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About Elora Canne
Elora speaks with raw openness about her relationships across all dynamics. She reveals nuances that expose her insecurities and resultant growth with naive honesty. Elora shows us how she copes with mother-guilt, people-pleasing and intimacy with an unusual blend of insight, pain and resolution. Her candid disclosures are sometimes sombre, sometimes humorous, always enlightening.
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Collective growth that makes the world a better place.
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Blog postQ & A Friday Recently, I put a question to readers on my social media, asking what they wanted to know about relationships and/or personal growth. The two go hand-in-hand in my opinion.
If you'd like to contribute to this post for next week's blog, click here: Your Burning Questions Answered
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Frida Kahlo
Cover image from the book;Frida Kahlo's Garden
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Do you know?
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I’ll tell you when: TODAY!
Today is the day you get to live the life of your dreams!
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Titles By Elora Canne
EN ROUTE: The Best Is Yet To Be
Feb 3, 2022
by
Elora Canne
$2.99
Travel the world with Elora as she navigates external and internal delights on her path to finding her voice.
Elora speaks openly and with vulnerability about her relationships across all dynamics.
EN ROUTE: The Best is Yet To Be - covers the challenges and elations of travelling in a campervan, fighting off cabin fever and coyote's and peeling away relationship detritus as Elora and her husband travel the world. A sizeable segments of their travels included family and friends which came with its own humour of entanglement and unexpected train rides. Included are the growing pains endured along the way as Elora discusses her angst in coping with what should be a memorable adventure.
Elora's candid disclosures are sometimes sombre, sometimes humourous, always enlightening.
REVIEW:
By Barbara Randell
Elora takes us on a world tour, through America, Europe, England, Scotland, Wales and Ireland, South Africa, and even parts of Australia. We visit some tourist sites, but do not see them through the glitz and glamour of the tourist brochures. Most of the time, we visit places that tourists never see, the homes of people just like us, but whom we have never met.
Elora’s husband is her constant companion through her travels, and we learn about their mutual likes and dislikes. Learning to accept and love each other more strongly, despite those differences, is one of the outcomes of their travels.
Frequently they are joined by other family members, and close friends. Elora watches their interaction with each other, and draws lessons from them, which should benefit us all. She returns home, a wiser stronger woman.
Elora speaks openly and with vulnerability about her relationships across all dynamics.
EN ROUTE: The Best is Yet To Be - covers the challenges and elations of travelling in a campervan, fighting off cabin fever and coyote's and peeling away relationship detritus as Elora and her husband travel the world. A sizeable segments of their travels included family and friends which came with its own humour of entanglement and unexpected train rides. Included are the growing pains endured along the way as Elora discusses her angst in coping with what should be a memorable adventure.
Elora's candid disclosures are sometimes sombre, sometimes humourous, always enlightening.
REVIEW:
By Barbara Randell
Elora takes us on a world tour, through America, Europe, England, Scotland, Wales and Ireland, South Africa, and even parts of Australia. We visit some tourist sites, but do not see them through the glitz and glamour of the tourist brochures. Most of the time, we visit places that tourists never see, the homes of people just like us, but whom we have never met.
Elora’s husband is her constant companion through her travels, and we learn about their mutual likes and dislikes. Learning to accept and love each other more strongly, despite those differences, is one of the outcomes of their travels.
Frequently they are joined by other family members, and close friends. Elora watches their interaction with each other, and draws lessons from them, which should benefit us all. She returns home, a wiser stronger woman.
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Elora Canne
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Re-igniting stagnant relationships is fun, exciting and very possible!
With experience from our fun Date Year experiment, we can show you how to create new life in your relationship through simple everyday living.
Fun, love, healthy relationships and connection is where this book will lead you.
With experience from our fun Date Year experiment, we can show you how to create new life in your relationship through simple everyday living.
Fun, love, healthy relationships and connection is where this book will lead you.