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Gaysia: Adventures in the Queer East Paperback – May 13, 2014
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"Law has unusual adventures here, but in between the funny asides and sharp perceptions, he offers serious observations to show that Asia may be halfway around the world, but it’s closer than we think. This book is explicit and profanity-laden, but it’s also funny and charming and worthy of being tucked in your carryon this summer. Take Gaysia with you on vacation, and you certainly won’t be bored."
"Surprising, sometimes funny, and often poignant."
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"Law blends an accessible journalistic style familiar to fans of travel writing with solid research and investigation into various queer cultures in the countries he visits."
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"Benjamin Law spent nearly a year skipping between seven Asian countries, sitting backstage with Bangkok ladyboys before their beauty pageants, talking to Tokyo’s superstar drag queens, marching in the heat with Mumbai’s fierce queer rights activists, listening to Melaka preachers who claim they can heal homosexuality and hanging out with Bali’s moneyboys and the foreigners who hire them."
Creative Loafing Tampa
"Some may be tempted to skip over the underbelly of issues that Law presents and just go for the romp, as the book is highly entertaining. But as the author demonstrates, the complexity is there for the seeing if people care to look. Gaysia is worth the look."
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"Why I picked it up: The title. Why I finished it: Each country deals with the reality of gay citizens differently."
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"An old Tibetan proverb says that on every journey, you must die once. The person who returns should not be the same person who left. I invite you to travel to Indonesia, Thailand and China, to Japan, Malaysia, Myanmar and India with an observant and sensitive explorer as your guide. It will be an adventurous trip in which you meet the moneyboys of Bali, the ladyboys of Thailand, the hidden gay Internet of China, the Chinese gay ghosts and their homowives and the grand gay celebrities of Japanese television in a country that pretends to have no other kind of LGBT person. You will be befriended and taken around with Christian and Muslim fundamentalists who claim to cure homosexuality. And yes, they have been named after and trained by American fundamentalists and the folk at the Christian ex-Gay organization called NARTH. The extreme poverty and rampant AIDS in Myanmar will open your heart in sadness. And you will get to know the inspiring activists of India, gay and straight, along with a gay swamiji who thinks that being gay is sick and must be cured. There is a theme of fear and self-hatred herethat runs throughout the worldbut it is balanced out by the Queer Azaadi Mumbai Pride Parade, the biggest queer event in the world’s most populous democracy.
There are a lot of ingredients here, but they are blended together with a rare skill: over-the-top beauty pageants, sacred in their depth of feeling for lives lived truthfully, no matter how difficult it can be; religious institutions and persons, profane in their betrayal of that which is best in us; dangers and gay celebrations; an exotic itinerary through seven of Asia’s (and the world’s) most interesting countries; a fast, fabulous, funny, sad read of life, love and the great gay happening world of Asia. Cheers to the future! And to your guide and friend through Gaysia, Benjamin Law." Aaron Allbright, author of The Land Near Oz: Two Gay Yankees Move to New Zealand
"Benjamin Law has put together a book that at first glance starts as a sexy romp through Asia, bringing him to the gay hotspots coming into consciousness, in what he calls the gayest continent on earth. It’s the truth of course, based on census figures in this most populous area of the world. Law digs deeper though, bringing us far under the surface, giving us keen observations on emerging gay rights issues in these regions, along with the poignant contrasts and issues that tourism of all kinds brings, destroying paradise, even while lifting countries and destinations out of poverty. Of Asian extraction, Law also straddles two worlds he is a part of the cultures he is seeing, and yet not, as a native born Australian. Law has achieved what seems the impossible in the Gaysia collection: a sensual enjoyable read, full of titillation, at once part of the gay travel circuit, yet deep with sociological observations, along with a clear understanding of Asian history. Whether you’re planning a trip to Asia, an armchair tourist, or merely curious, Gaysia is a book you should add to your collection." Michael Luongo, editor, Gay Travels in the Muslim World (Routledge)
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Law, an ethnically Chinese Australian, begins his peregrinations in Bali at an all gay resort that seems to be setting up the book as a somewhat leering view of gay foreigners and Asian sex workers. But that's the trick of this book. It does indeed deal a lot with sex workers, and gay folks (and lesbians and transgendered folks) - but the leering tone rapidly turns to one of thoughtful observation. In what I'm sure was a calculated move, Law gradually moves his readers from the fun side of being gay in Asia to the side of oppression and marginalization. He explores aspects of gay truth in Asia that are as alien and disturbing to us as they are to him (him being a happily out 20-something Australian). And yet, unfailingly, Law approaches everyone he meets on his travels with respect, from transgender beauty queens to anti-gay yoga gurus. Sure, there are plenty of snarky asides - intended only for our eyes - but I gained enormous respect for Law, as I followed his journey along sometimes harrowing and often unnerving paths, meeting people and going places that are hard for me to imagine.
For someone known as a comedian, and someone so young (young enough to be my child), Law evinces a deep maturity and sensitivity in this book, and the one of the penultimate moments, when he attends his first gay pride march - in Mumbai - was as moving for me as it was for him. This book is not all fun and games; but there is much here of great interest and value.
And the adventure continues in Japan in what was one of the more sad chapters. Though Japanese people don't see gay people as sinful, they do seem them as shameful. And then pretend that the non campy gay men ones do not exist. Lesbians are completely ignored.
After Japan, the adventures continue in Malaysia, Myanmar, and India.
For all the people that may emphasize cultural relativism, at the end of the day if you are reading this book in the US, Australia, or Western Europe, then be happy that your culture is much more open and welcoming. Still, the path to openness is one that all countries take and there are hopeful signs that gay rights and visibility are getting stronger in the region. I only wish that the author had visited Taiwan where gay rights are strongest so we could see what that kind of Asian acceptance looks like.
So I am not sure how this book could have been written without talking about these tragedies, unless the book was to create a fairytale-like existence for the GLBT in Asia. And then it would have been a fictional book about GLBT in Asia (not the purpose of this book). This book opened my eyes. It made me not only realize how fortunate I am to live in a "free-er" country like the USA, but it also made me ask my self, "What can I do to help my GLBT brothers and sisters" who are still discriminated against"? It made me realize that while I sit here all comfortable as a gay man, there are many people who don't even know about HIV, how to get it, prevent it, or avoid it. That to me is a very sad, archaic reality that GLBT in Asian countries still face today.
I love his candid insights, the sharing of his honest feelings, and his willingness to share his feelings about each country he visited.
Great job Benjamin, and I hope you keep writing more books like this one!