Is maturity learning to forgive people who have screwed you over? Sometimes, if it's deserved. Do you forgive people who just say sorry? And you know they don't mean it? Do you forgive people who even though they are suppose to have your back choose to abandon you and use you? I think this film asked viewers to be masochistic. It asks us to allow people to use us and throw us away. The acting was ok. I could do without the black/white. What happens when those people repeat the same action again? Do you forgive them again because that's the adult thing to do? That's not adulting! That's being a doormat. If this were the other way around, would we demand the woman to be an "adult" and forgive her FIANCE? I doubt it. I wanted to stop watching this movie about halfway through. But I pushed myself to the finish line, even though I already hated it because I wanted to have an informed opinion, but it never redeemed itself. It doesn't show reality; it instead pushed the agenda that one should be a doormat. My question is, when is "I'm sorry" not acceptable anymore? When do you just walk away and say the pain isn't worth it? Do you allow yourself to be trampled once or twice or 17 times? What number represents being an adult? The movie misses the point that nobody is an adult. NOBODY. We say, act like an adult all the time because it's all illusion. The concept of adult is a social construct that forces people to be productive members of society. If this is the case, then going to college, getting the safe job, marrying a nice woman, having 2.5 kids, and a white picket fence is adulting. Don't! Take the risk to try something new because that wouldn't be the adult thing to do. What should gay men and women do? The adult thing to do for all the gays in the past would be to just be an adult and stay in the closet. The adult thing to do would be for women to just continue to be property. "Adult" is a narrative we project to the world. Paying bills on time and talking care of your "responsibilities" is just shit you have to get done. People can do that, but still not be "adults". Your kids are fed and clothed and you spend time with them. You pay your bills on time and arrive to work on time. But you could be, I don't know, cheating on your wife, or spending money on a dumb online game. Someone will say, the adult thing to do is be true to your commitments and to save that money for a rainy day. But that person saying it, I'm sure, is hiding their own bullshit. We can say that, well the movie is showing one perspective on adulting. If this is the case, would leaving those cheating bastards behind also be another perspective? If this is the case, why write the movie this way? In then end, I'm just left pissed off and I feel dirty thinking I'm being asked to be a doormat.