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The Gentle Art of Swedish Death Cleaning: How to Free Yourself and Your Family from a Lifetime of Clutter (The Swedish Art of Living & Dying Series) Hardcover – January 2, 2018
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A charming, practical, and unsentimental approach to putting a home in order while reflecting on the tiny joys that make up a long life.
In Sweden there is a kind of decluttering called döstädning, dö meaning “death” and städning meaning “cleaning.” This surprising and invigorating process of clearing out unnecessary belongings can be undertaken at any age or life stage but should be done sooner than later, before others have to do it for you. In The Gentle Art of Swedish Death Cleaning, artist Margareta Magnusson, with Scandinavian humor and wisdom, instructs readers to embrace minimalism. Her radical and joyous method for putting things in order helps families broach sensitive conversations, and makes the process uplifting rather than overwhelming.
Margareta suggests which possessions you can easily get rid of (unworn clothes, unwanted presents, more plates than you’d ever use) and which you might want to keep (photographs, love letters, a few of your children’s art projects). Digging into her late husband’s tool shed, and her own secret drawer of vices, Margareta introduces an element of fun to a potentially daunting task. Along the way readers get a glimpse into her life in Sweden, and also become more comfortable with the idea of letting go.
- Print length128 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherScribner
- Publication dateJanuary 2, 2018
- Dimensions5.5 x 0.5 x 8.38 inches
- ISBN-101501173243
- ISBN-13978-1501173240
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"A slim yet sage volume. . . . While Marie Kondo gave us strict instructions to only keep things that spark joy, Magnusson’s book is straightforward and unsentimental (with a bit of humor). The main message from this mother of five is: Take responsibility for your items and don’t leave them as a burden for family and friends." —The Washington Post
"Witty, useful and oddly profound.” —Entertainment Weekly
"Proustian. . . . A primer on how to winnow your belongings before you die, so you don’t burden your family. . . . Ms. Magnusson is the anti-Kondo, who takes us on a charming and discursive tour of her own stuff." —Penelope Green, The New York Times
“Magnusson shares solid guiding principles for organizing your home, no matter your age or life circumstance.” —Business Insider
"One of the most charming, funny, and motivating books I've read in some time. . . . Magnusson is an absolute delight. This book is so much more than lifestyle tips. It's full of life. Magnusson's candid humor and unassailable spirit comes through on each page... The best way to prepare for death is to live a good life, which Magnusson has done. We're lucky that she shares so much of it — in stories of gratitude, family, work, and love." —Buzzfeed
"Magnusson uses a dry, unsentimental and sometimes dark Scandinavian sense of humor, and writes with an older set (and their younger relatives) in mind. . . . like a conversation over tea with a friend." —Associated Press
"'Death Cleaning' is the answer to clutter you've been looking for. . . . Magnusson instructs readers on how to gently and joyously put your affairs in order while you’re still alive, rather than leaving it for others to do." —Reader's Digest
“Smart… death cleaning isn't about getting rid of all your stuff, but rather streamlining your life so you're only holding onto what makes you happy . . . it's about so much more than dusting and sorting.” —Elle Décor
“Reading her book is much like having a sensible, cheerful aunt sit you down to tell you hard truths that your mother is too nice to say.” —Laurie Hertzel, Minneapolis Star Tribune
“Keep only what you love and what makes you happy in the moment. It’s like Marie Kondo, but with an added sense of the transience and futility of this mortal existence.” —The New York Post
"Has benefits you can enjoy while you’re still very much alive. . . . could be a good way for families to discuss sensitive issues that might otherwise be hard to bring up." —TIME
"Pragmatic. . . . the idea in this system is that we should leave behind as little as possible, or at least, not the many thousands of items of junk that Americans often accumulate." —W Magazine
"Even millennials will enjoy this non-militant approach to decluttering.” —PEOPLE Magazine
"A mindful way to sort through your belongings throughout your life, so that your loved ones aren’t burdened by a plethora of personal items after you die. . . . Magnusson advises that the earlier we start the process of ‘death cleaning’, the better, so we’re not overwhelmed with a lifetime of objects by the time we’re elderly people." —Better Homes and Gardens
“I far prefer the charming, empathetic technique of Margareta Magnusson, whose book is a game-changer. I highly recommend it for anyone wrestling with a lifetime of wonderful — and not so wonderful — stuff.” —Amy Dickinson, “Ask Amy”
"[With] humorous common sense, she rightly reminds readers that it takes time to downsize and that putting it off won’t make it go away." —Booklist
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Product details
- Publisher : Scribner (January 2, 2018)
- Language : English
- Hardcover : 128 pages
- ISBN-10 : 1501173243
- ISBN-13 : 978-1501173240
- Item Weight : 2.31 pounds
- Dimensions : 5.5 x 0.5 x 8.38 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #3,356 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- #8 in Home Cleaning, Caretaking & Relocating
- #12 in Love & Loss
- #103 in Motivational Self-Help (Books)
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About the author

Margareta Magnusson is, in her own words, aged between 80 and 100. Born in Sweden, she has lived all over the world. Margareta graduated from Beckman’s College of Design and her art has been exhibited in galleries from Hong Kong to Singapore. She has five children and lives in Stockholm. She is the author of The Gentle Art of Swedish Death Cleaning and The Swedish Art of Aging Exuberantly.
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Customers find the book's content helpful, practical, and lighthearted. They appreciate the author's kindly, humorous way of addressing the topic of death cleaning. Readers also say the book is charming, easy to read, and straight forward.
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Customers find the tone simple, gentle, and light. They say the book helps them lighten their load and helps the people closest to them.
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Great information, Slimmer than expected, less content or would give 5 stars.
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The author doesn't tell you exactly how to death clean, but she gives guidelines for how and where to begin--as well as how and where to NOT begin. (For instance, don't begin with photos. You will get bogged down in memories and may never get anything else done.) She encourages you to take your time going through your things. Hold each piece thoughtfully, recollecting the memories that it evokes. Be thankful for the purpose it served in your life, and then let it go--deliberately--finding just the right recipient for your treasure: someone who will appreciate it, who needs it, and who has room for it. Perhaps it is better to sell the item or to give it to a charity, a local library, museum, or other institution. Regardless of where it goes, you are choosing the destination for your possessions with care and love. And, of course, you are throwing away anything that has outlived its usefulness.
Margareta stresses that this is not "spring cleaning," for death cleaning goes beyond the purging of things that have lost their usefulness to you. Rather, it is a new mindset, a new way of living. How? Just as you have deliberately decided what will stay and what will go, you also learn to be deliberate in what new things you introduce into your home. You have simplified your life, and now you must keep it simple. Develop a habit of discarding an old item before bringing in a new one. And with everything you keep, know where you want it to go after you die. Make a list to leave behind for your children. For each larger item, you might even want to pin a note onto it to tell them what to do with it. This way, when you are gone--and none of us knows when that will be--you will still be with them, in a way, helping them get through this chore that will be fraught with emotion.
Whether or not you consider yourself "old," I highly recommend this book to you. Read it, and begin your death cleaning now. In fact, the earlier you begin, the easier it will be for you--and for those who come behind you.
I was doing my own death cleaning without realizing that this is precisely what I’ve been doing! When I was a youngster I would go with my Swedish grandparents to say good bye to their friends that were going back to Sweden. We would go to the docks in NYC. The large Swedish ships would leave from NY. I asked my grandfather why they were moving back. He answered, they are going home to die. Interestingly, they would have only one large travel chest with all their earthly possessions. Through this text I’ve come to understand this practice.
At first, I couldn't imagine how this book could inspire a reality TV show. But then I watched The Gentle Art of Swedish Death Cleaning on Peacock TV, and they did a wonderful job of it. Believe it or not, the three Swedish hosts generate a lot of laughs about the reality of death (with help from Amy Poehler as narrator). There's also a tremendous amount of kindness, insight and generosity on the show. Maybe all Swedes are like this?
If you want a taste of Swedish Death Cleaning before you buy the book or subscribe to Peacock, I really enjoyed hearing the three Peacock hosts on the podcast I Couldn't Throw It Out. Fun listening!
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Medio del libros son anécdotas de la vida del author, y su solución para todo es "darle a otros".
Apena explica como no acumular trastos, ni da trucos prácticos para ayudarte mentalmente a tirar cosas. Hay literalmente una sola página que habla de como ayudar un familiar a empezar el death cleaning.
También hay muy poco trucos para facilitar a los supervivientes ir dentro de tus cosas, hay algunos, pero muy poco.
De manera general, te da la impresión de tomar el té con una abuela simpática que te cuenta su vida.




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