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Gravity Pulls You in: Perspectives on Parenting Children on the Autism Spectrum (Mom's Choice Award Recipient) Paperback – February 8, 2010
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Editors Kyra Anderson and Vicki Forman, both parents and writers, have crafted this anthology to encourage a sense of connection among parents and transcend divisive autism politics. The creative group of contributors are accomplished writers, and many also hold day jobs as scientists, professors, teachers, actors, advocates, and therapists. Their slice-of-life depictions are a refreshing departure from the usual diagnosis/grief/acceptance arc of many autism accounts, and serve as a reminder that life is lived in the many small, everyday moments.
Readers are invited into contributors' lives where they're sure to find an attitude, a circumstance, an epiphany they can relate to. Within these accounts of fierce love and keen regard for their unique children, lie moments of exceptional clarity and transformation, such as one mother s story about her full circle reconciliation to a home movie depicting her son's perseverative behavior and another's appreciation for her daughter just as she is or will be. Or the poem about well-meaning but intrusive people who offer advice on how to correct a child with autism and a father's account of a hilarious outing to Hooters with his hip-hop adult son. These pieces are sure to resonate with parents, caregivers, and anyone who's interested in the world of autism.
- Print length174 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherWoodbine House
- Publication dateFebruary 8, 2010
- Dimensions6 x 0.5 x 9 inches
- ISBN-101606130021
- ISBN-13978-1606130025
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Editors Anderson and Forman, both writers and parents of children with autism spectrum disorder (ASD), have compiled an anthology of essays and verse detailing experiences with ASD either as parents, teachers, advocates, or therapists. The contributors are experienced writers and parents of ASD children and candidly share their journeys and life-changing experiences. In an enlightening foreword, John Elder Robison (Look Me in the Eye) adds his unique insight as a person with ASD and the parent of a child with the disorder. The contributors also discuss how having ASD as a part of your life can make you reevaluate what is really important.
Verdict: A support group that's always in session, minus the autism politics and competition, at your fingertips! What parents of children with ASD can gain from this volume is a feeling of not being alone and a situation or circumstance that they can relate to as they navigate the world of ASD. Professionals can gain a better understanding of what their clients/patients (and their parents) deal with on a daily basis. An excellent addition to any public library collection. --Library Journal Xpress Review, June 24, 2010
According to the Autism Society of America, autism spectrum disorders are the fastest growing developmental disability; soon no family will remain untouched. While the numbers may be bleak, the personal stories and poems in Gravity Pulls You In: Perspectives on Parenting Children on the Autism Spectrum are wonderfully hopeful and authentic. You'll find no false sincerity in these accounts; the writers lay bare their mistakes, their triumphs, their despair and their hope. Their courage is evident on the page. --ForeWord Magazine, March 2010
According to the Autism Society of America, autism spectrum disorders are the fastest growing developmental disability; soon no family will remain untouched. While the numbers may be bleak, the personal stories and poems in Gravity Pulls You In: Perspectives on Parenting Children on the Autism Spectrum are wonderfully hopeful and authentic. You'll find no false sincerity in these accounts; the writers lay bare their mistakes, their triumphs, their despair and their hope. Their courage is evident on the page. --ForeWord Magazine, March 2010
GRAVITY PULLS YOU IN is a recipient of the prestigious Mom's Choice Award. The Mom's Choice Awards honors excellence in family-friendly media, products and services. An esteemed panel of judges includes education, media and other experts as well as parents, children, librarians, performing artists, producers, medical and business professionals, authors, scientists and others. A sampling of the panel members includes: Dr. Twila C. Liggett, Ten-time Emmy-winner, professor and founder of Reading Rainbow; Julie Aigner-Clark, Creator of Baby Einstein and The Safe Side Project; Jodee Blanco, New York Times Best-Selling Author; LeAnn Thieman, Motivational speaker and coauthor of seven Chicken Soup For The Soul books; and Tara Paterson, --Mom's Choice Awards
What makes this volume stand out, in addition to the superlative writing and honest sharing, are its themes of connection and humanity. While the individuals profiled in the selections do fall somewhere on the autism spectrum, readers will come away from the anthology realizing that, more importantly, all of us, autistic or not, share a common humanity. --Disability Resources Online
About the Author
Vicki Forman is the author of This Lovely Life: A Memoir of Premature Motherhood (Houghton Mifflin/Mariner, 2009), winner of the Bread Loaf Writers Conference Bakeless Prize. Her work has appeared in the Seneca Review, the Santa Monica Review, and the anthologies Love You to Pieces: Creative Writers on Raising a Child with Special Needs and Literary Mama: Reading for the Maternally Inclined. She lives outside of Los Angeles with her husband and daughter. She blogs at vickiforman.com
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- Publisher : Woodbine House (February 8, 2010)
- Language : English
- Paperback : 174 pages
- ISBN-10 : 1606130021
- ISBN-13 : 978-1606130025
- Item Weight : 10.6 ounces
- Dimensions : 6 x 0.5 x 9 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #3,929,920 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
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Susan Segal is a graduate of the acclaimed MFA fiction program at U.C. Irvine. Her first novel, Aria, was published to critical acclaim in the United States and Great Britain. Susan is particularly pleased that Aria was translated into Latvian, where her name apparently is also translated and becomes Suzana Segala. Susan has published short stories in Redbook magazine as well as numerous literary journals. She has received prizes for a number of her short stories and two fellowships from the esteemed Macdowell Colony in New Hampshire. She is currently a Teaching Associate Professor at the University of Southern California, where she teaches fiction writing, editing and literature courses. She is also an editor at large for Coast Magazine in Orange County. She lives in Orange County, CA with her son and is working on a collection of short stories.
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In his forward, John Elder Robinson, autistic himself, states that autism is all the autistic child knows. The autistic child may be aware of having less ability, but autism is their "normal." However, autism is not normal for the parent. In one essay, a mother says that she died the day her daughter was diagnosed as a savant.
These honest essays and poems examine the physiological and emotional toll that autism has on parents. Parents share personal experiences and perspectives about how their child's disorder affects them and how they see themselves as the "outsiders," trying to understand and move their children forward into functioning closer to "normal." Within the pages, parents discuss how they have become advocates for awareness of autism and for early intervention to help their children.
Through their stories, parents explain how the diagnosis of autism redefined their worlds and their parenting roles. In "Evolution of a Fairy," Carolyn Walker says, "When it is impossible for a child to change, a mother must, I discovered. It is the only way to keep the heart whole." Another mother asks, "Will today be the day you can start being the mother you wanted to be?"
Parents detail how difficult "autism land" can be, marked by therapies, IEPs (IEP is an acronym for individualized education plan, which outlines in detail what instructional and other special services will be provided for children with special needs), clinical charts, disclaimers, and more labels. And even through the anguish of the stories and poems, the reader hears hope, love and compassion in the voices of the parents who are growing inside of themselves, deliberately and fully embracing their journeys.
by Judy Miller
for Story Circle Book Reviews
reviewing books by, for, and about women
Kyra and Vicki have done an amazing job of editing and sequencing the contributions; the essays and poems flow into one another with the grace and beauty with which they were written. Each piece is an integral part of one of three sections: "Notes from Autism's Edges," insightful writings about the experiences of and observations on being the parent of a child with an ASD; "String Theory," emotional offerings on the connections we have with our children; "And the Shoes Will Take Us There," inspiring pieces about where we have gone with our children, and how we got there.
They are all beautiful, all universal. I found myself alternately laughing and crying my way through the book, all the while nodding my head. This is quite a journey we share. Our experiences may well be different, but we can identify with all of them. We empathize, we understand. And several times I felt like I was reading about my son, as if I had written it. As if this fellow parent had looked into my memories and said, "Yes, I've been there too. You are not alone."
Gravity Pulls You In is a wonderfully touching anthology that I highly recommend to anyone whose life is affected by autism, whether a parent, relative, friend, neighbor, teacher, or therapist. This book is the parents' perspective - what we think and believe, how we feel, what we do, and why. I've read many autism-related books over the years since my son's diagnosis. Almost all of them I enjoyed, but only a few found a permanent home on my bookshelves. The rest have been given away to others who might also enjoy them or learn from them. But not Gravity Pulls You In. It's staying right here. It's that beautiful.
