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Depression Is a Choice: Winning the Battle Without Drugs Hardcover – October 3, 2001
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Print length496 pages
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LanguageEnglish
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PublisherHyperion
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Publication dateOctober 3, 2001
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Grade level8 and up
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Reading age18 years
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Dimensions5.5 x 8.25 inches
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ISBN-100786866292
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ISBN-13978-0786866298
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What if Prozac was not the best answer to depression? What if you could learn to think your depression away? What if you could "pull the plug" on depression any time you wanted? What if depression is a choice?
Of the more than 19 million Americans who suffer from depression, many will turn to Prozac or other psychotropic drugs for relief. Now psychotherapist A. B. Curtiss raises powerful questions about this trend -- pointing out that for most of us depression is not a disease to be cured by antidepressant drugs, which only offer temporary relief, but a necessary defense mechanism. She advocates a process called "directed thinking" to permanently manage depression.
While recognizing that in its most extreme forms depression is best treated through pharmaceutical and psychoanalytical intervention, Curtiss argues convincingly that most people can control their depressive tendencies without the use of drugs and without the burden of endless therapy. To illustrate this, she draws from her own experiences with depression, anecdotes from her practice, and a wealth of fascinating information about the history of the treatment of depression. This immensely readable, eye-opening, and extremely helpful book encourages those people to take responsibility for their symptoms, and gives them the steps they need to fight and win the battle against depression.
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My father and my brother were both diagnosed manic-depressives, as I was myself diagnosed with manic depression as a young woman in my thirties. My father died in a state of catatonic depression and my brother, who hasn't been able to work in almost twenty years. I was frightened by outcome of the drug treatment my father and my brother underwent so I stopped going to psychotherapists, went back to graduate school and became one. And I found the answer in the research of neuroscience and medical hypnosis.
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JOURNEY TO A CHOICE
The moment I felt depressed, it never occurred to me to do anything else but be depressed. The progression from a feeling of depression to being a depressed person was a foregone conclusion that I never questioned.
Depression always ends. Not because of Prozac. Not because of psychotherapy. Not because of psychoanalysis or shock treatments. Depression always ends because it is in the very nature of depression to end. The only question is, how can we get it to end sooner, the way we want it to, instead of later, which we hate?
The answer is that we have to learn to think about depression in a different way. But it is not going to be enough to simply consider new ideas from a safe distance. We have to get down on our hands and knees with a magnifying glass and crawl around inside of the beliefs we have for so long relied on. It is not going to be enough to consider what we think. We have to consider how we think because the problem of depression lies in the very gears of our thinking process.
To do this we must entertain some rather esoteric ideas that we cannot so easily dismiss with our ready-made answers. There are wonderful clues in ancient paradoxes, like koans: What is the sound of one hand clapping? These clues can reach beyond our normal considerations to some uninvented part of us that we are not normally in touch with. They help us learn to think sideways, intuitively, restructuredly -- all the better to match wits with our depression.
Depression makes us fear that we will never be truly happy because we see how our happiness can be blown away in an instant, like straws in a hurricane, and absolutely nothing remains to comfort us in our anguish.
We need not be afraid. We do not need comfort. It is not true that all our happiness has fled and what we are suffering is the pain of its loss. Our essential capacity for happiness is not something we can get back or acquire, no matter how hard we try, because it is our natural state. What happens is that depression covers over our natural state and tricks us into thinking that we don't have it anymore. When we properly address our depression, it relinquishes its hold upon us, and we find ourselves once again in the bedrock of our infinite okayness. Practically speaking, happiness is unlearned depression.
Our essential happiness is not conditional. Conditional happiness cannot pass for essential happiness any more than being serially grateful for disparate things can pass for a state of infinite and abiding gratitude. Conditional gratitude, where we see something that causes us to be grateful, is not the same as essential gratitude, where being grateful causes us to see something. Conditional happiness, the temporary excitement of having what we want, is not the same thing as essential happiness, the transcendent awareness that we can want what we have. Conditional happiness is a feeling that comes and goes. Essential happiness is our original state of well-being that is always available to us. It is not quantitative despite the fact that we think it depends upon some quantity of things or feelings we must have.
Depression is not quantitative, either, despite the fact that psychiatrists have labeled it a disease and divided it up into various classifications and diagnoses. Depression, like essential happiness, is qualitative. But depression is not our natural state, it is a state of alarm. When I began my career as a psychotherapist in 1987, I was as deeply afflicted with depression as anybody else who walked through my door looking for help. But no more. I have come to see depression in a revolutionary way, which has totally eliminated the whole idea of it as a disease in my life. After suffering with it for decades; after watching my brother struggle with the same ravages of manic depression that killed my father, I know, now, that it doesn't have to be that way.
There are 17 million people suffering with depression who are all seeking an answer to their hurt and pain. Ten years ago, as a result of my work as a cognitive behavioral therapist, my struggles with my own severe mood swings and my experiences with patients who came in for therapy, I discovered the real cause of depression. I haven't "been depressed" since that time.
*End notes were omitted
Copyright © 2001 A. B. Curtiss
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Product details
- Publisher : Hyperion; First Edition (October 3, 2001)
- Language : English
- Hardcover : 496 pages
- ISBN-10 : 0786866292
- ISBN-13 : 978-0786866298
- Reading age : 18 years
- Grade level : 8 and up
- Item Weight : 1.4 pounds
- Dimensions : 5.5 x 8.25 inches
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By 2005, I was at my wits end. The depression was clouding my judgment and I was no longer thinking rationally. I quit my job of 5 years with nothing lined up. I had saved enough money to get by for several months, but I had no plan and no goal. I was just desperate for help and didn't know where to turn. I went to the library and started looking at the psychology and self-help section. Something about the title caught my attention. Depression Is a Choice? I found a chair in a secluded corner of the library and started reading. As I read, something clicked. "Yes! This is what I've been looking for!", I thought. I read half the book before leaving the library, then checked it out and read the other half the next day. I liked it so much that I eventually bought my own copy, along with Curtiss' follow-up book "Brainswitching Out of Depression", on Amazon.
Since reading these books, I have only had brief episodes of depression. When I start to feel depressed, I just come back to these strategies and soon the cloud of depression has lifted.
I want to address two things:
1) The title. Curtiss isn't saying that people intentionally choose to be depressed. That would be a stupid assertion. She is saying that people often either don't realize that we have a choice to think something other than negative, depressive thoughts or they haven't been shown how to think differently. That is what this book and, especially the exercises in her follow-up book "Brainswitching Out of Depression" aim to accomplish: to teach you how to stop thinking negative thoughts.
2) Using prescription drugs to combat depression. I neither condone nor condemn the use of anti-depressants. They weren't the right solution for me, but others may get more help from them. Personally, I view them as a treatment, not a cure. I'm not a doctor, so I'm not going to say that nobody needs to use SSRIs or drugs to control depression, but I think a vast number of people could read this book or similar books and control their depression without resorting to drugs.
One of the many things that bothers me about this book is that the author does not even make an attempt to be fair and balanced in her views. She draws conclusions about things that she admits she knows very little or nothing about, for example; psychiatric medication. She dismisses them as being "happy pills" which is both completely unprofessional and simply uninformed. This is not wise when you are dealing with a subject so complex and of grave importance...especially to the sufferers of depression and manic depression themselves.
I want to be fair, because some might find material of value in this book. The problem is that it takes so much energy to seperate it from all the anti-psychiatry dogma, endless references to philosophers, abusively harsh judgements of people who are living in great pain, that, in the end, I don't think it is really worth the effort to read. An editor should have stripped away all the caustic negativity, rants and raves, and slimmed the volume down to about 100 pages or less.
With all due respect to the author, because I have bipolar disorder myself, I question whether she really has her illness under control. Waking up each morning in a state of utter despair does not sound to me like someone has found satisfactory treatment.
It also greatly bothers me that it is implied that mentally ill people don't use their will enough to better themselves. While this may sometimes be true, it is also often true that these people are exerting truly heroic willpower each day simply to stay alive. To call them "wimps" really does not help anyone. When one is in the depths of a manic, depressive, or mixed state, there is little willpower left.
While her descriptions of severe depression are more or less convincing, her descriptions of mania are a walk in the park compared to what I have experienced and what many people I know have experienced. Someone who is in a state of acute psychosis will not be helped much by repeating a prase such as "green frog." I also question the assertion that the mind can only think one thought at a time. If you beleive this, then you do not understand psychosis.
Re: Thomas Szazs, and others that call mental illness an unreality...they are taking an armchair approach to psychiatry. As when watching a football game, it is very easy to criticise from afar when you are not the one getting your bones broken by 300 lb defensive players. Anyone who has first hand experience with severe mental illness knows that it is all too real. The cause is irrelevant. The fact is people suffer, people die, often unecessarily. Being insensitive to their suffering only makes the problem worse. Judging a person who takes medication, when you don't understant their life...is just ignorance.
Thomas Szazs calls mental illness a "metaphorical illness"...which makes him a "pretend" psychiatrist, since, from what I gather, he did not actually treat any patients. He was primarily a "philosopher," who really wasn't interested in working directly with the mentally ill patients.
If my review seems to be rambling, ranting and raving, then don't read this book...it is even worse. I think the author is coming out with a second book, and it will be interesting to see if she makes any changes.
Dr. S. Brett Savage


