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FEMDOM: How To Handle Disobedience: For Dominant Women ('How To' Femdom Guides Book 4) Kindle Edition


“My submissive won’t do what I want!”

This is a common complaint, especially for new dominant women. You aren't alone.

Whether your submissive forgets to do things you've asked of them, or doesn't complete tasks you set, or thinks it’s fun to disobey, or outright says 'no' when you ask something of them, this guide is for you.

As a new Domme, disobedience can shake your confidence and leave you struggling because you just aren't sure what to do. Maybe you’ve tried a bunch of tactics to get your dynamic back on track, but it hasn’t worked out as you’d hoped.

This short, sharp, practical 'How To' femdom guide is for you.

Discover how you can build a dynamic that makes your submissive fall over themselves to obey you, and learn some clear, simple steps to handle it if they don’t.

This guide describes 5 practical steps (SLAPS*) that will help you handle your submissive’s disobedience, develop your confidence in dealing with issues in the dynamic, and strengthen your relationship in the process.

*This guide contains no actual slaps!

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It's an easy book to read. It contains lots of common sense about managing expectations and handling communication issues. Some of Fern's examples struck far too close for home for my comfort. I could totally see myself in that situation. And interestingly, I could see my wife on the other end of it. And there's the rub.

For me, it changed the relationship I had with my wife.

Just reading the book knowing she'd already read it provided the impetus required to stop my shit and play the game properly. As a somewhat reluctant submissive, but with a desire to have my wife enjoy her desires, adopting Fern's practices proved remarkably effective.

This book is arguably just as important for the submissive to read. To understand the impact that disobedience has on the entire relationship and on the dominants confidence. But perhaps better, it provides a nice prescriptive step-by-step approach to safely break out of an uncomfortable moment in order to progress the relationship.

I recommend it.
- A Happy Submissive

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Sharyn Ferns
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Sharyn Ferns is an Australian author, dominant, top femdom sex blogger, beach dweller, and avid reader. Passionate about what she does, her books are truth-driven, fierce, and original.

Join her mailing list: https://www.domme-chronicles.com/link/mailing-list

She is lucky enough to live at the beach where she listens to the surf while she writes. She says it really is just as idyllic as it sounds.

Her books about female dominance and male submission focus on passion-led happy femdom relationships full of love and affection and incredible hotness. She shares people's joyful stories in her 'Happy Femdom' books, she helps newbies with her 'How To' femdom series, and she also writes scorching-hot femdom erotica in her Domme Chronicles book.

You can learn more than you ever wanted to know about her on her Domme Chronicles blog (https://www.domme-chronicles.com) where you will also find links to her other social media accounts and her podcast where she obsessively over-shares.

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