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“Sicile-Kira and her autistic son, Jeremy, join forces in this guidebook to help parents and their autistic offspring move beyond childhood and evolve into an adult life...The author breaks each large, seemingly overwhelming undertaking into small, doable tasks...A proactive method for raising an adult child with special needs.” ―Kirkus Reviews

“If you are raising a teen with significant autistic challenges, you need to read A Full Life With Autism. If you have a young child who is non-verbal, you need to read A Full Life With Autism. Chantal Sikle-Kira's newest book is co-authored with her son Jeremy, who did not speak, but who writes eloquently and powerfully. The mother-son dialogue, facilitated by keyboard and iPad, is a striking example of the potential inside many non-verbal people. Together, they walk the reader through the challenges of leaving home and establishing an independent life as an adult. The step by step manner in which they do this, and Jeremy's calm and steady voice, will be very reassuring to readers. Topics discussed include making friends, romance, housing, college and finally, earning a living. I particularly like the way this book weaves both Chantal and Jeremy's perspective into each story. In the latter part of the book, some chapters are also illustrated with stories from other families. This is a very practical guide that I highly recommend.” ―John Elder Robison, author of Look Me in the Eye and Be Different

“This truly impressive book by Chantal Sicile-Kira and her son Jeremy, who is in his early 20s and autistic will serve as an invaluable resource not only for families who have a youngster or young adult with autism but also for the professionals who work with these families. A Full Life with Autism vividly brings to life not only the challenges and stresses faced by young adolescents and adults on the autism spectrum but also steps that can be taken to assist these individuals to become more independent, successful, and resilient.” ―Robert Brooks, Ph.D., Faculty, Harvard Medical School, co-author of Raising Resilient Children with Autism Spectrum Disorders and The Power of Resilience

A Full Life with Autism provides a timely and compelling perspective into the struggles, challenges of adults with autism and their caregivers. Chantal and Jeremy accurate portray so many of the issues that young adults experience as they move into the world and seek to find their voice and purpose. A Full Life with Autism is certain to be an important resource for young adults and their families trying to understand, cope with and thrive during one of the most important transitions for an individual with autism. ” ―Areva D. Martin, Esq., Managing Partner, Martin & Martin, LLP and President, Special Needs Network, Inc. Author, The Everyday Advocate : How to Stand Up for Your Child with Autism and Related Disabilities

“Chantal Sicile-Kira, and the remarkable (once considered "retarded") Jeremy Sicile-Kira have created a work wherein their common goal is obvious: Separation, and independence for Jeremy. Their writing is filled with a refreshing respect for one another, and very often the material is quite brave.” ―Michael John Carley, Executive Director, GRASP, ASTEP, and the author of Asperger's From the Inside-Out

A Full Life with Autism reminds us that the true "experts" on autism are our children; and that we, the adults, must listen to their wants and desires, then find the resources to help them realize their dreams. I will be recommending this book to everyone I know.” ―Elaine Hall, founder of The Miracle Project, author of Now I See the Moon

“For individuals with autism what we 'see' rarely tells us what each is thinking, feeling or capable of accomplishing. We must look beyond the 'behaviors' to understand what each is trying to communicate. A Life Full of Autism does this and so much more. Truly a must read!” ―Ricki G Robinson, MD, MPH, member, Scientific Review Panel of Autism Speaks and author of Autism Solutions: How to Create a Healthy and Meaningful Life for Your Child

A Full Life with Autism is a must-read book for parents and professionals in the autism field.” ―Steve Edelson, Ph.D., Director, Autism Research Institute

“A full life can have many different meanings for many different people, and yet, on a deeper level, when we hear the phrase "full life" we seem to become united by a common human objective we would not wish to deny ourselves or others. In this important book, Jeremy and Chantal Sicile Kira have captured the value of our shared humanity within our diversity. They do this gracefully, leading the way, as the next generation of young people with autism seek their paths.” ―Valerie Paradiz, PhD, Director, Autistic Global Initiative, Autism Research Institute

“Unfortunately, many adults on the autism experience have high rates of unemployment or underemployment. Some of our most gifted live in poverty and have few options in life. Chantal and Jeremy have creatively worked to create an engaged life for Jeremy and his family. This book provides very practical ideas for transition planning and provides a template that others can use as they support adults moving into adulthood. I highly recommend this for any family or individual as they prepare for transition planning.” ―Dr. Cathy Pratt, Director, Indiana Resource Center for Autism

“This book will help us all navigate the new world of employment for persons on the autistic spectrum.” ―Michael Bernick, Former Director, California Labor Department; autism employment activist

A Full Life with Autism is an important book that should be on the shelf of all schools, therapists, parents, and caregivers serving individuals with an autism spectrum diagnosis. Jeremy Sicile-Kira exemplifies the urgency with which society must impart resources and make a paradigm shift in attitude. Jeremy is living proof that respect and support are key to an individual with an ASD diagnosis living a full life. In this book, Jeremy gives the reader valuable insights into the mind of the nonverbal, significantly-impacted individual with ASD, and Jeremy and Chantal both give practical tips and directions to parents, caregivers, and others for major facets of life integral to living a fulfilling life as an adult with autism.” ―Teri Arranga, Director, AutismOne, Editor-in-Chief, Autism Science Digest

“This book is a wonderful guide...should be in a recommended, if not required book list of literature necessary for students, administrators, teachers, social workers and others who work with those with ASD.” ―Carl G. Hillier, O.D., F.C.O.V.D., Fellow, College of Optometrists in Vision Development, Clinical Director: San Diego Center for Vision Care

“The transition into adult life is poorly understood and seldom researched in the field of autism. Jeremy and Chantal Sicile Kira have given us important lessons from their knowledge and experience. They write honestly and clearly and their book will be of great benefit to the thousands of other families who wish to support their loved one with dignity and respect.” ―Anne M. Donnellan, Professor Emerita, U. of Wisconsin-Madison

“Chantal and Jeremy have provided a wonderful overview of what every individual, parent, and professional needs to know as your child move into adulthood.” ―Darlene Hanson MA,CCC, Director of Communication Services, WAPADH Speech and Language Pathologist

“As a corporate disability consultant, I continually emphasize the importance of preparation in creating successful careers. This book is a must read for individuals with autism, families, & professionals to help everyone understand the critical components of planning in the areas of living, working, and playing and how this planning contributes to a high quality of life in adulthood.” ―James Emmett, Corporate Disability Consultant, Director, APSE HR Connect

“I have a new favorite book about autism! Chantal Sicile-Kira has clearly done her homework in addressing issue for young adults with autism and their parents. But having parallel comments and suggestions from her son Jeremy adds a deeper perspective and value to an already excellent book. I will be returning to this book. The dual voices of parent advocate and self-advocate, commenting in parallel on the same topics, are a revelation to read.” ―Scott Standifer, Disability Policy & Studies, School of Health Professions

“This is a highly readable book. Chantal and Jeremy Sicile Kira succeed in addressing how each individual on the spectrum is unique and will need personally tailored supports.” ―Lars Perner, Ph.D., Assistant Professor of Clinical Marketing, USC; Chair, Panel of People on the Spectrum of Autism Advisors, Autism Society of America

A Full Life With Autism lays out in plain language the challenges of transition to adulthood for persons with autism. This book belongs on the shelf, e-player or e-reader of everyone who strives to help people with autism and ASDs.” ―Joshua Feder MD, Director of Research of the Interdisciplinary Council on Developmental and Learning Disorders

“If you are a parent of a person with autism or a professional in this area, you will find that you will refer to the book over and over again. It is both timely and timeless.” ―Dr. Donald N. Cardinal, Dean of the College of Educational Studies at Chapman University

“Chantal Sicile-Kira and her son Jeremy guide us on a journey that ever an increasing number of families are confronting as adolescents on the spectrum transition to young adulthood. With insight and candor, underscored by Chantal's extensive efforts in the field, they outline the options that are available and offer wide ranging guidance to those on this journey.” ―Barbara Firestone PhD Presidents & CEO-The Help Group and Louis Vismara MD Board Chair-The MIND Institute

“Although written for parents of transition-age youth, this book has the invaluable perspective of those living with autism that is of interest to all families and professionals dedicated to individuals with autism spectrum disorders. Reading this book I felt as if I was experiencing the challenges to realize the goals and dreams associated with becoming a young adult along with Jeremy and Chantal Sicile-Kira.” ―Laura J. Hall, Professor, Department of Special Education San Diego State University

“In collaboration with her extraordinary son, Jeremy, Chantal Sicile-Kira has written an essential book. And when it comes to demystifying the mysteries of autism - and providing the best sort of pragmatic perspective on its complexities - she is the best writer on the subject at work today” ―Douglas Kennedy, Author of Leaving the World, The Moment, Temptation

About the Author

Chantal Sicile-Kira is an award-winning author, columnist, and speaker on autism. The author of four other books, Sicile-Kira writes for The Huffington Post andPsychologyToday.com. Her story has been covered by a wide variety of media, including NPR, PBS, MTV, the Chicago Tribune, Newsweek, and Fox News.
Jeremy Sicile-Kira was diagnosed as severely autistic when he was born in 1989. In 2010, he gave a commencement speech at his high school graduation. Jeremy writes for autism magazines, AutismCollege.com, and was featured in Newsweek. In 2007, Jeremy was on MTV's True Life in the episode, "I Have Autism," which won a 2007 Voice Award.Temple Grandin is the bestselling author of Animals in Translation, among others.


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Product Details

  • Paperback: 256 pages
  • Publisher: St. Martin's Griffin; Original edition (March 27, 2012)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0230112463
  • ISBN-13: 978-0230112469
  • Product Dimensions: 5.9 x 0.6 x 8.2 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 8.8 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.8 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (13 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #244,581 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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A Full Life with Autism is an excellent and easy read for anyone interested in learning more about autism and the real life challenges and successes of everyday life. Too often books are written by "autism experts" who really have no idea what it is like to live with someone with autism, let alone have autism themselves. Chantal and Jeremy did a wonderful job of collaborating to give not only valuable information to readers, but of balancing different viewpoints and perspectives. I love reading Jeremy's thoughts and advice and find it invaluable since it is coming straight from the source. As a young professional working with children with autism, I frequently check back with this book whenever I need a reminder to stay positive and focused in helping my clients be the very best version of themselves possible. Thank you to Jeremy and Chantal for sharing their stories and advice!
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Children with autism grow up. They will be adults far longer than they were children. How do we help them achieve a life full of dignity, respect and meaning?

Autism expert Chantal Sicile-Kira and her autistic son Jeremy provide a candid, reassuring and eminently practical guide that embraces the journey from teen to adulthood. Proactive, positive and highly readable, A FULL LIFE WITH AUTISM is an essential resource for young adults, family and professionals. It breaks daunting goals into manageable, doable tasks. Chock full of checklists and resources, it provides step-by-step ideas for transition planning, self-determination, social relationships, love and intimacy, living arrangements and support staff, post-secondary education, and employment. As the parent of a young autistic adult, A FULL LIFE WITH AUTISM is my go-to book, one I refer back to again and again.
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As the mother of a high school senior who has autism, I find this book invaluable. I gained insight from each of the chapters - transitioning, community supports, life skills, friendship, dating, living arrangements, support staff, college, and employment. I am currently looking into various programs for future housing, education, and employment possibilities for my son, and everything I'm researching is as a result of what was described in this book. In 1997, when my son was diagnosed, there were few practical books for parents about autism and how to help our children. I stumbled through the first few years, unsure of what to expect for my son's future. I am so glad things have changed and that this book was published right when I needed it!
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This book is full of current resources and information a that any parent of a child with autism needs.

I specially enjoyed Jeremy's frank comments about what he wants and what he needs others to understand. Jeremy's explanation of how he perceives the world, what his view of his future is, and what he considers to be a full life for him reinforces my understanding of my duty to be my child's voice, not only to advocate or stand up for him, but to also remember to be his voice even if it means saying no to broccoli, setting up play dates on the most hectic days and requesting 5 more minutes of TV before bed.

Jeremy's view on love and relationships gave me an opportunity to reflect on my own child's current and future emotional/physical needs and the role that I will have to play in order to give him what most teenagers/adults develop naturally.

This is a wonderful book that not only prompts you to reflect on your child, their present life and their future, but also guides you through that process with resources and the experience that only Chantal and Jeremy can offer.
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Yes, this book has many valuable tips and things to think about. It would be fair, however, for prospective readers to know that the authors have certain philosophies that not everyone may agree with. First, Ms. Sicile-Kira is a strong proponent of heavy government involvement in her family's life. Jeremy's life is filled with assistants, therapists, programs, schools, assistive devices, etc., all likely paid for by the tax payers. Even though her son apparently benefits from several hundred thousand dollars per year worth of benefits, Ms. Sicile-Kira bemoans budget cuts and urges readers to pressure their elected officials for more benefits.
Second, the chapter on love and intimacy approaches the subject of sex without any context of moral values. When Jeremy wants to see naked girls, his father, uncle, and male caregivers take him for a weekend of strip clubs and casinos in Las Vegas. At the end of the chapter, Jeremy's mother is considering finding him a "paid sexual surrogate" and having a sex therapist in the room with them to help Jeremy with the physical aspects of consummating this relationship.
So...use your discretion as to whether this or another book might best suit your needs.
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No wonder "A Full Life with Autism" won't stay on the shelves; I'm sending copies to my 24-year-old son Ben's care givers, and have no doubt many other parents of adult and near-adult children with ASD are doing the same. If you have any doubt that your child is listening, understanding, and capable of achieving far more than s/he's given credit for, read this book. It's full of information; it's an eye opener and a life-changing motivator, thanks to Chantal and her adult son (and co-author) Jeremy. Bless you both!
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