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Dude, You're a Fag: Masculinity and Sexuality in High School Second Edition, With a New Preface
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- ISBN-100520271483
- ISBN-13978-0520271487
- EditionSecond Edition, With a New Preface
- PublisherUniversity of California Press
- Publication dateNovember 1, 2011
- LanguageEnglish
- Dimensions6 x 0.63 x 9 inches
- Print length250 pages
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“An incisive assessment.” ― Seattle Gay News
“Introspective, fascinating, consistently interesting.” ― Bay Area Reporter
“Current, typically salient, personally informative, [and] lively in style. . . . The exemplary fieldwork vignettes and case studies are abundant, rich, vivid, and experientially resonant. At the same time, [Pascoe] has thoroughly theorized her narrative, providing a fine conceptual vocabulary, a probing critical framework, and a set of intelligent practical recommendations.” ― General Anthropology Bulletin
“Academic, but accessible.” ― Bottom Line
"Pascoe is able to witness the quotidian rituals of heterosexual masculinity, its precariousness, its fragility and ultimately, its dangerous lashing out at all that can undermine it." ― Social Forces
"Pascoe gives a fly-on-the-wall experience of sexuality in high school." ― Journal of Gender Studies
"Pascoe's work challenges research on gender, and specifically masculinity, to address sexuality, race, and other significant factors as aspects of the social construction of masculinities." ― Gender & Society
"Not only is the information interesting and relevant to our society, but Pascoe’s book is a great representation of ethnographic protocol." ― Lambda Alpha Journal
"Usefully calls for a more sophisticated approach to issues surrounding teenage sexuality, masculinity and power than is generally enabled by uncritical applications of a generic notion of homophobia." ― Culture, Health, & Sexuality
"The book nicely illustrates how masculinity comprises thoughts and ideas that are collectively defined and asserted, and how salient such issues are for high school students." ― 126 Spaces for Difference: An Interdisciplinary Journal
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"This is a strikingly original study of schoolboys renegotiating class, gender, and ethnicity, along with the labeling as 'fag'. Here homophobia is at work in a path breaking study, which is also a highly readable must-read."Ken Plummer, University of Essex, and editor of Sexualities
"We know that schools are a central site for the construction of gender identity, but until C. J. Pascoe's careful and compassionate ethnography, we haven't known exactly how gender conformity is extracted from a slurry of humiliations, fears, and anxieties. Boys will not be boys unless they are made to be, by violence, real or implied. A troubling, thoughtful work."Michael Kimmel, author of Manhood in America
"Pascoe's thoughtful analysis of the rhetorical and interactional processes that constitute the field of masculinity for young, high school men coming of age is rich and engaging. With fresh insight and careful observation, Pascoe sheds new light on the complex interplay of masculinity, homophobia, sexuality, and the body, compelling us to rethink the formation of gender identities, collective gender practices, and the reproduction of gender inequalities."Amy L. Best, author of Prom Night: Youth, Schools and Popular Culture and Fast Cars, Cool Rides: The Accelerating World of Youth and Their Cars
"In this superb ethnography of daily life in a contemporary high school, C. J. Pascoe highlights the sexualized dynamics of youthful masculinity. With vivid detail and perceptive analysis, she examines the 'fag talk' which pervades boys' conversations; the convergence of gender, sexual, and racialized practices in school rituals like the 'Mr. Cougar' contest; and the experiences of girls who display themselves as masculine. The result is a book that breaks fresh ground in masculinity and gender studies-and is a very good read!"Barrie Thorne, author of Gender Play: Girls and Boys in School
From the Back Cover
"This is a strikingly original study of schoolboys renegotiating class, gender, and ethnicity, along with the labeling as 'fag'. Here homophobia is at work in a path breaking study, which is also a highly readable must-read."―Ken Plummer, University of Essex, and editor of Sexualities
"We know that schools are a central site for the construction of gender identity, but until C. J. Pascoe's careful and compassionate ethnography, we haven't known exactly how gender conformity is extracted from a slurry of humiliations, fears, and anxieties. Boys will not be boys unless they are made to be, by violence, real or implied. A troubling, thoughtful work."―Michael Kimmel, author of Manhood in America
"Pascoe's thoughtful analysis of the rhetorical and interactional processes that constitute the field of masculinity for young, high school men coming of age is rich and engaging. With fresh insight and careful observation, Pascoe sheds new light on the complex interplay of masculinity, homophobia, sexuality, and the body, compelling us to rethink the formation of gender identities, collective gender practices, and the reproduction of gender inequalities."―Amy L. Best, author of Prom Night: Youth, Schools and Popular Culture and Fast Cars, Cool Rides: The Accelerating World of Youth and Their Cars
"In this superb ethnography of daily life in a contemporary high school, C. J. Pascoe highlights the sexualized dynamics of youthful masculinity. With vivid detail and perceptive analysis, she examines the 'fag talk' which pervades boys' conversations; the convergence of gender, sexual, and racialized practices in school rituals like the 'Mr. Cougar' contest; and the experiences of girls who display themselves as masculine. The result is a book that breaks fresh ground in masculinity and gender studies-and is a very good read!"―Barrie Thorne, author of Gender Play: Girls and Boys in School
About the Author
Product details
- Publisher : University of California Press; Second Edition, With a New Preface (November 1, 2011)
- Language : English
- Paperback : 250 pages
- ISBN-10 : 0520271483
- ISBN-13 : 978-0520271487
- Item Weight : 12 ounces
- Dimensions : 6 x 0.63 x 9 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #156,179 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- #144 in Men's Gender Studies
- #271 in General Gender Studies
- #488 in Cultural Anthropology (Books)
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About the author

CJ Pascoe is an Associate Professor of Sociology at University of Oregon. She teaches courses on sexuality, social psychology, deviance, gender and education. Her current research focuses on gender, youth, homophobia, sexuality and new media. Dude, You're a Fag: Masculinity and Sexuality in High School, won the American Educational Research Association's 2007 Book of the Year Award. Dude documents the relationship between homophobic harassment, heterosexism and masculinity in high school. In it she suggests ways we might begin to redefine gender norms that are damaging to both boys and girls. She received her B.A. in Sociology from Brandeis University in 1996 and a Ph.D. in Sociology from the University of California, Berkeley in 2006.
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Customers find the book easy to read and insightful. They say it provides a good perspective on how children grow up in society. However, some readers feel the writing is dry if not an academic.
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Customers find the book readable and insightful, especially when it links multiple theories. They say it's a good read for college freshman. However, some find it dry if not an academic reader.
"...Very good read into masculinity at the high school level." Read more
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"Great read even for a class I enjoyed it!" Read more
"I liked the book. It is believable that such a policing of male sexuality does go on in high schools...." Read more
Customers find the book insightful and compelling. It provides a good perspective on how children grow up in society. The overall argument is interesting and incorporates institutional and interactional aspects. Readers find it helpful to know what kind of information and reading material is out there for teens.
"...a few issues I was dealing with and helped develop new strategies for coping with their adolescence..." Read more
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- Reviewed in the United States on January 25, 2015I read this book for an intro to sociology class and had to give a presentation on the book. Let's just say I did not have an issue reading and presenting on the book, but the high school boys that I was with did not. They though the book was about something other than what it was. Very good read into masculinity at the high school level.
- Reviewed in the United States on May 31, 2018I teach high school and this book gave me a whole new perspective on teenage boys. If you struggle with their behavior in any way, I highly recommend reading this. It certainly explained a few issues I was dealing with and helped develop new strategies for coping with their adolescence (just when you thought you finally survived your own...). We now have several copies in our school library and certain key faculty have begun reading it.
Enlightening.
- Reviewed in the United States on January 31, 2014A fascinating ethnography and vivid look into the often horrifically sexualized nature of high school. Pascoe witnesses some remarkable behavior from teens and her findings of just how compulsive boys and girls are to be masculine will leave you incredulous. She may have her own biases behind her interpretations and is often quick to jump to the most anti normative viewpoint possible. Take her analyses with a dose of skepticism and you will still be amazed by her findings.
- Reviewed in the United States on May 19, 2013As someone who is going to school to be a counselor for teens this book was great. It is helpful to know what sort of information and reading material is out there for the teens, and this is also a great look at how we socialize kids to be what we think they should be. The shoe doesn't fit every kid so we have to help them make their own shoe that fits them.
- Reviewed in the United States on June 13, 2017good read, especially when she links multiple strands of theory together.
- Reviewed in the United States on April 18, 2017The title is provocative, eye-catching, makes you pick up the book and see what's going on here. The book isn't exciting or gripping. It is a dry research study that reads like the scholarly piece it is. The whole thing is basically the movie Never Been Kissed... in that the author, C.J. Pascoe, goes into "River High," the alias of the high school in which she dove to do her observations and interviews on adolescents' interactions. The book is dense; extremely academic material. You could spend hours dissecting one chapter in a classroom lecture at a university, certainly. But for the content within, the title is so far from what lies behind the cover. I had to keep the book in a drawer so it would not offend anyone at work. What you get with this book is excellent material for your own undergraduate or graduate research paper, but not really an entertaining recreational read.
- Reviewed in the United States on March 24, 2018Great read even for a class I enjoyed it!
- Reviewed in the United States on September 25, 2017Every wisecrack is homophobia. A teacher telling ESL students that Q and U are married is heteronormative. Why aren't hypothetical letters queer trying to adopt?? This type of thinking is so profoundly stupid I am having trouble getting through the first pages. This is required reading for my sociology class, unfortunately. Seek and ye shall find, indeed. Every single interaction has the capability to be offensive. I'm surprised the author can get out of bed in the morning without having a breakdown. I absolutely despise this book and the entire premise.
Top reviews from other countries
AlexandraReviewed in Canada on December 29, 20195.0 out of 5 stars Good
Interesting topic, bought for a class and enjoyed the read.
AprobableoserReviewed in Canada on February 22, 20175.0 out of 5 stars Five Stars
A fantastic book on confronting your own faggotry
James A.Reviewed in Canada on February 7, 20175.0 out of 5 stars Five Stars
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Reviewed in Canada on February 7, 2017
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RieReviewed in Canada on October 16, 20222.0 out of 5 stars Book is great but I'm pretty sure I never got it
I ended up reading this book online instead for my class. Excellent book!! But, I didn't think I had ordered it because I never received anything? I only just saw that apparently I ordered it?


