- Series: Family Titles
- Paperback: 53 pages
- Publisher: Soli Deo Gloria Ministries (June 2003)
- Language: English
- ISBN-10: 1573581267
- ISBN-13: 978-1573581264
- Product Dimensions: 8.4 x 5.6 x 0.2 inches
- Shipping Weight: 2.9 ounces
- Average Customer Review: 4.7 out of 5 stars See all reviews (6 customer reviews)
- Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #3,667,714 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
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A Family Well-Ordered (Family Titles)
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Among his many writings, we find this little gem: A Family Well-Ordered, or An Essay to Render Parents and Children Happy in One Another. Long before James Dobson got us to focus on our families, Mather communicated guidelines for the family drawn from scripture.
Mather's style will put off many readers. Not to elevate his writing to the place of scripture or classic literature, but if a reader is not comfortable reading the King James Bible or the plays of Shakespeare, he will probably not enjoy Mather's verbosity. For example: "Let our authority effectually keep our children from all their unruly exorbitances and extravagancies." In my opinion, it's good for the brain to read things that will demand a bit more from you and perhaps expand your vocabulary.
Mather writes about the parents' duty to their children, and the children's duty to the parent. Above all else, he writes, parents must do all in their power to see that their children come to know the Lord. This can be done through teaching, but more important is parental modeling: "Parents, be exemplary. Your example may do much towards the salvation of your children; your works will more work upon your children than your words; your patterns will do more than your precepts, your copies more than your counsels."
From the children, they should know that they risk the wrath of God if they don't honor their parents. They should treat their parents with reverence, obedience, and recompense. He even extends this to treatment of teachers, bosses, and, in a section that is revolting to modern readers, slaves' treatment of their masters. This section especially dates A Family Well-Ordered, but the overall message is as contemporary and timeless as the countless scriptural reference Mather sprinkles throughout his exposition. It may not be as easy to read as a James Dobson book, but A Family Well-Ordered is relevant and challenging.
Like CS Lewis said, "It is a good rule, after reading a new book, never to allow yourself another new one till you have read an old one in between. If that is too much for you, you should at least read one old one to every three new ones.
Every age has its own outlook. It is specially good at seeing certain truths and specially liable to make certain mistakes. We all, therefore, need the books that will correct the characteristic mistakes of our own period. And that means the old books. All contemporary writers share to some extent the contemporary outlook--even those, like myself, who seem most opposed to it."