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Finding Kansas: Living and Decoding Asperger's Syndrome Paperback – April 3, 2012

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Product Details

  • Paperback: 240 pages
  • Publisher: TarcherPerigee; 1 edition (April 3, 2012)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0399537333
  • ISBN-13: 978-0399537332
  • Product Dimensions: 5.5 x 0.6 x 8.3 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 8 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.6 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (50 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #33,686 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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Aaron Likens has done remarkable things but first he started out as a seriously annoying disruptive kid. He hated school; most kids do, but Aaron HATED school. He was bored, mostly, but also not functioning on the same level as his peers. By the time he was six, Aaron couldn't play monopoly with his dad because he always won. Always.
Taken to counseling he was compared to....wait for it.....the Unabomber or possibly a serial killer. Thankfully that didn't happen because we would have missed out the wonderful various tales of life that Aaron gives us in FINDING KANSAS. Aaron has autism in the form as Asperger's Syndrome. "Asperger's syndrome, also called Asperger's disorder, is a type of pervasive development disorder (PDD). PDDs are a group of conditions that involve delays in the development of many basic skills, most notably the ability to socialize with others, to communicate, and to use imagination." Thank you Wiki!
He wasn't diagnosed until he was in his early twenties and his father did us all a favor by getting him a journal and encouraging him to write down his thoughts. They make up this book. Usually I don't do short stories but this isn't - it's a compilation of thoughts, reminiscing girls, jobs, Life and auto racing.
You soon learn that auto racing IS Kansas. A place of joy and comfort where Aaron is completely in control and where he excels. Aaron loves racing like most of us loves our kids; and that is also part of the Asperger's: he can remember events down to the last drop of water but he cannot remember the people he was with. Racing is when he feels he is meant to be. Too bad the Powers That Be don't agree.
A great story written by an amazing individual. A Must Read for those with Aspergers in the families and a Must Read for all the rest of us because it will completely change your frame of reference.
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I have a brother with Asperger's and I'm so thankful I happened upon this book. It has shed light on so many of the traits that sometimes exasperate the entire family.

This was very reminiscent of the film THE DIVING BELL AND THE BUTTERFLY about a stroke victim who was somehow able to transcend his condition and actually describe what was going on inside his head. Like this movie, the book FINDING KANSAS is wrenching in it's ability to throw back the curtain on medical diagnosis and assumptions and care-takers frustration with those with brain abnormalities, no matter what they may be, and eloquently illustrate that behind all these surface things, there is ultimately a person who is deeply suffering.

The author has uniquely described what he goes through on a daily basis, just trying to get through the day. What fascinated me most is the agony this writer goes through KNOWING he is not quite normal, but being utterly POWERLESS to do anything about it. It has always been easy for me to assume that my brother was just being difficult and stubborn. I never imagined that perhaps he doesn't WANT to be that way, that perhaps he is completely aware of what is causing other people distress and simply can't do anything about it. I never thought his actual condition could be causing as much deep internal pain for him as it does for all of those who love him.

In many ways this book is painful and heartbreaking, but it is also full of threads of hope. If the people surrounding those with Asperger's are better able to understand them, there has to be a chance that some of the internal pain can be slightly relieved. (For everyone involved!!!
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Thank you Aaron for sharing your mind, thoughts, trials and tribulations with the world. Through your writings, I feel as though I finally understand what my 30 year old son with Asperger's has been trying to tell me forever. I finally get to understand. You are an amazing man with a fantastic gift for writing.

This is a remarkable book and a must read for anyone interested in Asperger's Syndrome and beyond.
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I have a brother with Asperger's and I'm so thankful I happened upon this book. It has shed light on so many of the traits that sometimes exasperate the entire family.

This was very reminiscent of the film THE DIVING BELL AND THE BUTTERFLY about a stroke victim who was somehow able to transcend his condition and actually describe what was going on inside his head. Like this movie, the book FINDING KANSAS is wrenching in it's ability to throw back the curtain on medical diagnosis and assumptions and care-takers frustration with those with brain abnormalities, no matter what they may be, and eloquently illustrate that behind all these surface things, there is ultimately a person who is deeply suffering.

The author has uniquely described what he goes through on a daily basis, just trying to get through the day. What fascinated me most is the agony this writer goes through KNOWING he is not quite normal, but being utterly POWERLESS to do anything about it. It has always been easy for me to assume that my brother was just being difficult and stubborn. I never imagined that perhaps he doesn't WANT to be that way, that perhaps he is completely aware of what is causing other people distress and simply can't do anything about it. I never thought his actual condition could be causing as much deep internal pain for him as it does for all of those who love him.

In many ways this book is painful and heartbreaking, but it is also full of threads of hope. If the people surrounding those with Asperger's are better able to understand them, there has to be a chance that some of the internal pain can be slightly relieved. (For everyone involved!!!
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