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Do Fathers Matter? the award-winning journalist and father of five Paul Raeburn overturns the lingering myths and stereotypes of bumbling dads and disciplinarian patriarchs through an in-depth and personal investigation of the latest scientific findings on the parent we've often overlooked. Drawing on research from neuroscientists, animal behaviorists, geneticists, and developmental psychologists, among others, Raeburn takes us through the various stages of fatherhood, revealing the profound physiological connections between children and their fathers, from conception through adolescence and into adulthood-and how these connections can help us become better parents ourselves.

Raeburn shows us how the role of the father is distinctly different from that of the mother, and that embracing fathers' significance in the lives of young people is something we can all benefit from. An engrossing and eye-opening book that makes a case for a new perspective on the fathers in our lives no matter what our family structure, Do Fathers Matter? will change the way we view fatherhood today.

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“Raeburn's book reveals the fascinating ways in which dads matter to children, and how children matter to dads . . . at center stage here is Raeburn's ability to present research in ways both engaging and clear.” ―Jenni Laidman, Chicago Tribune

“A thought-provoking field piece on the science of fatherhood, studded with insights on how to apply it in the real world” ―Alex Stone, The New York Times (Science)

“A zippy tour through the latest research on fathers' distinctive, or predominant, contributions to their children's lives, Do Fathers Matter? is filled with provocative studies of human dads--not to mention a lot of curious animal experiments . . . [Paul Raeburn] writes clearly, untangling cause from effect, noting probabilities and inserting caveats. . . he is an ideal guide to tricky, uncertain research in a nascent field. . . . father research cuts across disciplines, and Mr. Raeburn excels at mapping the twistiness of the road ahead.” ―Mark Oppenheimer, The New York Times

“Raeburn shows with mounting evidence the role of the father and his effect on the care and nurturing of children . . . As the father of a rapidly growing and changing little girl, I gained more from Raeburn's work than all the daddy lit put together.” ―Kent Black, The Boston Globe

“[Do Fathers Matter? is] a clear-eyed march through the history of family studies and a helpful review of the new generation of research devoted to identifying the impact of dads . . . [it] gathers an impressive diversity of studies into a single, highly readable volume, covering such topics as conception, pregnancy, infants, teenagers and aging fathers.” ―Bruce Feiler, The Washington Post

“[Raeburn's] lively tour through the latest research in biology, ethology, psychology, sociology and neuroscience is intriguing.” ―Joshua Kendall, Los Angeles Times

“A valuable, compelling book for fathers, mothers, grandparents and parents-to-be -- and perhaps even for their children . . . Do Fathers Matter? uncovers a trove of good research about fathers and parenting.” ―Kevin Begos, Associated Press

“[Do Fathers Matter?] aims to dispel [the] uncertainty about fathers' roles in their children's lives...Raeburn's broad argument--that fathers have been maligned, even though they matter as much as mothers--is convincingly made.” ―Joshua Rothman, The New Yorker

“[Do Fathers Matter] is dedicated to presenting the most remarkable of those hidden studies about dads to the layperson, and arguing that the evidence suggests fathers do matter, in ways that conform to conventional wisdom as well as in some that may be surprising.” ―Andy Hinds, The Daily Beast

“A wide-ranging plea for both genders to remember that dads are not also-rans in the business of child rearing.” ―Lenore Skenazy, The New York Times Book Review

“A good, solid piece of science journalism . . . stuffed with studies showing the vital role fathers play in their children's lives from the moment of conception, through the mother's conception onward.” ―Jeffrey Kluger, Time

“[Do Fathers Matter?] is astounding in its scope and perspective on fatherhood, with some of its revelations being downright shocking.” ―Janice Shaw Crouse, The Washington Times

“A warm, enjoyable collection of stories about the science of fatherhood . . . a highly readable account.” ―Peter B. Gray, Psychology Today

“When science journalist Paul Raeburn first assessed the available research on fathers, he found the pickings decidedly slim. Scientists are now redressing the balance, and Raeburn has rounded up key findings in developmental psychology, evolutionary biology, genetics and neuroscience.” ―Nature

“I recommend Do Fathers Matter? to anyone who has ever wondered if indeed fathers are as important as mothers when it comes to setting the stage for success later in life. My prediction is you will be able to relate to Raeburn's well-developed and wonderfully executed book in a way that will change the way you feel about both of your parents.” ―Aaron W. Hughey, Bowling Green Daily News

“As food for thought, [Do Fathers Matter?] provides an ample helping for anyone willing to look at the ways fathers are portrayed, the realities of male parenting and all the gray areas in between.” ―Kirkus Reviews

“Whisking readers through research in evolutionary biology, psychology, sociology, and genetics to provide a 'new understanding of the biology of fatherhood,' Raeburn is on comfortable ground discussing the hard science, such as the discovery of imprinted genes, and his personal concern about the 'medical price' paid by older fathers...Raeburn's attempt to promote the modern father as a 'similarly nurturing and attentive' parent might indeed help, as he hopes, prompt a more informed cultural conversation.” ―Publishers Weekly

“To answer the provocative question ‘Do fathers matter?,' Paul Raeburn draws extensively on cutting-edge science, animal research, neurobiology, and large-population studies. Anyone interested in parenthood, human development, and culture must read this thoughtful book.” ―Gretchen Rubin, bestselling author of Happier at Home and The Happiness Project

“A must-read book for anyone who cares about the well-being of children, Do Fathers Matter? is a scientifically rigorous paean to the importance of fathers. Writing with grace and clarity, Paul Raeburn turns conventional wisdom on its head and places fathers, right alongside mothers, on a well deserved pedestal.” ―Susan Cain, bestselling author of Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking

“A thoughtful, sensitive, and nuanced exploration of how fathers enrich the lives of children.” ―Robert E. Emery, Director of the Center for Children, Families, and the Law at the University of Virginia, and author of The Truth About Children and Divorce

“Dispelling one myth after another, Do Fathers Matter? offers a detailed, state-of-the-art map of a much neglected and misunderstood terrain--the unique, complex, and powerful role fathers play in the healthy development of children. From anthropological studies to the latest brain research, Paul Raeburn gives us a thorough, eye-opening, and moving account that will change your vision of men in families forever. A tour de force.” ―Terry Real, family therapist, founder of the Relational Life Institute, and bestselling author of I Don't Want to Talk About It, How Can I Get Through to You?, and The New Rules of Marriage

“Outdated myths and perceptions about fatherhood continue to exist, but Paul Raeburn's comprehensive, scientific approach lays them all to waste. If you doubt a father's importance or capabilities as a parent, this indispensable read should change your mind.” ―Doug French, cofounder, Dad 2.0 Summit

“Do fathers matter? Yes, they do, and Paul Raeburn shows us why, in the most engaging and illuminating way imaginable. Delving into psychology, biology, sociology, and history, Raeburn returns with rich insights and practical lessons for today's dads, and for the sons, daughters, and partners who love them. Do Fathers Matter? fills a gap in our knowledge about parenting, but it also opens broad new vistas that we scarcely knew existed--until the science of fatherhood, and its chronicler Paul Raeburn, came along to reveal them.” ―Annie Murphy Paul, author of The Cult of Personality Testing, Origins, and Brilliant: The Science of How We Get Smarter

“Paul Raeburn does a fantastic job of exploring the science of fatherhood as well as the myths that have affected how we think about fathers. With a keen understanding of science and a journalist's commitment to hard facts and data, he sheds light on what is known about men as fathers--and what's yet to be discovered. Ultimately, Raeburn answers the title's question, ‘Do fathers matter?,' with an emphatic yes.” ―Josh Levs, CNN journalist and "dad blogger," fathers' rights advocate, and author of a forthcoming book on modern fatherhood

About the Author

Paul Raeburn is a journalist and blogger and the author of four books, including Acquainted with the Night: A Parent's Quest to Understand Depression and Bipolar Disorder in His Children. Raeburn's stories have appeared in Discover, The Huffington Post, The New York Times Magazine, Scientific American, and Psychology Today, among many others. A past president of the National Association of Science Writers, Raeburn has been the chief media critic at the Knight Science Journalism Tracker; the science editor at BusinessWeek and the Associated Press; and the creator and host of Innovations in Medicine and The Washington Health Report on XM satellite radio. A native of Detroit, Raeburn now lives in New York City with his wife, the writer Elizabeth DeVita-Raeburn, and their two children.

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  • ASIN ‏ : ‎ B01L9DXHTW
  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Scientific American / Farrar, Straus and Giroux; Reprint edition (June 2, 2015)
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Paperback ‏ : ‎ 288 pages
  • Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 9.6 ounces
  • Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 5.52 x 0.79 x 8.21 inches
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Paul Raeburn (www.paulraeburn.com) is a blogger, media critic, writer, and the author of "Do Fathers Matter? What Science Is Telling Us About the Parent We've Overlooked," published in June, 2014. It's the first book to examine new research that shows the substantial contributions fathers make to their children. It will completely change our view of fatherhood, and offer many insights that can help men become better fathers.

Raeburn is also the author, most recently, of Acquainted with the Night: A Parent's Quest to Understand Depression and Bipolar Disorder in His Children, published by Broadway Books. He contributes to Discover, Scientific American, The New York Times Magazine, The Huffington Post, and Psychology Today, among many others.

His blogs include the Knight Science Journalism Tracker (ksjtracker.mit.edu), where he is chief media critic, and About Fathers for Psychology Today (psychologytoday.com/blog/about-fathers), which will be relatively quiet until he meets his book deadline.

Raeburn is a former senior editor and senior writer at Business Week, and former science editor and chief science correspondent at The Associated Press.

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  • Reviewed in the United States on May 9, 2017
    Great book, and very insightful. I highly recommend this to all parents. Petty differences aside, parents main priorities should be what's best for their child. This world is changing and that should include the roles of parents. Falling into societal roles and playing into parental biases based on gender is harmful and doesn't provide parents the opportunity to be at their best and most present.
  • Reviewed in the United States on February 27, 2015
    There are a lot of parenting books out there but not many that focus on the roll of the father. This book takes in depth look at fathers and how they contribute in the growth of their children. The book is definitely science based (duh read the title). While full of information on studies and experiments, it is also approachable and easy to read.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on November 18, 2018
    While not the most engaging book, the message is so needed today. What is it that fathers do for their children? How much do fathers matter? And what do children do for their fathers?

    As recently as a generation ago, in the 1970’s most psychologists and other “experts” had an easy answer to that question: not much. With regard in infants, especially, fathers were thought to have little or no role to play. In 1976, Michael E Lamb a developmental psychologist and pioneer in research on fathers, wrote that the emphasis on mothers in infants’ development was so one-sided that it seemed as if “the father is an almost irrelevant entity in the infant’s social world.” For decades, psychologists had assumed that the mother-infant relationship is unique and vastly more important than any contemporaneous, or indeed any subsequent, relationships.” The attachment to this nurturing and protective adult was supposed to give the infant an evolutionary advantage—even Darwin had endorsed this exclusive focus onto mother, the experts claimed, and who was going to argue with Darwin.

    It wasn't that scientist had studied and researched and found that mothers were the most integral component in an infants life—there actually was no research done to come to such a conclusion! Even today the research is still vastly lopsided. The author doesn't go into speculative territory about why this is the case, but he does show a lot of the implications that research on Fatherhood shows to have healthier kids and is good for the wife too. But its also good for the man.

    Raeburn shows lab data and clinical studies showing that fathers are an integral part of the healthy development of a child starting during the pregnancy period, where men go through hormonal changes along with their wives. But the biggest factor in the healthy development of the child if the father realizing that he does matter. There are good fathers and there are bad fathers. But a father who doesn't realize he matters, while he may not be a bad fathers, he wont rise to being a good father.

    Men that gave more time and energy towards involvement in fatherhood had higher self-esteem then those who didn’t. Cortisol (stress) levels in a child’s brain development is affected by nurturing fathers. Kids who felt their fathers had their back were more likely to have drive and ambition; vs those who felt they were on their own, who were stressed, were less likely to take risks in life later on. Fathers also strongly influence language development and other socialization skills.

    When a father had a warm relationship with his son, that son would grow up to be more like his father than sons who were not close to their fathers. A fathers own masculinity was irrelevant: his warmth and closeness with his son was the key factor

    Interactions bet fathers and their sons and daughters that are playful, affectionate, and engaging predict later popularity in school and among peers, perhaps by teaching children to read emotional expressions on their fathers faces, and later on those of their peer group.

    Researchers found a wide variety of beneficial social and psychological effects stemming from father’s direct engagement with their children. Children whose fathers played with them, read to them, took them on outings, and help to care for them had fewer behavioral problems in the early school years, and less likelihood of delinquency or criminal behavior as adolescence.

    Another particularly stunning result: fathers reading to seven-year-old girls and asking 16-year-old girls about school helped to prevent depression and other psychological ailments in the kids decades later.

    I wonder how fatherhood in the 50’s and 60’s affected that generation. The fathers were told indirectly that they didn't matter very much—that their biggest contribution was that of a bread-winner. Mothers would nurture and raise the children, after all they had the sacred bond with they child, not the father. But the mothers were stressed out and many were closet valium addicts, perhaps as a result of not enough help at home. After all this was the builder generation after WWII and they had a mission… to realize the American Dream.

    But is the dream empty or is it merely incomplete? Perhaps the American Dream is only realized when men and women are valued for their unique contributions to their families and society, different but equal.

    Paul Raeburn doesn't get interpret the data like that, thats up for the reader to decide. But he does show clearly that fathers do matter, and are necessary for a healthy family. But that also, children are integral for the healthy development for males to become men.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on December 12, 2014
    You can tell a lot about a book by the title (and character names, if this were fiction -- which it is not, but anyway...) and DO FATHERS MATTER is as straightforward of a title as any. I give the author props for fully answering the question in the affirmative. The book reads as a (heavily researched) collection of research studies summarized for your benefit. I found them fascinating but the one-study-after-the-next narrative flow of the book got a little old for me after the 8th or so study summarized. I don't fault the author for this -- note that word SCIENCE is clearly stated in the book title's byline.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on September 6, 2014
    This is a great book! I found the early chapters very insightful, as the author explores scientific and genetic reasons why fathers matter in the development of their children. As the book progresses (and the children age), some of the stories and studies become less impactful (for me), but the message is clear. This is a good read for new fathers, or any father.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on January 9, 2017
    I enjoyed this overall, because I'm always a sucker for books that put Dads in their rightful place in the family as a co-equal parent. And Raeburn writes for the layman in general, so explanations are mostly clear. Some of the research seemed a bit suspect in terms of its suppositions, especially where it was assumed that the researchers could understand how a thing had 'evolved', mostly without evidence. Otherwise, well worth reading, especially as an encouragement to fathers of all ages.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on October 7, 2016
    Do Fathers Matter?: What Science Is Telling Us About the Parent We've Overlooked is a review of the scientific research around fatherhood published in 2014. He covers a wide variety of topics from genetics and epigenetics to animal studies and a range of topics in between. The book allows non-scientific types to glean wisdom from the scientific research without having to read dense journal articles. It also brings together a variety of areas of scientific research, including genetics, psychology, biology and sociology. His conclusion, perhaps obvious, is that fathers do matter in ways that researchers 50 years ago would never have imagined. Read my complete review on my blog: [...]
  • Reviewed in the United States on November 28, 2014
    Paul Raeburn has written a wonderful, thoughtful, and scientifically supported book on the importance of fathers to their children. This is a call to fathers sidelined from their children's lives by divorce to persevere to be part of their children's lives. Father's are as essential as mothers for nurturing and raising children to lead balanced and happy lives.

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  • Anudeep S N Bhat
    5.0 out of 5 stars One word review: Awesome! A must buy.
    Reviewed in India on July 12, 2018
    Yes they definitely do! One word review: Awesome! A must buy.
  • Grant Whittal
    5.0 out of 5 stars A brilliant and eye opening read
    Reviewed in the United Kingdom on June 8, 2017
    Very insightful. A brilliant and eye opening read. ALL fathers and mothers should read this!
  • Ranger Dave
    5.0 out of 5 stars Great book, good price and shipped directly to my home
    Reviewed in Canada on March 1, 2015
    Becoming a dad for the first time comes with some interesting challenges, expectations or worries and I can't say the market isn't flooded with thousands of books for new upcoming fathers! I do a lot of my reading online and stumbled upon this book while reading a great article on the importance of fathers. I figure, I'll order one book and would commit to reading it. This was the one and I'm happy to say it provided a lot of food for thought, things to consider and even my wife was intrigued by some of it's interesting research. Great book and I definitely recommend.
  • Guillaume Duclouet
    5.0 out of 5 stars Un ouvrage surprenant et passionnant
    Reviewed in France on December 20, 2015
    Ce livre, presque unique en son genre, traite de l'influence qu'ont les pères sur leurs enfants, garçons ou filles, et sur les apports qu'ils peuvent apporter, à court, moyen et long termes, sur leur progéniture.

    Il s'agit tout d'abord d'un ouvrage très bien documenté. En effet, l'auteur, journaliste scientifique depuis de nombreuses années, s'est appuyé sur quantité de recherches récentes menées aux Etats-Unis sur le rôle des pères au sein de la famille. L'auteur précise d'ailleurs que, traditionnellement, les scientifiques se sont beaucoup plus intéressé au rôle des mères qu'à celui des pères. C'est en ce sens où l'on peut dire que cet ouvrage constitue une avancée capitale. Il est absolument certain que vous apprendrez une foule d'informations, parfois très étonnantes et surprenantes!

    En outre, cet ouvrage a été conçu pour vulgariser et rendre tout à fait accessibles au grand public toutes ces recherches. Le livre se lit presque comme un thriller, où l'on suit l'auteur mener son enquête à travers les Etats-Unis afin de donner au lecteur une image globale et complète de ce que la science connaît de l'impact des pères sur leurs enfants. Notons que l'auteur prend bien soin de ne pas extrapoler les découvertes des scientifiques.

    Ensuite, l'ouvrage parcourt une série de sujets passionnants: de l'influence génétique des pères sur leurs enfants au moment de la conception, à l'influence hormonale qu'ils ont sur l'enfant et sur la mère pendant la grossesse (et oui, c'est un véritable "ménage à trois"). De l'impact qu'ils ont sur le développement de l'empathie chez l'enfant (plus que les mères, ce qui paraît très surprenant au premier abord) à l'influence qu'ils ont sur la sociabilité de leur progéniture. De l'importance des pères dans l'éducation de leurs enfants, tant d'un point de vue "académique" que du point de vue du jeu. En effet, les pères ont une façon d'envisager le jeu avec leurs enfants qui se révèle très complémentaire de l'approche maternelle.

    Enfin, l'auteur aborde également ce qui arrive aux jeunes gens dont les pères sont absents (divorces, décès, fuite à la naissance...). Et l'impact se révèle terrible. L'absence d'un père dans le foyer se traduit par une bien plus grande propension à la promiscuité sexuelle à un jeune âge (pour les jeunes filles notamment), à la consommation d'alcool, de drogues douces ou dures, et à l'adoption de "comportements à risque" de manière plus générale. Les enfants n'ayant pas connu la présence prolongée d'un père "réussissent" en moyenne moins bien dans leur vie.

    Bref, ce livre démontre, méthodiquement, consciencieusement, avec humour et bienveillance, que les pères jouent un rôle fondamental dans ce que nous appelons la famille, aussi moderne soit-elle. A une époque où leur importance est de plus en plus contestée par un féminisme radicalisé et dévoyé, et où le nombre de familles monoparentales (souvent la mère) s'accroît, cet ouvrage permet de nous rappeler pourquoi la nature a envisagé le processus de reproduction avec deux sexes différents, chacun apportant le meilleur de ce qu'il est.
  • ANTONIO FERNANDEZ
    5.0 out of 5 stars Differential insights on fatherhood
    Reviewed in Spain on May 26, 2015
    Great and differential approaches and insights on fatherhood!!! I enjoyed a lot reading about hormones changes during pregnacy and first months...the studies about hormones and relationship with fatherhood and child development are very interesting.