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FEMDOM: How To Find A Dominant Woman: For Submissive Men ('How To' Femdom Guides Book 2) Kindle Edition


Simple, practical steps to help submissive men find the dominant woman of their dreams

This 'How To' Femdom guide is for submissive men who are looking for an ongoing relationship with a dominant woman and who have tried any number of things without success. Whether you are seeking a romantic partnership with all the D/s trimmings, a female led relationship (FLR), an ongoing ‘friend with kinky benefits’, or a long term BDSM play partner, this guide gives helpful actionable no-nonsense advice to get you on your way.


    • Things to do before you start (i.e. 'figuring some shit out on your own')

    • Places to meet dominant women (online & in RL, BDSM & vanilla spaces)

    • How to figure out if you're compatible (busting the myth of 'me sub, you domme = yay!')

    • How to approach dominant women (online & in RL, dos and don'ts)

    • How not to get in your own way (avoiding common mistakes)

    • Five steps for writing a great introductory note (not formulaic or a template: genuine thoughtful help. This is a major hurdle for many promising newbies)

    • Examples of introductory emails that actually worked

    • Warning: How to spot online scammers



    As an experienced dominant woman, I've been on the other side of many interactions with submissive men, and I've talked to thousands of F/m folks over the years about their experiences: I know that well meaning fabulous submissive men can get in their own way without even realising it.

    So let me help you get on the right path.

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    Sharyn Ferns
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    Sharyn Ferns is an Australian author, dominant, top femdom sex blogger, beach dweller, and avid reader. Passionate about what she does, her books are truth-driven, fierce, and original.

    Join her mailing list: https://www.domme-chronicles.com/link/mailing-list

    She is lucky enough to live at the beach where she listens to the surf while she writes. She says it really is just as idyllic as it sounds.

    Her books about female dominance and male submission focus on passion-led happy femdom relationships full of love and affection and incredible hotness. She shares people's joyful stories in her 'Happy Femdom' books, she helps newbies with her 'How To' femdom series, and she also writes scorching-hot femdom erotica in her Domme Chronicles book.

    You can learn more than you ever wanted to know about her on her Domme Chronicles blog (https://www.domme-chronicles.com) where you will also find links to her other social media accounts and her podcast where she obsessively over-shares.

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