I have done the first suggested date in this book and it was a HUGE hit with my 11 yo daughter. It does take a bit of planning and preparation (especially if you don't want to just be reading it to your daughter, instead of having a more natural conversation). I like how it lays it all out for you, though, and includes less expensive alternatives. I only have 1 daughter, so I'm not sure how it would work if you have more than 1.
Wish I had this when I was raising my daughters. Great gift with practical ideas for work- in- and -outside- the- home moms with young children. Many of these suggestions can be applied to moms with sons.