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Death Nesting: The Heart-Centered Practices of a Death Doula (Sacred Planet) Paperback – August 15, 2023
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• 2024 Coalition of Visionary Resources Gold Award
• Shares practices for emotional soothing, breathing techniques to reduce anxiety and pain, ways to reduce stress during the active dying process, and techniques to physically care for the dying, including methods to assist bedridden individuals
• Explores ceremony and energetic boundary guidelines, Reiki and ancestral support techniques, and herbal care for nourishing and healing on a spirit level
• Presents self-care methods for moving with grief, ideas for “things to do” when there is nothing to do, mindfulness practices for contemplating your own mortality, as well as guidance for talking with children about death and dying
• Winner of a 2020 Independent Publisher “IPPY” award
Just as we might prepare a nest for one about to give birth, so can we lovingly prepare a nest for one who is dying.
In this practical and compassionate guide, death doula educator Anne-Marie Keppel incorporates ancient and modern techniques, mindfulness practices, and herbal support to show how anyone can care for the dying, whether at home, in hospice, or even in the ICU. She demystifies the dying process by explaining what the body goes through during end of life and presents practices for emotional soothing and other ways to reduce stress and anxiety during the active dying process. The author provides techniques to physically care for the dying, including methods to assist bedridden individuals. She shares ceremony and energetic boundary guidelines, Reiki and ancestral support techniques, and herbal care for nourishing and healing on a spirit level.
Providing support for caregivers and loved ones as well, Anne-Marie explores self-care methods for moving with grief, ideas for “things to do” when there is nothing to do, and mindfulness practices for contemplating your own mortality. She also offers visualizations and techniques for talking with children about death and dying.
Sharing glimpses into the world of spirit to reveal the poignancy of the dying process, the author shows that death is a sacred rite of passage we all experience.
- Print length192 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherBear & Company
- Publication dateAugust 15, 2023
- Dimensions6 x 0.7 x 9 inches
- ISBN-101591434823
- ISBN-13978-1591434825
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Whether you are a practicing death doula or a layperson facing the task of caring for a loved one, Death Nesting is the resource needed to rediscover the knowledge that was once abandoned by modern society. When we acquaint ourselves with the naturalness of death and invite it back into our awareness, we can restore the balance and meaning of all of life, taking nothing for granted and treating all beings with care.
Preparing the Nest
Ceremonial Intention for the Inner Nest You are creating a sacred space, a precious nest where the dying person can be held. A space where an individual will inhale and exhale their last breath. A space where a spirit or soul will exit a body. You are holding the energetic space for this transition as much as the room itself is sheltering you from the elements outside. A nice statement of intention: May this sacred space of transition remain safe, and in pure and eternal love.
Mind, Spirit, and Emotion in the Dying Process
Psychedelics and Virtual Reality Indigenous cultures around the world have practiced healing rituals with psychedelic plants and fungi for millennia. The use of these medicines offered perspectives not otherwise seen or felt, and the medicines were respected as great teachers. Today, scientific research increasingly supports the use of psilocybin in easing chronic depression and anxiety at end of life, particularly in cancer patients. Psilocybin is becoming more widely available medically, as are other psychedelics, and an increasing number of people are partaking and benefiting. In these instances, each individual’s experience should be supported with education and preparation, correct dosage, a statement of intention, and careful supervision. The Multidisciplinary Association for Psychedelic Studies (MAPS) is a credible resource for information.
Herbs for Remembrance and Ceremony
Plants, herbs, resins, and ceremony are ways to connect you to your ancestral roots. It’s never too late to make an offering in this way. The following is just a brief glimpse into the rich world of postmortem herbal care and rituals. Let this open your mind to explore more. • Lavender essential oil and the Thieves blend both smell wonderful, are antibacterial, and can be used to bathe and oil the body after death. • Marigolds are often found in abundance at rites of passage in India. • Garlic braids and bunches of yarrow are used for protection in Celtic pagan tradition as one travels to the other side. • Rosemary is an herb long used for remembrance in the Mediterranean.
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“Anne-Marie has gifted us with an informative, holistic, and comprehensive guide to tending to those who are in the dying season of their lives. The practical guidance, mindfulness practices, herbal recommendations, and storytelling offered in Death Nesting empower us to support one another to create a dying experience that reflects our unique lived experience.” ― Aditi Sethi, M.D., hospice and palliative care physician, end-of-life doula, and executive director
“A resource guide that will transcend your view on death, dying, and how to be in companionship with Death. This beautiful, sensitive guide is filled with knowledge delivered with tenderness and takes the reader through a journey of learning about stages of death, ways caregivers can be supportive during the transition process, caregiver and client meditations, and calming practices. Anne-Marie has gently normalized a subject seldom addressed, so openly. Written for anyone who may be curious about death work, caregivers, and for all of us who will have that familiar, yet unfamiliar, knock on the door from the intimate stranger we call Death.” ― Sonya-Prajna Patrick, Ph.D., death-tending doula, magick/conjure worker, and bone reader
“Anne-Marie’s way of navigating death and grief is intentional, nourishing, loving, meditative, and healing. With an attitude of humility and reverence for this sacred passage, her words evoke a sensuous experience for the reader, as she brings to life the essence of death doula service. I highly recommend Death Nesting to anyone interested in mindfully holding space for their loved one or for themselves through the process of death.” ― Jade Brunel, founder of WAO Tea and author of Tea, Remembering the Essence of Life
“Death Nesting is a compassionate manual on approaching death consciously—both our own death and the deaths of those we love. Through the pages of this helpful book, death educator and doula Anne-Marie Keppel gives readers the tools needed to turn the end-of-life process into a beautiful and healing experience. Filled with love and spirit this is a book I will be recommending to my clients whether they are facing death or grieving the loss of a loved one.” ― Salicrow, psychic medium and author of Spirit Speaker
“As explained in Death Nesting, dying can be a time of unknowing while also a journey best guided by deep wisdom and trust—both of which are bolstered by Keppel’s anecdotes and explanations. This mindfully constructed book of knowledge gently encourages readers to let go of rigid logic and control as well as embrace all that can be anticipated during the end of life, covering an array of topics from the ineffable to the highly practical and so much in between.” ― Francesca Lynn Arnoldy, community doula and author of The Death Doula’s Guide to Living Fully
“Keppel’s heart-centered, community-based philosophy establishes her as a leader in the emerging holistic deathcare movement. I recommend Death Nesting to all aspiring death doulas, medical professionals serving in end-of-life spaces, hospice volunteers, and, most especially, home caregivers. This is a bedside companion for the tender journey as we walk one another home.” ― Jade Adgate, death midwife and curator at the Farewell Library
“Anne-Marie offers loads of wise and practical guidance for helping, holding, and mindful presence through all that this passage brings for the doula, the dying, and for those who must let them go. Whatever your belief about the afterlife, whatever your previous experience with death and dying, this book invites you to the crossroads, where life meets death—a sacred place of deep gravitas, transformation, and remembrance.” ― Fearn Lickfield, director of the Green Mountain Druid School and Dreamland Sanctuary
“This is the book those who gravitate toward or find themselves thrust into the death space need. Exploring age-old territory with fresh eyes, Anne-Marie Keppel has encapsulated for us the essence of active caring in full practical and loving description.” ― Lee Webster, funeral reform advocate and director of New Hampshire Funeral Resources & Education
“Death Nesting is refreshing, enlightening, and captivating. It dares to talk deeply and thoroughly about a subject that’s barely touched in our society, yet it’s a reality that we are all going to have to deal with. This book gives the reader a thoughtful and human perspective on confronting death.” ― Rafael Olivares, M.D., volunteer for Doctors of the World
Death Nesting: The Heart-Centered Practices of a Death Doula provides an excellent addition to a growing cannon of works revolving around the field of Death Care. Anne-Marie Keppel presents the subject in a practical yet engaging manner that draws the reader into awareness. This is a book that encourages active learning and participation on the part of caregivers and death doulas who seek to assist in the honorable act of being present and holding space for the dying. ― Clio Arjana, FacingNorth.net
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- Publisher : Bear & Company
- Publication date : August 15, 2023
- Edition : 2nd Edition, Revised
- Language : English
- Print length : 192 pages
- ISBN-10 : 1591434823
- ISBN-13 : 978-1591434825
- Item Weight : 2.31 pounds
- Dimensions : 6 x 0.7 x 9 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #79,954 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- #130 in Grief & Bereavement
- #140 in Love & Loss
- #377 in Spiritual Self-Help (Books)
About the author

Death doula educator, life-long meditator, magic weaver of intentional healing & love.






