Amazon.com: Customer reviews: In Defense of Elitism: Why I'm Better Than You and You are Better Than Someone Who Didn't Buy This Book
Skip to main content
.us
Hello Select your address
All
Select the department you want to search in
Hello, Sign in
Account & Lists
Returns & Orders
Cart
All
Disability Customer Support Personal Shopper Best Sellers Amazon Basics Customer Service New Releases Today's Deals Prime Amazon Home Music Books Registry Fashion Kindle Books Gift Cards Toys & Games Automotive Sell Pet Supplies Shopper Toolkit Coupons Computers Pharmacy Home Improvement Beauty & Personal Care Video Games Smart Home Luxury Stores Health & Household Handmade

  • In Defense of Elitism: Why I'm Better Than You and You are Better Than...
  • ›
  • Customer reviews

Customer reviews

4.4 out of 5 stars
4.4 out of 5
269 global ratings
5 star
67%
4 star
18%
3 star
9%
2 star
4%
1 star
2%
In Defense of Elitism: Why I'm Better Than You and You are Better Than Someone Who Didn't Buy This Book

In Defense of Elitism: Why I'm Better Than You and You are Better Than Someone Who Didn't Buy This Book

byJoel Stein
Write a review
How are ratings calculated?
To calculate the overall star rating and percentage breakdown by star, we don’t use a simple average. Instead, our system considers things like how recent a review is and if the reviewer bought the item on Amazon. It also analyzes reviews to verify trustworthiness.
See All Buying Options

Add to Wish List

Top positive review

All positive reviews›
Ronald Burd
5.0 out of 5 starsLessons and Laughter Abound
Reviewed in the United States on October 27, 2019
In this compelling and laugh out loud book, Joel Stein demonstrates that he is one of our great American humorists. But he is far more than a journalist who graduated from the self created “University of Mediocre Jokes Tacked on to the Ends of Paragraphs.”
The scope of his observations and insightful comments reminded me of the wit and deep understanding of Michael Moore and Will Rogers. As a “Jew from New Jersey” who lives in Hollywood, he didn’t have Moore’s roots in decaying, industrial Flint, Michigan, or Roger’s Native American perspective coming out of the Cherokee Nation. But he has captured the plight of struggling middle Americans who responded to President Trump’s populist message. Joel is a comfortable guest in what you might assume to be unwelcoming homes- loved by people with opposing views, lifestyles and religions.
The book is well researched and referenced for historical, literary, and scientific observations - not all of which (OK, many) are proffered to spin a joke.
In the end the brilliance of this book proves Joel’s thesis- that excellence and dedication that lead to a meritocracy matter. Non elites shouldn’t attempt writing a book like this.
For a funny guy, Joel seems to have found the secret to meaningful human connection- biting, original, self deprecating humor coupled with genuine listening to people of all stripes. I know I cannot become as adept as Joel with the former, but certainly can work on improving the latter.
Read more
23 people found this helpful

Top critical review

All critical reviews›
Pierre A. Miller
2.0 out of 5 starsI'm feeling magnanimous, so I'll call it "rushed".
Reviewed in the United States on December 18, 2019
Tl, DR: This book was clearly rushed, and he either has poor time management skills (which I doubt) or he was under the gun to get it finished and start earning his cut, because throughout the course of reading this book, and most acutely as I got to the end, the word "slapdash" repeatedly came to mind.

Who is this books audience?

That is perhaps the most important question that can be asked about this text. Stein simultaneously tells us that what he's saying is important, while at the same time, undercutting himself, the messenger, and, nearly everyone else he encounters.

My mother-in-law read a few pages of the book and pointed out the confusing contradiction in him both making fun of "the [intellectual] elite" while also exalting their role, thus celebrating them. It's confusing to listen to someone undercut their own message. The question is why?

My answer was "once we figure out who his audience is, we'll know". And I think that's true. If we posit that (liberals, conservatives and moderates) are either "open minded" or closed minded, I think this book is targeted to open minded "conservatives", open minded "liberals" and, lastly, intelligent "moderates". I say that for the following reasons:

1. Closed minded liberals will find him too offensive to read.
2. Closed minded conservatives won't have any interest in what Joel Stein (a Time-magazine-writing, Stanford alumnis living in LA.) has to say.
3. An unintelligent person will never get past the gratuitous Latin, French, and occasional word salad masking itself as complex sentence structure.

So, that's who I think this book is for. And I think, if you're in one of the groups of people I mentioned might be in his audience, you'll probably find this book…amusing. Even though I probably laughed a few times, it's not comedy. Is it worth reading? Sure. It's definitely not worth what I paid though. Definitely not. Too many typos, and not entertaining enough.

Why'd I buy it? I saw Stein interviewed on the PBS News Hour, and he sounded like a smart, funny, irreverent guy, and, thus, naturally, I wanted to buy his book and encourage him.

Weaknesses?

I don't like that he finished every chapter with a transparent "here's a tantalizing tidbit of what's to come to segue into the next chapter, OH BOY!!" paragraph. Facile.

Typos, and poorly worded sentences galore. I wrote them down in the back of the book, and if the publisher is interested, I can produce them, but I don't see this book getting reprinted.

He gave up on the ending. You're reading along, noticing that there are only a few pages left, when Joel Stein sneaks up on you from the front with sledgehammer in hand and clocks you in the chin with his point.

Unfortunately, he didn't have a point. He tried to make one, but either didn't or couldn't, so all I'm left with is the part after he stopped telling the narrative. The "moral" or whatever you want to call it of this book (because there's no moralizing here, and calling it a "denouement" implies that there was tension to be resolved, which there really wasn't) came with the subtlety and grace of the last five minutes of an ABC sitcom about a working class family: Cue music, and LIFE LESSON.

Ideally I shouldn't feel the ending of a book coming, and if I do, this is the moment where the author needs to give me his best work. You dropped it Joel. You spent too much time researching the subject and not enough time making sure the book was good. For your next book, get a side hustle to pay the bills while you polish it.

And that is the way of the world.
Read more
16 people found this helpful

Search
Sort by
Top reviews
Filter by
All reviewers
All stars
Text, image, video
269 total ratings, 94 with reviews

There was a problem filtering reviews right now. Please try again later.

From the United States

Ronald Burd
5.0 out of 5 stars Lessons and Laughter Abound
Reviewed in the United States on October 27, 2019
Verified Purchase
In this compelling and laugh out loud book, Joel Stein demonstrates that he is one of our great American humorists. But he is far more than a journalist who graduated from the self created “University of Mediocre Jokes Tacked on to the Ends of Paragraphs.”
The scope of his observations and insightful comments reminded me of the wit and deep understanding of Michael Moore and Will Rogers. As a “Jew from New Jersey” who lives in Hollywood, he didn’t have Moore’s roots in decaying, industrial Flint, Michigan, or Roger’s Native American perspective coming out of the Cherokee Nation. But he has captured the plight of struggling middle Americans who responded to President Trump’s populist message. Joel is a comfortable guest in what you might assume to be unwelcoming homes- loved by people with opposing views, lifestyles and religions.
The book is well researched and referenced for historical, literary, and scientific observations - not all of which (OK, many) are proffered to spin a joke.
In the end the brilliance of this book proves Joel’s thesis- that excellence and dedication that lead to a meritocracy matter. Non elites shouldn’t attempt writing a book like this.
For a funny guy, Joel seems to have found the secret to meaningful human connection- biting, original, self deprecating humor coupled with genuine listening to people of all stripes. I know I cannot become as adept as Joel with the former, but certainly can work on improving the latter.
23 people found this helpful
Helpful
Report abuse
    Showing 0 comments

There was a problem loading comments right now. Please try again later.


William Allen
5.0 out of 5 stars A 4.51-Star Review, Rounded to 5
Reviewed in the United States on November 9, 2019
Verified Purchase
I begin my review by referencing a 1-star review above that says Joel Stein (son of Charlie, father of Laszlo) did not understand the ‘time held beliefs and cultural values...that give contentment’ to the lives of the residents of Miami, TX that he writes about at the start of the book. I would beg to differ, as Joel writes extensively about these values, both the good (community gatherings) and the bad (pervasive racism). I sincerely recommend that folks read The Righteous Mind by Johnathan Haidt right before reading this, as it enhances Joel’s insights into both the elite and non-elite folks he interviews. One of Haidt’s main points is that all people use their intuition first and then use logic/reason to then justify their instincts. For better or for worse, Joel’s book provides ample evidence for this and helps explain the huge rift in society and the world today (and does it with some funny jokes).
18 people found this helpful
Helpful
Report abuse
    Showing 0 comments

There was a problem loading comments right now. Please try again later.


Pierre A. Miller
2.0 out of 5 stars I'm feeling magnanimous, so I'll call it "rushed".
Reviewed in the United States on December 18, 2019
Verified Purchase
Tl, DR: This book was clearly rushed, and he either has poor time management skills (which I doubt) or he was under the gun to get it finished and start earning his cut, because throughout the course of reading this book, and most acutely as I got to the end, the word "slapdash" repeatedly came to mind.

Who is this books audience?

That is perhaps the most important question that can be asked about this text. Stein simultaneously tells us that what he's saying is important, while at the same time, undercutting himself, the messenger, and, nearly everyone else he encounters.

My mother-in-law read a few pages of the book and pointed out the confusing contradiction in him both making fun of "the [intellectual] elite" while also exalting their role, thus celebrating them. It's confusing to listen to someone undercut their own message. The question is why?

My answer was "once we figure out who his audience is, we'll know". And I think that's true. If we posit that (liberals, conservatives and moderates) are either "open minded" or closed minded, I think this book is targeted to open minded "conservatives", open minded "liberals" and, lastly, intelligent "moderates". I say that for the following reasons:

1. Closed minded liberals will find him too offensive to read.
2. Closed minded conservatives won't have any interest in what Joel Stein (a Time-magazine-writing, Stanford alumnis living in LA.) has to say.
3. An unintelligent person will never get past the gratuitous Latin, French, and occasional word salad masking itself as complex sentence structure.

So, that's who I think this book is for. And I think, if you're in one of the groups of people I mentioned might be in his audience, you'll probably find this book…amusing. Even though I probably laughed a few times, it's not comedy. Is it worth reading? Sure. It's definitely not worth what I paid though. Definitely not. Too many typos, and not entertaining enough.

Why'd I buy it? I saw Stein interviewed on the PBS News Hour, and he sounded like a smart, funny, irreverent guy, and, thus, naturally, I wanted to buy his book and encourage him.

Weaknesses?

I don't like that he finished every chapter with a transparent "here's a tantalizing tidbit of what's to come to segue into the next chapter, OH BOY!!" paragraph. Facile.

Typos, and poorly worded sentences galore. I wrote them down in the back of the book, and if the publisher is interested, I can produce them, but I don't see this book getting reprinted.

He gave up on the ending. You're reading along, noticing that there are only a few pages left, when Joel Stein sneaks up on you from the front with sledgehammer in hand and clocks you in the chin with his point.

Unfortunately, he didn't have a point. He tried to make one, but either didn't or couldn't, so all I'm left with is the part after he stopped telling the narrative. The "moral" or whatever you want to call it of this book (because there's no moralizing here, and calling it a "denouement" implies that there was tension to be resolved, which there really wasn't) came with the subtlety and grace of the last five minutes of an ABC sitcom about a working class family: Cue music, and LIFE LESSON.

Ideally I shouldn't feel the ending of a book coming, and if I do, this is the moment where the author needs to give me his best work. You dropped it Joel. You spent too much time researching the subject and not enough time making sure the book was good. For your next book, get a side hustle to pay the bills while you polish it.

And that is the way of the world.
16 people found this helpful
Helpful
Report abuse
    Showing 0 comments

There was a problem loading comments right now. Please try again later.


GPsy
5.0 out of 5 stars Funny and insightful
Reviewed in the United States on November 25, 2019
Verified Purchase
If you know Joel Stein from his TIME magazine days---when it was a magazine and not a pamphlet---you might expect some intentionally sophomoric humor. There is that, though some of the humor is on the junior, senior, college, and graduate school level. You may remember his serious articles there, too, which still doesn't quite prepare you for this book. We all know there is a great divide in America, but this book really makes you realize how serious it is and the threat that it poses to the society we all seem to want. Some of the jaw-dropping statistics reinforce the idea that there are no easy answers; people really do seem in live in different realities. From the title, you might suppose that Mr. Stein stereotypes the non-elite. He doesn't. Well, not much, anyway. No more than he stereotypes different kinds of elites. And he makes it clear that stereotyping and name-calling will not accomplish any sort of thoughtfulness or attitude change on the part of those we consider misguided. Despite the facetious title, this is a surprising nuanced and scholarly work, with laughs along the way.
8 people found this helpful
Helpful
Report abuse
    Showing 0 comments

There was a problem loading comments right now. Please try again later.


CarolTop Contributor: Coloring
4.0 out of 5 stars Funny but confusing
Reviewed in the United States on November 8, 2019
Verified Purchase
I was confused by the second part of this book. The first part described Stein's visit to Miami, TX, and the kindnesses he was treated with. He spoke of learning to like these non-elite people and missing them after he left. During the second help, he talked about his circle of elite friends and celebrities. While he apparently found them to be boorish and self-aggrandizing, I thought he never really came to a conclusion about his feelings regarding the two types of people. The book was wildly funny in many places, and he was self-deprecating about his own feelings and attitudes. However, in the end, I was left confused by what his real thoughts were and how he thought the two groups could someday learn to appreciate each other.
5 people found this helpful
Helpful
Report abuse
    Showing 0 comments

There was a problem loading comments right now. Please try again later.


MJ
4.0 out of 5 stars Hamartia of Elitism Exposed
Reviewed in the United States on December 27, 2019
Verified Purchase
With In Defense of Elitism, Joel Stein goes where few elites would dare step foot, intellectually or literally - to the panhandle, bible-thumping, gun-toting town of Miami, Texas. At this first stop on his tour of populist and elite hotspots of America, Stein elucidates a no-brainer: nobody is always right all the time about everybody else. That includes we elites.

What is my takeaway from this marvelous book, besides the fact that Stein is completely hilarious? That elites need a crash course in tolerance. Populists could use a big dose of it too, but at least when they do not demonstrate this virtue, they don’t pretend to possess it. The tragic flaw of elites is that they fail to see the hypocrisy in their own cries for tolerance and equality.

It was the “deplorables” moment that opened my eyes to the current trajectory of America. I fear that intellectual elites, of which I am admittedly one, have not learned from this unfortunate blunder. And time is running out for us. Perhaps all we elites need to start toting Reader‘s Digest crosses.
4 people found this helpful
Helpful
Report abuse
    Showing 0 comments

There was a problem loading comments right now. Please try again later.


Ben W.
5.0 out of 5 stars Great read. And more than what I expected!
Reviewed in the United States on November 20, 2019
Verified Purchase
I've been a big fan of Joel Stein's writing for quite some time, and so I was eager to buy this book and give it a read. I was expecting to get some hearty laughs from Joel's jokes and experiences, and he did not disappoint along this dimension. But I was pleasantly surprised to get a lot more than that.

Joel did a great job -- via interviews, life experiences, and a lot of research -- weaving a thoughtful, topical narrative around the divide that has emerged between the Intellectual Elites and the Populists, as well as how we all can come closer together rather than drifting farther apart. It's kept my mind thinking since I finished the book, and I hope it both entertains and provokes thought for many more.
5 people found this helpful
Helpful
Report abuse
    Showing 0 comments

There was a problem loading comments right now. Please try again later.


Franklin the Mouse
4.0 out of 5 stars Teasing The Gut Guessers
Reviewed in the United States on June 15, 2021
Verified Purchase
While Mr. Stein is exploring the serious topic of American populism, the addendum to ‘In Defense of Elitism’ makes it clear that humor is front and center in the book. I’m not sure the author can write more than two paragraphs without making a wisecrack. It’s all well and good because his humor was quite often hilarious and warranted me reading segments of the book aloud to my wife which also made her laugh. While Mr. Stein throws in an occasional statistic or two, they are not backed up with a bibliography citing his sources. Though I do not question the veracity of his information, it does highlight that ‘In Defense of Elitism’ is more of a lighthearted romp than a serious academic investigation.

Mr. Stein uses an odd mixture of arrogance and self-deprecation while recalling his “adventures.” He effectively uses humor to point out contradictions or inconsistencies in various people’s outlooks. The book begins with the author visiting Roberts County, Texas which had the highest percentage of voters (95.3%) who supported Trump for president in 2016. The week he spends with the friendly townsfolk highlights rural living and their outlooks that may often sound insane to urban dwellers. From my perspective, the people living the rural lifestyle are for embracing nostalgia, community, and a simple life. They find urban living very unappealing and overly bureaucratic. Mr. Stein frequently veers off the main topic by writing about such things as scorpions in his rented Texas bedroom, having to pee, the efforts of Christians trying to convert the author who is an atheist Jew, and the surfeit of homemade meals he consumed. The dude must’ve gained twenty pounds during his weeklong Texas visit. ‘In Defense of Elitism’ then pivots to elites’ obsession with networking, and the author shadowing the mayor of Los Angeles for a day. Some of the elitists’ observations and hopes were just as nutty as the rural folks’ polar-opposite opinions. Mr. Stein also writes about such things as his own obsession in networking with elites; interviewing Scott Adams (the creator of Dilbert), Tucker Carlson, and Bill Kristol about populism; creators of fake news; and identity politics. The paperback edition includes three additional chapters that examine the public reactions to the Covid-19 pandemic; loony QAnon; and the nature of conspiracy theories.

After-the-fact teasing is the common ingredient in ‘In Defense of Elitism.’ Mr. Stein is a self-proclaimed coward who rarely objects to people’s faces, but apparently has no qualms of ridiculing them in his book. Humor used in this manner is an attempt to lower a reader’s defenses and be open to different perspectives. Mr. Stein is smart and funny. Much like the HBO program ‘This Week with John Oliver,’ his use of humor and a serious issue (in this case, populism vs. elitism) makes Mr. Stein’s informative argument a pleasant way to pass the time.

(NOTE: In the paperback edition on page 312, he mentions an author named Erik Carson who wrote a nonfiction work about Winston Churchill during the Blitz. I believe he meant to say Erik Larson. The book Mr. Stein alluded to is titled ‘The Splendid and the Vile: A Saga of Churchill, Family, and Defiance During the Blitz.’)
2 people found this helpful
Helpful
Report abuse
    Showing 0 comments

There was a problem loading comments right now. Please try again later.


Amazon Customer
2.0 out of 5 stars Frustrating inconsistencies
Reviewed in the United States on July 1, 2020
Verified Purchase
I’ve long said I’m an elitist who just doesn’t think that today’s elites are very capable or cultured. I bought this with high hopes, which have been disappointed.

Things get off to an inauspicious start. He mentions in passing that the Middle Ages were a populist time. Beg your pardon? The Middle Ages were in fact one of the most structured and hierarchical periods in history. Strict religious rule by princes and cardinals are not the stuff of a populist Utopia.

Also early on in the book, Joel writes that only 20 or so colleges are worth going to. 20 pages later Joel is making fun of a preacher who thinks all college is stupid. Well, the only difference is Joel thinks 1,980 colleges are worthless and the preacher thinks 2,000 of them are worthless. Tu quoque.

Elsewhere Joel makes fun of Christians for thinking they’re discriminated against, but a few pages earlier he was sneering that elites don’t see much value in religion.

Maybe these inconsistencies are all cleverly resolved later on as Joel learns important lessons about empathy — I abandoned the book after too many of these oversights. If it is ultimately a book about lessons learned and how the elite and the populists do have a lot in common, then that doesn’t live up to the promise of a defense of elitism.

Unfortunately I’m walking away from the book further convinced that the problem isn’t with elitism per se, but with those people like Joel Klein claiming the elitist mantle in 2020 AD.
4 people found this helpful
Helpful
Report abuse
    Showing 0 comments

There was a problem loading comments right now. Please try again later.


Michelle H
4.0 out of 5 stars Funny, and also right. But mostly funny.
Reviewed in the United States on April 10, 2020
Verified Purchase
This book is hilarious, from introduction to acknowledgments. It's droll, and witty, and its best quality is that the author is ruthless (and right) in making fun of himself and people like him (read: you). By the end, he makes a case that's nearly lynch-worthy in today's world: to have empathy for people on both sides of the political spectrum, and LISTEN to them and their concerns and experiences. And yet, he still believes in science, in making decisions based on evidence not feelings, in vaccinating his children, in letting people who have experience and knowledge run the country instead of just whoever seems the most relatable, which is how you choose who to have a sandwich with, not who should be in charge of complicated things you don't understand.

It's an important lesson for our times, but more importantly, it's entertaining as all get out and let's be honest, the second is what's going to keep you reading to the last page.
One person found this helpful
Helpful
Report abuse
    Showing 0 comments

There was a problem loading comments right now. Please try again later.


  • ←Previous page
  • Next page→

Need customer service? Click here
‹ See all details for In Defense of Elitism: Why I'm Better Than You and You are Better Than...

Your recently viewed items and featured recommendations
›
View or edit your browsing history
After viewing product detail pages, look here to find an easy way to navigate back to pages you are interested in.

Back to top
Get to Know Us
  • Careers
  • Blog
  • About Amazon
  • Sustainability
  • Press Center
  • Investor Relations
  • Amazon Devices
  • Amazon Science
Make Money with Us
  • Sell products on Amazon
  • Sell apps on Amazon
  • Become an Affiliate
  • Become a Delivery Driver
  • Start a package delivery business
  • Advertise Your Products
  • Self-Publish with Us
  • Host an Amazon Hub
  • ›See More Ways to Make Money
Amazon Payment Products
  • Amazon Rewards Visa Signature Cards
  • Amazon Store Card
  • Amazon Secured Card
  • Amazon Business Card
  • Amazon Business Line of Credit
  • Shop with Points
  • Credit Card Marketplace
  • Reload Your Balance
  • Amazon Currency Converter
Let Us Help You
  • Amazon and COVID-19
  • Your Account
  • Your Orders
  • Shipping Rates & Policies
  • Amazon Prime
  • Returns & Replacements
  • Manage Your Content and Devices
  • Amazon Assistant
  • Help
EnglishChoose a language for shopping.
United StatesChoose a country/region for shopping.
Amazon Music
Stream millions
of songs
Amazon Advertising
Find, attract, and
engage customers
Amazon Drive
Cloud storage
from Amazon
6pm
Score deals
on fashion brands
AbeBooks
Books, art
& collectibles
ACX
Audiobook Publishing
Made Easy
Alexa
Actionable Analytics
for the Web
 
Sell on Amazon
Start a Selling Account
Amazon Business
Everything For
Your Business
Amazon Fresh
Groceries & More
Right To Your Door
AmazonGlobal
Ship Orders
Internationally
Home Services
Experienced Pros
Happiness Guarantee
Amazon Ignite
Sell your original
Digital Educational
Resources
Amazon Web Services
Scalable Cloud
Computing Services
 
Audible
Listen to Books & Original
Audio Performances
Book Depository
Books With Free
Delivery Worldwide
Box Office Mojo
Find Movie
Box Office Data
ComiXology
Thousands of
Digital Comics
DPReview
Digital
Photography
Fabric
Sewing, Quilting
& Knitting
Goodreads
Book reviews
& recommendations
 
IMDb
Movies, TV
& Celebrities
IMDbPro
Get Info Entertainment
Professionals Need
Kindle Direct Publishing
Indie Digital & Print Publishing
Made Easy
Amazon Photos
Unlimited Photo Storage
Free With Prime
Prime Video Direct
Video Distribution
Made Easy
Shopbop
Designer
Fashion Brands
Amazon Warehouse
Great Deals on
Quality Used Products
 
Whole Foods Market
America’s Healthiest
Grocery Store
Woot!
Deals and
Shenanigans
Zappos
Shoes &
Clothing
Ring
Smart Home
Security Systems
eero WiFi
Stream 4K Video
in Every Room
Blink
Smart Security
for Every Home
Neighbors App
Real-Time Crime
& Safety Alerts
 
    Amazon Subscription Boxes
Top subscription boxes – right to your door
PillPack
Pharmacy Simplified
Amazon Renewed
Like-new products
you can trust
   
  • Conditions of Use
  • Privacy Notice
  • Interest-Based Ads
© 1996-2022, Amazon.com, Inc. or its affiliates