned" legs and their ferocity and fears, for whom the smallest slights become life-and-death matters. This brilliantly dark and uncomfortably real story, sharp and suspenseful and chilling, made me desperately glad I have sons. The author is so attuned to the "witchiness of girls" and the drama of high school, and then she takes us to the darkest corners of that world. These aren't Mean Girls or Breakfast Club teens--more like Glee on steroids. Megan Abbott is a scary genius. Her voice is fierce and fearless. --Neal Thompson
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PRAISE FOR DARE ME:
"Afascinating, almost voyeuristic, glimpse into the power struggle that goes on between teenaged girls. Not just any teenaged girls-cheerleaders-with their own unique hierarchy and fierce code of loyalty, which they'll protect at any cost. There's a dark and twisted love story here, told with a rich sensual undertone that lingers long after you close the last page, still breathing in your ear: Dare me."―Chevy Stevens, New York Times bestselling author of Still Missing and Never Knowing
"Arresting, original and unputdownable."―Rosamund Lupton, New York Times bestselling author of Sister
"I dare you not to love this book. You lucky reader."―Tom Franklin, New York Times bestselling author of Crooked Letter, Crooked Letter
"DARE ME sneaks up on you from behind, pulling on long-forgotten memories of teenaged desperation, obsession, and desire. This is truly masterful storytelling."―Alafair Burke, author of Never Tell
"Megan Abbott's brilliant new book presents a number of possibilities-the mysterious and the erotic, as well as the inevitable and paradoxical lessons of girlhood-with such illumination that the joyful terrors of adolescence were once again present in me. Abbott's characters, confronted with unaccustomed questions and strange, new difficulties, remind us that the loss of innocence can, if we are fortunate, emerge into a lustrous wisdom."―Susanna Moore, author of In the Cut
"In Dare Me Megan Abbott guides us into the subculture of athletic and fierce young cheerleaders, who train together, compete, andbond until they form a rugged unit much as Marines form a rugged unit. She finds the nearly sinister underside of everyday events and somehow builds great suspense from ingredients that seem so familiar. Abbott has become expert at revealing truths we thought we knew but didn't, delivered in prose that is by turns elegant and incantatory."―Daniel Woodrell, author of Winter's Bone
Abbott marries the best pleasures of the pulp tradition with the highest ambitions of literary craft, yielding a novel that offers a strikingly diverse spectrum of readerly pleasures: It's a gripping murder mystery cloaked in a shrewd examination of female friendships, draped in rah-rah Americana, then reflected in the funhouse mirror of contemporary teenagerdom."―Adam Sternbergh, Slate
"Afascinating, almost voyeuristic, glimpse into the power struggle that goes on between teenaged girls. Not just any teenaged girls-cheerleaders-with their own unique hierarchy and fierce code of loyalty, which they'll protect at any cost. There's a dark and twisted love story here, told with a rich sensual undertone that lingers long after you close the last page, still breathing in your ear: Dare me."―Chevy Stevens, New York Times bestselling author of Still Missing and Never Knowing
"Arresting, original and unputdownable."―Rosamund Lupton, New York Times bestselling author of Sister
"I dare you not to love this book. You lucky reader."―Tom Franklin, New York Times bestselling author of Crooked Letter, Crooked Letter
"DARE ME sneaks up on you from behind, pulling on long-forgotten memories of teenaged desperation, obsession, and desire. This is truly masterful storytelling."―Alafair Burke, author of Never Tell
"Megan Abbott's brilliant new book presents a number of possibilities-the mysterious and the erotic, as well as the inevitable and paradoxical lessons of girlhood-with such illumination that the joyful terrors of adolescence were once again present in me. Abbott's characters, confronted with unaccustomed questions and strange, new difficulties, remind us that the loss of innocence can, if we are fortunate, emerge into a lustrous wisdom."―Susanna Moore, author of In the Cut
"In Dare Me Megan Abbott guides us into the subculture of athletic and fierce young cheerleaders, who train together, compete, andbond until they form a rugged unit much as Marines form a rugged unit. She finds the nearly sinister underside of everyday events and somehow builds great suspense from ingredients that seem so familiar. Abbott has become expert at revealing truths we thought we knew but didn't, delivered in prose that is by turns elegant and incantatory."―Daniel Woodrell, author of Winter's Bone
Abbott marries the best pleasures of the pulp tradition with the highest ambitions of literary craft, yielding a novel that offers a strikingly diverse spectrum of readerly pleasures: It's a gripping murder mystery cloaked in a shrewd examination of female friendships, draped in rah-rah Americana, then reflected in the funhouse mirror of contemporary teenagerdom."―Adam Sternbergh, Slate
About the Author
Megan Abbott is the award-winning author of nine novels, including Give Me Your Hand, You Will Know Me, The Fever, and The End of Everything. She received her PhD in literature from New York University. Abbott was a staff writer on HBO’s The Deuce and co-creator of the USA Network series Dare Me.
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- Publisher : Reagan Arthur Books; 1st edition (January 1, 2012)
- Language : English
- Hardcover : 304 pages
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Unfortunately, I hated this book. This was a situation where I bought the book in a store, thinking the description sounded good. Then, I added it on Goodreads and saw that it didn’t have very good reviews. From there, it sat on my shelf from the time I bought it in 2013 to now. I was making a serious effort to get through some of the backlist books that have been on my shelf the longest, and this was one of those. I hoped that despite the bad reviews, I might enjoy this one. I was wrong.
Dare Me is about a group of high school cheerleaders who get a new pretty, 20-something coach. These cheerleaders are selfish, rude, entitled, and think they are adults, especially the head cheerleader named Beth, so she takes it upon herself to try and undermine the new coach at every chance she gets. She looks for opportunities to hold things over the coach’s head. Beth’s best friend and second in command, Addy, warms up quickly to the coach, and ends up befriending her. When a suicide happens, the group is shaken, and the police start questioning the coach as well as some of the girls on the squad.
There were a number of things about the book that bothered me, starting with the writing. I think the author was trying to write the way teenage girls speak, but instead it came across as very short very fragmented sentences that were hard to read. It’s been a while since I was in my teens, but I have to think that no one talks like that. It felt like the author tried to guess at what teens sound like instead of spending time with teens to figure it out. The writing style put me off so much that I thought multiple times about putting the book down and not finishing it.
The next thing I had issues with were the characters. I didn’t like a single one of them. Not one of them was a good person. I had to wonder constantly where their parents were, since they were constantly at the coach’s house until wee hours in the morning multiple days of the week. Don’t their parents care where they were?
Lastly, I felt like there wasn’t really a point to the entire book. There was no coming of age, no big revelations, there were examples of bad friends, backstabbing, and sex, but no purpose for any of it. I thought the book would go a different direction when I read the description, but unfortunately this one didn’t. This was not a winner for me, and I can’t stay I’d recommend it to anyone. I rated this one 1 star.
Dare Me is about a group of high school cheerleaders who get a new pretty, 20-something coach. These cheerleaders are selfish, rude, entitled, and think they are adults, especially the head cheerleader named Beth, so she takes it upon herself to try and undermine the new coach at every chance she gets. She looks for opportunities to hold things over the coach’s head. Beth’s best friend and second in command, Addy, warms up quickly to the coach, and ends up befriending her. When a suicide happens, the group is shaken, and the police start questioning the coach as well as some of the girls on the squad.
There were a number of things about the book that bothered me, starting with the writing. I think the author was trying to write the way teenage girls speak, but instead it came across as very short very fragmented sentences that were hard to read. It’s been a while since I was in my teens, but I have to think that no one talks like that. It felt like the author tried to guess at what teens sound like instead of spending time with teens to figure it out. The writing style put me off so much that I thought multiple times about putting the book down and not finishing it.
The next thing I had issues with were the characters. I didn’t like a single one of them. Not one of them was a good person. I had to wonder constantly where their parents were, since they were constantly at the coach’s house until wee hours in the morning multiple days of the week. Don’t their parents care where they were?
Lastly, I felt like there wasn’t really a point to the entire book. There was no coming of age, no big revelations, there were examples of bad friends, backstabbing, and sex, but no purpose for any of it. I thought the book would go a different direction when I read the description, but unfortunately this one didn’t. This was not a winner for me, and I can’t stay I’d recommend it to anyone. I rated this one 1 star.
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Hayley C
3.0 out of 5 stars
Toxic friendships!
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on September 4, 2020Verified Purchase
This book has been on my TBR ever since it was published so I wanted to make it a priority this year. I found it hard to get into this book but once it grabbed me I was gripped. It follows Addy, a cheerleader in a teen squad and you get a real look at the toxic friendships that this environment sometimes fosters. There is also the coach who is very friendly with some of the girls but it’s clear from early on that she is playing them, although I wasn’t sure why. I’m torn about this book because the elements that I liked I really liked but ultimately I think perhaps I wasn’t the right audience for the book as it just didn’t fully click with me. I do love Megan Abbott’s writing though and I’ve enjoyed books by her before so I will definitely be looking out for more in the future.
S Jones
4.0 out of 5 stars
Stick With It - It's Worth It!
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on January 5, 2015Verified Purchase
Had I not been in a Wifi free zone with no way to download a new book, I might not have persevered with this - but I'm very glad I did!
If you're not American or with a knowledge of cheerleading then the opening chapters are as alien as if the author were writing about the customs and habits of a remote African tribe. And there are hints that the book is going to go down a rather cliched line (which it doesn't).
Once you get into it however, a lack of cheerleading knowledge doesn't matter - it becomes an absorbing psychological thriller as Addy, the narrator, is torn between the new coach and her best friend Beth. The novel twists and turns with Addy's internal conflict, revealing as it does the emotions under the surface, as dark events take place. In fact, it reminds me strongly of David Lynch's work, notably Blue Velvet.
Addy is a very "unreliable narrator" - but what isn't clear is whether this is due simply to being a 16 year old who is growing up and rapidly gaining experience of the adult world.
Like Joseph Conrad, Megan Abbott seems interested in the consequences of action and events on the characters, rather than the actions themselves. (She's nothing like Conrad in any other respect!). So it becomes more of a "whydunnit" rather than a "whodunnit". And the finale - which isn't the reveal of the mystery, but the final "what happened after" - casts a whole new slant on the story.
Definitely recommended if you like dark and subtle novels - though with the caveat that the early chapters are hard going
If you're not American or with a knowledge of cheerleading then the opening chapters are as alien as if the author were writing about the customs and habits of a remote African tribe. And there are hints that the book is going to go down a rather cliched line (which it doesn't).
Once you get into it however, a lack of cheerleading knowledge doesn't matter - it becomes an absorbing psychological thriller as Addy, the narrator, is torn between the new coach and her best friend Beth. The novel twists and turns with Addy's internal conflict, revealing as it does the emotions under the surface, as dark events take place. In fact, it reminds me strongly of David Lynch's work, notably Blue Velvet.
Addy is a very "unreliable narrator" - but what isn't clear is whether this is due simply to being a 16 year old who is growing up and rapidly gaining experience of the adult world.
Like Joseph Conrad, Megan Abbott seems interested in the consequences of action and events on the characters, rather than the actions themselves. (She's nothing like Conrad in any other respect!). So it becomes more of a "whydunnit" rather than a "whodunnit". And the finale - which isn't the reveal of the mystery, but the final "what happened after" - casts a whole new slant on the story.
Definitely recommended if you like dark and subtle novels - though with the caveat that the early chapters are hard going
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Liz Barnsley
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Absolutely riveting...
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on September 13, 2014Verified Purchase
As a reviewer I get sent an awful lot of books which I will always be eternally grateful for, and an offshoot of that life is that I also get a great many recommendations from readers in the online community each month all of which I consider carefully but often never get around to reading. Dare Me from Megan Abbott had been recommended to me several times, which is always a good indication that it has that special “something” so it was one of my book budget picks last month and I loved every minute of it.
There is a quote from it that sums things up perfectly. There’s something dangerous about the boredom of teenage girls. And often there is, there really really is…
In “Dare Me” we meet Addy, a popular girl, second in command to main popular girl Beth, and for a long time they have ruled school life and the cheer squad with relentless charm and ruthlessness and lived their lives by a certain order and routine that outwardly looks pretty cool but both of these girls have a lot of inner turmoil. Some of it standard teenage angst but some of it a lot darker…
When Colette arrives to coach the team everything changes – in a lot of ways she is like an older version of the girls she teaches, with added life experience and not necessarily their best interests at heart. I found her to be a particularly fascinating character as she draws the team into a more adult world, one they really are totally unprepared for. Her agenda is unclear, but everyone gets caught up in her maelstrom with often devastating results.
Megan Abbott writes with a beautifully dark and intense prose that draws you into the world she has created and gets you right to the heart of the matter. Her characters are insightfully drawn with a real depth of feeling so that you believe you understand them and their actions…until the rug is pulled out from under you and you realise that things are not that straightforward. Intelligently done and with some very dark themes bang at the centre, I found this to be a highly intriguing, emotional and captivating coming of age tale.
Characterisation really is key here, as understanding grows as to the true nature of the players, it is compelling and often downright scary reading. The things that are hidden just below the surface of the glitz and glamour of the cheerleading life are thought provoking and terrifically gripping, I could barely put it down. I’m loathe to give anything away, but the story flows in an engaging and captivating way that makes this easily a one sitting read and as things unfold, you may often be on the edge of your seat. This is a disconcerting, often startling and very unsettling read but absolutely riveting and with a real psychological depth especially when it comes to manipulative personalities. Be afraid…be very afraid…
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There is a quote from it that sums things up perfectly. There’s something dangerous about the boredom of teenage girls. And often there is, there really really is…
In “Dare Me” we meet Addy, a popular girl, second in command to main popular girl Beth, and for a long time they have ruled school life and the cheer squad with relentless charm and ruthlessness and lived their lives by a certain order and routine that outwardly looks pretty cool but both of these girls have a lot of inner turmoil. Some of it standard teenage angst but some of it a lot darker…
When Colette arrives to coach the team everything changes – in a lot of ways she is like an older version of the girls she teaches, with added life experience and not necessarily their best interests at heart. I found her to be a particularly fascinating character as she draws the team into a more adult world, one they really are totally unprepared for. Her agenda is unclear, but everyone gets caught up in her maelstrom with often devastating results.
Megan Abbott writes with a beautifully dark and intense prose that draws you into the world she has created and gets you right to the heart of the matter. Her characters are insightfully drawn with a real depth of feeling so that you believe you understand them and their actions…until the rug is pulled out from under you and you realise that things are not that straightforward. Intelligently done and with some very dark themes bang at the centre, I found this to be a highly intriguing, emotional and captivating coming of age tale.
Characterisation really is key here, as understanding grows as to the true nature of the players, it is compelling and often downright scary reading. The things that are hidden just below the surface of the glitz and glamour of the cheerleading life are thought provoking and terrifically gripping, I could barely put it down. I’m loathe to give anything away, but the story flows in an engaging and captivating way that makes this easily a one sitting read and as things unfold, you may often be on the edge of your seat. This is a disconcerting, often startling and very unsettling read but absolutely riveting and with a real psychological depth especially when it comes to manipulative personalities. Be afraid…be very afraid…
**source: Purchased copy**
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Mary Chipping
4.0 out of 5 stars
Schoolgirl bitchiness at its best
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on July 13, 2015Verified Purchase
I found this a rather disturbing book dealing as it does with rivalry between friends, the stress to restrict diet to be the best/thinnest in the cheerleader team and yet was hooked to find out what happens. The manipulation by one girl of another and the rivalry between team mates was harsh but something in it stirred memories of being that age. I admit I am a bit old to read these books but there is something about Megan Abbott's subjects and style of writing that calls me back time and time again. Not an easy read but a good one and whether it was murder or not and if so, by whom, kept me guessing.
Deb G-S
2.0 out of 5 stars
Boring
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on January 23, 2016Verified Purchase
I cannot comprehend the rave reviews of this novel. The speech, for a start, was incredibly stilted and awkwardly unnatural. The characters were so one dimensional and tedious, they had no interesting or redeeming features at all. Plus, the way they behaved came across as unrealistic and forced.
The author clearly has no idea whatsoever of how teenagers act or talk, and though the plot had an intriguing premise, the story was incredibly bland and monotonous. Definitely could've been much better.
The author clearly has no idea whatsoever of how teenagers act or talk, and though the plot had an intriguing premise, the story was incredibly bland and monotonous. Definitely could've been much better.
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