- Paperback: 352 pages
- Publisher: William Morrow Paperbacks; Revised ed. edition (January 19, 2010)
- Language: English
- ISBN-10: 0061863262
- ISBN-13: 978-0061863264
- Product Dimensions: 6.1 x 0.9 x 9.2 inches
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- Average Customer Review: 409 customer reviews
- Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #14,592 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
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“A godsend to the many divorcées who are bashed by their ex-spouses.” (Publishers Weekly)
“Divorce Poison is a must read for every parent involved in a hostile divorce.” (Dr. John W. Santrock, professor of psychology, University of Texas at Dallas)
“With the wisdom and insight of years of professional experience, Dr. Richard A. Warshak shows parents how to avoid the painful repercussions that result when a child becomes the pawn of parental conflicts. If you’re divorced and you love your child, read this book!” (Constance R. Ahrons, Ph.D., senior scholar Council on Contemporary Families, and author of The Good Divorce)
“An absolute must-read for any parent going through a divorce. Warshak lays bare the evils of parental alienation and gives readers the knowledge they need to defend themselves—and their children—against it.” (Armin Brott, author of The Expentant Father and The Single Father)
“A breakthrough book. . . . Original, well-written, balanced, and filled with insights, it is perfect for any parent who has been the victim of bad-mouthing.” (Warren Farrell, Ph.D., author of Father and Child Reunion and Why Men Are the Way They Are)
“Divorce Poison is destined to become a classic. Dr. Warshak’s sympathy for mothers, fathers, and relatives struggling to maintain their children’s affection is outweighed only by his compassion for the children themselves.” (Michael Gurian, author of The Wonder of Boys)
“This book is a testament to Dr. Warshak’s vast experience, erudition, and deep commitment to the prevention, diagnosis, and treatment of the various categories of alienated children.” (Richard A. Gardner, M. D., clinical professor of child psychiatry, Columbia University College of Physicians and Surgeons, author of The Parental Alienation Syndrome)
“Offers valuable advice, especially for those times when the going gets tough with your ex. It also helps you understand and heal your own hurts without hurting the children you love.” (Susan Jeffers, Ph.D., author of Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway and I'm Okay . . . You're a Brat!)
“Always painful, divorce can turn lethal when one parent attempts to poison the children against an ex-spouse. In this balanced, compassionate book, Richard Warshak offers vital advice to those caught in the emotional maelstrom of a bitter divorce.” (Mark Pendergrast, author of Victims of Memory)
From the Back Cover
Your ex-spouse is bad mouthing you to your children, constantly portraying you in a negative light, perhaps even trying to turn them against you. If you handle the situation ineffectively, your relationship with your children could suffer. You could lose their respect, lose their affections-even, in extreme cases, lose all contact with them. The conventional advice is to do nothing, that fighting fire with fire will only result in greater injury to the children. But after years of consulting parents who heeded such advice with no success, Dr. Richard Warshak is convinced that this approach is wrong. It doesn't work, and parents are left feeling helpless and hopeless. DIVORCE POISON instead offers a blueprint for effective response. In it, you will learn how to distinguish different types of criticism, how and why parents manipulate their children, how to detect these maneuvers, and how these practices damage children. Most importantly, you'll discover powerful strategies to preserve and rebuild loving relationships with your children.
DIVORCE POISON is a time-tested work that gives parents powerful strategies to preserve and rebuild loving relationships with their children-and provides practical advice from legal and mental-health professionals to help their clients and safeguard the welfare of children. Whether they are perpetrators of divorce poison, victims of it, or both, parents who heed Dr. Warshak's advice will enable their children to maintain love and respect for their parents-even if their parents no longer love and respect each other.
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I am also a parent who witnessed and experienced parental alienation or as Dr. Warshak defines it in this book "pathological alienation". The damage that is has done to my step-child is irreversible but there is hope. In this book Dr. Wrashak presents many ways on how to counteract Parental Alienation. He articulates "actions" such as self -restrain: self control against wanting to "lash-out" in the face of kids' rude and hateful behavior; maintaining contact: even when the kids complain and refuse Dr. Warshak doesn't recommend for parents to cease contact voluntarily - continue to exercise your rights and see your children regardless; developing a thick skin is another good action to consider to survive a campaign of hatred: Dr. Warshak articulates that one "must learn to withstand high levels of verbal aggression and provocative behaviors". This book is full of real life case examples that gives you chills when you read it because you can relate on so many levels.
I highly recommend the book to all helping professionals and parents who are living the nightmare of parental alienation. This is the best book out there on the parental alienation topic and will be an eye-opener for anyone who is going through divorce, or went though divorce or treating families of divorce.
This book is an excellent review of alienation and how to deal with it. Results are not guaranteed, but the book does provide a good roadmap for recognizing it and trying to counteract it.
If you or a loved one is dealing with alienated children, this book is an excellent reference