Diary of a Tired Black Man
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I did not like the in between acting. Again more bias. The man was made out to be a saint, while the women came off deranged and crazy. That's not the real world...the world consists of PEOPLE (men and women) who are not infallible.
The movie did touch on no good men, only to say in so many words that the women should make better choices in mates and not bring it to the next relationship. This documentary stressed the fact that women carry and harbor ill feelings and generalizations about men only to bring it to men who are good and have nothing to do with their past, which is a valid point. However, the creator/camera man continuously goes on to interview different people asking them questions similar to "how do you feel about angry black women?" To me thats seems very unfair and makes the movie come off like a contradiction.
Despite my negative review, I think it is a good watch if you can formulate your own opinion and not the opinion the author wants you to have.
i noticed that whenever a woman said things that didn't mesh with the interviewer's opinion, he was quick to ask, his voice oozing judgement, "do YOU have a man?" a woman who doesn't have a man isn't necessarily without one because she nags or puts men down. we're supposedly in the wrong if we stay with a man who isn't right for us or denigrated if we refuse to get involved with a man who doesn't meet our needs or to whom we're not attracted. we're either too picky or not picky enough. and there's certainly something wrong with a woman who helps her man out when he's in need but ends up getting screwed because he sees her as weak and a patsy. whatever choice a black woman makes, it will be seen by someone else as a bad choice.
this documentary doesn't hold men and women to the same standards. women are criticized for having children with more than one man, but i don't recall hearing the same criticism of a man who has randomly sprinkled his seed from one end of the country to the other and has more kids than he can count, let alone support.Read more ›
1) a completely one-sided presentation of a very complex issue (relationships among members of historically oppressed groups who have attained some integration, but are still impacted by a history of oppression and continuing discrimination);
2) so set up with comments edited and commentators baited that it is almost laughable. ("I find black American women... to be..." "Angry?" "... yes, some of them are angry.") I really have to wonder about the intellectual level of anyone who doesn't see the bias, because it is pretty heavy-handed bias.
3) an utter failure at delving into the interplay between men and women or within various parts of the African-American culture (and yes, it is not a monolithic culture, but a set of different ones, just like white people have more than one cultural community). Forget about dealing with different aspects of black culture, it doesn't even address the interplay between men and women. Instead everything is that either the woman is the problem because she doesn't appreciate good men or the woman is the problem because she chooses and then stays with bad men. Men of course have no responsibility, so should just forget about these troublesome black women and focus on women of other races, who know how to... well... not be like black women, whatever that means.Read more ›
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I was disappointed in this. I could not watch the entire thing.Published 3 months ago by Amazon Customer
While this film did touch on a few issues within the relationships of the black man and the black woman. It seems to lay the blame solely on he black woman. Read morePublished 4 months ago by Amazon Customer
I think that this movie is needed. Rarely do we get to hear the voice and feelings of Black men when it comes to relationships. Read morePublished 5 months ago by CSC
I thought it was a movie but it was different. once I got into the setup of it I thought it was pretty good. Read morePublished 5 months ago by Altheria Cruz