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Getting to Commitment: Overcoming the 8 Greatest Obstacles to Lasting Connection (And Finding the Courage to Love) Paperback – January 24, 2000
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Carter sees eight hurdles between you and the relationship you deserve. He deftly analyzes each problem, points out self-destructive nonsolutions, and explains the steps necessary to break the barrier. For example, one hurdle is blaming your partners' shortcomings for the failure of previous relationships. Breaking the pattern involves seeing how you choose particular partners and self-destruct in relationships--going from blame to responsibility. Other hurdles include relationship-history ghosts, living in fantasy, and ineffective behavior patterns. "If we are to experience intimacy, our hearts have to be brave as well as loving," says Carter. Getting to Commitment will help you find that courage. Highly recommended. --Joan Price --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.
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I do NOT recommend this book. It's written in a convoluted BS blog style. This author is very good at making things longer than they need to be. Read morePublished 1 month ago by David Grullon
This is such a good book! It has so much that everyone can use and grow with.Published 2 months ago by Joanne Ahlberg-Luce
I bought this book right after a breakup and as we were talking about a reconciliation. This book, along with individual and couples counseling, has been a relationship saver! Read morePublished 2 months ago by T. J.
This book is 250 pages. It should be about 20. The author belabors his points by repeating the same thing in ten different phrasings, and even the different "points" are... Read morePublished 3 months ago by JMellor13
great book, but be prepared to dig into past hurts and open old wounds, in order to uncover possible reasons for what leads to trouble with commitment.Published 4 months ago by Michelle
I found myself caught off guard, emotional, ashamed, enlightened, empowered and so much more as I read this book. Read morePublished 5 months ago by Niels Alpert
Absolutely incredible book. Changed me, my live and relationships forever. And for the best.
Well written, easy to understand, action oriented...
Its very helpful, causing you to see your patterns. I listen to it over and over.Published 6 months ago by Candice Floyd