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FEMDOM: How To Make Your First BDSM Scene Amazing: For Dominant Women ('How To' Femdom Guides Book 3) Kindle Edition

by Sharyn Ferns (Author) Format: Kindle Edition
Practical steps that will help you stride into your first BDSM play session with kick-ass confidence

This book is for new dominant women who are anticipating their first BDSM scene. It's an exciting time, but it can also be nerve-wracking because no matter what, first times can be scary, and there isn't a lot of really practical advice out there to help.

When I was new, I just wanted someone to tell me 'how to do it', to give me concrete advice and help, so I had a starting point from which to make my way. This is that 'how to' guide.

This short, sharp guide delivers 13 easy steps to help you make your first BDSM scene amazing.

It takes some of the pressure off (yes, that pressure you are putting on yourself) with practical, actionable steps that will help you feel more confident and kick-ass going into your first scene.

It covers how to:

    • Choose what activities to do in your scene

    • Put together the flow

    • Start and end well

    • Look after your submissive in scene

    • Build your confidence and manage your nerves before and during play

    • Handle it when something doesn't work

    • Leave your submissive wanting more

    • Do aftercare


    It also includes a worked example of how I would use these steps to plan my own BDSM scene so you can see what it looks like in practice.

    BONUS: FREE BDSM Scene Planner: This planner will help you use the information in this guide to plan and run your scene.


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    Editorial Reviews

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    Fern's advice literally got me through my first few playtimes by helping me be organized, confident and adjusting my expectations. -Violet Fawkes
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    Thank you so much for your book. I received it just two days before I was going to dominate a big man of 6'2 whom until then has been my dom. I read the book and did all the things you suggested. Today we did it! And it went great and I felt amazing. I kept it short just to give him a taste of this and that and I didn't change my own character either.
    -A New Domme
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    This is such a good book on how to plan a great BDSM scene.

    As a male Dom, this book came to my attention and because I enjoy Sharyn Ferns' style of writing and approach to BDSM, I wondered if it might be useful for male doms not just femdoms.

    I decided to email the author and ask her directly if she thought there was something in it for male doms as well. She very nicely told me there was.

    Once I downloaded it, I realized she had understated just how good this book is for male dominants. It is just what it says on the tin - except it's not only femdoms who can use it - and has     everything a male dom could want to plan a great first scene with his submissive.

    It contains short, actionable steps in a book that I devoured in one reading. All content, no fluff. No boring filler pieces, this book gets straight to the point and takes you step by step into making a plan that you can actually use to create an amazing first scene to blow your sub's mind, and give you the satisfaction that comes from experiencing it all coming together.

    At the end of the book there's a final download - a scene planner that takes content from each chapter and ties it all together into one planner that you use to plan out your scene. It's easy to use and works beautifully!

    Again, I can't stress enough, even though this is aimed at dommes, it's gold for a male dom wanting to plan an incredible scene for his sub as well. Just about everything in it can be used by a Dom of either gender.

    I used this to plan out a scene with a new lady friend which came to fruition just last last night, it was the hottest scene I've been in to date, and ended up with both of us screaming in ecstasy at different times. Using ideas from this book was key in generating the hotness of the encounter.

    I can't recommend this book highly enough.

    Get it if you are a female OR male dominant who wants to plan an amazing BDSM scene.

    It works.
    -G. Knight, Goodreads

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    Sharyn Ferns

    Sharyn Ferns

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    Sharyn Ferns is an Australian author, dominant, top femdom sex blogger, beach dweller, and avid reader. Passionate about what she does, her books are truth-driven, fierce, and original.

    Join her mailing list: https://www.domme-chronicles.com/link/mailing-list

    She is lucky enough to live at the beach where she listens to the surf while she writes. She says it really is just as idyllic as it sounds.

    Her books about female dominance and male submission focus on passion-led happy femdom relationships full of love and affection and incredible hotness. She shares people's joyful stories in her 'Happy Femdom' books, she helps newbies with her 'How To' femdom series, and she also writes scorching-hot femdom erotica in her Domme Chronicles book.

    You can learn more than you ever wanted to know about her on her Domme Chronicles blog (https://www.domme-chronicles.com) where you will also find links to her other social media accounts and her podcast where she obsessively over-shares.

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