- Hardcover: 256 pages
- Publisher: Harper (January 26, 2000)
- Language: English
- ISBN-10: 0060193328
- ISBN-13: 978-0060193324
- Product Dimensions: 6.1 x 0.9 x 9.2 inches
- Shipping Weight: 1.2 pounds
- Average Customer Review: 513 customer reviews
- Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #338,390 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
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First They Killed My Father: A Daughter of Cambodia Remembers Hardcover – Deckle Edge, January 26, 2000
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Written in the present tense, First They Killed My Father will put you right in the midst of the action--action you'll wish had never happened. It's a tough read, but definitely a worthwhile one, and the author's personality and strength shine through on every page. Covering the years from 1975 to 1979, the story moves from the deaths of multiple family members to the forced separation of the survivors, leading ultimately to the reuniting of much of the family, followed by marriages and immigrations. The brutality seems unending--beatings, starvation, attempted rape, mental cruelty--and yet the narrator (a young girl) never stops fighting for escape and survival. Sad and courageous, her life and the lives of her young siblings provide quite a powerful example of how war can so deeply affect children--especially a war in which they are trained to be an integral part of the armed forces. For anyone interested in Cambodia's recent history, this book shares a valuable personal view of events. --Jill Lightner
From Publishers Weekly
In 1975, Ung, now the national spokesperson for the Campaign for a Landmine-Free World, was the five-year-old child of a large, affluent family living in Phnom Penh, the cosmopolitan Cambodian capital. As extraordinarily well-educated Chinese-Cambodians, with the father a government agent, her family was in great danger when the Khmer Rouge took over the country and throughout Pol Pot's barbaric regime. Her parents' strength and her father's knowledge of Khmer Rouge ideology enabled the family to survive together for a while, posing as illiterate peasants, moving first between villages, and then from one work camp to another. The father was honest with the children, explaining dangers and how to avoid them, and this, along with clear sight, intelligence and the pragmatism of a young child, helped Ung to survive the war. Her restrained, unsentimental account of the four years she spent surviving the regime before escaping with a brother to Thailand and eventually the United States is astonishing--not just because of the tragedies, but also because of the immense love for her family that Ung holds onto, no matter how she is brutalized. She describes the physical devastation she is surrounded by but always returns to her memories and hopes for those she loves. Her joyful memories of life in Phnom Penh are close even as she is being trained as a child soldier, and as, one after another, both parents and two of her six siblings are murdered in the camps. Skillfully constructed, this account also stands as an eyewitness history of the period, because as a child Ung was so aware of her surroundings, and because as an adult writer she adds details to clarify the family's moves and separations. Twenty-five years after the rise of the Khmer Rouge, this powerful account is a triumph. 8 pages b&w photos.
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The very young heroine of this true story showed an amazing ability to survive through sheer strength of will. Kudos to her stamina and tenacity. Doubt I'd have had that courage at any age.
While I enjoyed (strange word in this case) the book immensely, I have given it four stars as it perhaps fails to transcend the genre of auto-biographical history and become litrature. Where FTKMF does succeed, is in its attention to detail (I can't imagine how she remembers so much), and the authors dream-like memories that give us a window into events she was not witness to. At times the book indeed becomes literary when she escapes into her imagination. Perhaps most worthy of admiration is the pluck and courage of the author herself.
First They Killed My Father is among the most important books I've ever read. This title should be considered as equivalent for Hiroshima and Diary of Anne Frank for High School readers.
I thank the author for the memoir an eye opener to everyone for humanity.
The book starts with a brief introduction of family and continues the hardships encounter by the family during the period (covers a lot details and insights).