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Half in Love: Surviving the Legacy of Suicide Hardcover – January 1, 2011
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Linda Gray Sexton tries multiple times to kill herself—even though as a daughter, sister, wife, and most importantly, a mother, she knows the pain her act would cause. But unlike her mother's story, Linda's is ultimately one of triumph. Through the help of family, therapy, and medicine, she confronts deep–seated issues and curbs the haunting cycle of suicide she once seemed destined to inherit.
- Print length336 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherCounterpoint
- Publication dateJanuary 1, 2011
- Dimensions6.4 x 1.06 x 9.16 inches
- ISBN-101582437181
- ISBN-13978-1582437187
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"A clear and in–depth portrait of what it is like to attempt to take one's own life and the ghastly legacy such an action leaves the bereaved family. For anyone who wishes to understand what drives a person to kill himself or herself, Half in Love brings a deeper understanding of the illness than anything short of feeling the urge to commit suicide oneself." —American Psychological Association Review of Books
"A welcome personal look at the specter that haunts many families, in which a parent's suicide can threaten the mental health of descendants." —Booklist
"In a country where someone commits suicide every seventeen minutes, where bipolar disorder is rampant and poorly understood, Linda Sexton's beautiful book is a cry for health and sanity. It will bring hope and understanding because it explains the way suicide blights families from generation to generation." —Erica Jong, author of Fear of Flying
"In her new memoir, Linda Sexton completes the circle opened up with her stunning memoir, Searching for Mercy Street—but this time, the woman whose torment she explores is not her mother, but herself, and where her mother's story ended with despair, hers is one of survival. With brutal honesty and total lack of self–pity or sentimentality, Linda Sexton has dared to explore a subject more taboo than almost any other: not only suicide, but what comes after, for its survivors. This is a book that will speak to anyone touched by the suicide of someone we knew or loved—as so many of us have been." —Joyce Maynard, author of At Home in the World and To Die For
"Half in Love is a gripping account of the legacy left by a mother's suicide and an eloquent testament to a daughter's struggle to wrench herself free of the damage left in the wake of turmoil. Linda Sexton's determination to forge an identity independent of suicide and destruction is powerful; her book is a vivid and inspiring story of living through despair and coming out the stronger for it." —Kay Redfield Jamison, author of An Unquiet Mind, and Professor of Psychiatry, John Hopkins School of Medicine
"Linda Sexton is one hell of a brave writer. In her memoir, she takes us on a harrowing journey, to the edge of death and then beyond, to a new, safe place. She's now able to tell her story about the entanglement with her mother's legacy—half in love with easeful death.' It's a story that will reach deep into many readers' hearts. She makes the telling of this tale an act of grace, of art, of redemption." —Ellen Sussman, author of On a Night Like This and the upcoming French Lessons
"This is an exquisitely crafted story that needs to be told: how depression and suicide can be passed down through the generations. The most loving, committed mother can suffer such intense pain that all reason is blacked out and death seems the only answer. Linda Sexton is unsparing in her honesty and unfailing in her eloquence as she takes us from the descent to hell to the miracle of recovery. After a siege of courting death, she comes to fall wholly in love with life." —Sara Davidson, author of Leap! and Loose Change
"Once again, Sexton has pulled off something truly remarkable—in prose that is both graceful and raw she crafts powerful scenes that vibrate with authenticity. I cannot recall a more riveting description of a nearly lethal suicide attempt. The suspense leaps off the pages, pages which the reader is now turning furiously. Also powerful is her deep understanding of how suicide permanently impacts the family through multiple generations and her descriptions of self–stigmatization, which, by the way, belong in mental health curricula." —Dr. Frederick K. Goodwin, MD, Professor of Psychiatry, George Washington University, Former Director of the National Institute of Mental Health
"Half in Love is a testament to the potentially mortal wounds that suicide inflicts upon the living. Linda Gray Sexton has transformed her emotional suffering into a memoir of stunning intimacy. Wise, insightful, and unflinchingly honest, Sexton mines the depths of the darkest despair and ultimately her own salvation. This is a masterful work, beautifully written, by a brave soul of remarkable talent." —James Brown, author of The Los Angeles Diaries and This River
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- Publisher : Counterpoint; First Edition (January 1, 2011)
- Language : English
- Hardcover : 336 pages
- ISBN-10 : 1582437181
- ISBN-13 : 978-1582437187
- Item Weight : 1.25 pounds
- Dimensions : 6.4 x 1.06 x 9.16 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #1,905,485 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- #1,860 in Asian & Asian Americans Biographies
- #2,002 in Coping with Suicide Grief
- #22,046 in Women's Biographies
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About the author

Linda Gray Sexton was born in Newton, Massachusetts in 1953 and graduated from Harvard University in 1975. She is the daughter of the Pulitzer Prize winning poet, Anne Sexton, and has edited several books of her mother's poetry and a book of her mother's letters, as well as writing a memoir about her life with her mother, "Searching for Mercy Street: My Journey Back To My Mother, Anne Sexton." "Rituals," "Mirror Images," "Points of Light," and "Private Acts" are her four published and widely read novels. "Points of Light" was made into a Hallmark Hall of Fame Special for television.
"Searching for Mercy Street" was named a New York Times Book Review Notable Book and reviewed to overwhelming critical acclaim. In the New York Times, Michiko Kakutani described the book this way: "Powerful and affecting...a candid, often painful, depiction of a daughter's struggles to come to terms with her powerful and emotionally troubled mother. Sexton writes with compelling urgency and candor...a disturbing portrait of a mercurial, impossible and magnetic woman."
Linda's second memoir, "Half in Love: Surviving the Legacy of Suicide" (Counterpoint Press January 11, 2011) is about her struggle with her own mental illness and the legacy of suicide left to her by her mother, who killed herself when Sexton was twenty-one. Through the help of family, therapy and medicine, Sexton confronted deep-seated issues, outlived her mother and curbed the haunting cycle of suicide she once seemed destined to inherit. The book is a story of triumph.
In pre-publication praise, Erica Jong, author of "Fear of Flying" and "Seducing the Demon," says, "In a country where someone commits suicide every seventeen minutes, where bipolar disorder is rampant and poorly understood, Linda Sexton's beautiful book is a cry for health and sanity. It will bring hope and understanding because it explains the way suicide blights families from generation to generation."
Joyce Maynard, author of "Labor Day" and "At Home in the World," writes: "In her new memoir, Linda Sexton completes the full circle opened up with her stunning memoir, "Searching for Mercy Street"--but this time, the woman whose torment she explores is not her mother, but herself, and where her mother's story ended with despair, hers is one of survival. With brutal honesty and total lack of self-pity or sentimentality, Linda Sexton has dared to explore a subject more taboo than almost any other: not only suicide, but what comes after, for survivors. This is a book that will speak to anyone touched by the suicide of someone we knew or loved--as so many of us have been."
"Bespotted: My Family's Love Affair with Thirty-Eight Dalmatians," Linda's third memoir, (Counterpoint 2014) is a journey into new territory. Here, she rediscovers the more joyous aspects of her childhood through the many dogs that came into the Sexton household, and then she moves forward into her own adulthood, which is also peopled and enriched by these bespotted dogs.
The book features Dalmatians, but is a true dog lover's book, with chapters that will make you laugh--and some that will make you cry. She also covers her new hobby of showing and breeding these rambunctious and companionable dogs. Her Amazon reviews have been nearly exclusively five starred, and editorial reviews have also been extremely enthusiastic.
As the Los Angeles Review of Books says, "Linda Gray Sexton has added a moving and beautiful account to the shelf of books about Dogs & Their Writers...Her memoir-with-dogs is a chronicle of her deep connection to this specific breed over time. ... It must have been extremely painful to write some of these passages; to experience and re-experience the shock and the grief of the untimely and unfair endings, the vicissitudes of biology, the love that's given and received in equal measure -- here exquisitely re-imagined -- between a keeper and each of her dogs." Ellen Sussman, New York Times bestselling author of "French Lessons" and "A Wedding in Provence" proclaims: "Dog lovers, rejoice! Bespotted is part memoir, part love song to dogs, all wonderful."
Each one of Linda's nine books is available on Amazon.com, and her memoirs are all in Kindle editions as well. She publishes a weekly e-newsletter, and a weekly blog post on her website, that delve into everything from the writing life, to her own ruminations and ideas, to dogs and their preoccupations. You can sign up for the e-newsletter on the home page of her website, www.lindagraysexton.com. If you would like a autographed and personalized bookplate to put on the flyleaf of any of her books, contact her via her website. She lives in California with her husband and her three Dalmatians.
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"Half In Love" is the conclusion of a trilogy of works about the Sexton Family. Starting with Diana Middlebrook's biography of Anne Sexton in 1991, Linda Gray Sexton attempted to understand herself by cooperating with the writer of her mother's life. Then she published her own memoir of life with her alcoholic and mentally-ill mother in 1994 ("Searching For Mercy Street"), twenty years after her mother's suicide. Now, in 2010, she has written a second memoir, "Half In Love," about the culminative effects upon her adult life from her twenty-one years with Ann Sexton as her mother.
Linda Gray Sexton writes of her own life-and-death struggles with suicidal depression, of the loss of family and friends who were exhausted dealing with her pain and of her own survival in the end. The writing is compelling but the story is very intense. It is eerie to read of her drive to be a writer (like her mother), to cycle through therapy and medications (like her mother), and to attempt suicide (like her mother). Unlike her mother, she has lived longer than her. Survival can be its own victory.
Linda is a great writer and a gutsy lady.
It would be unethical to venture diagnosis based on the story, but the author has brought up the issue of the distinction between borderline personality and bipolar disorder so some comments on that aspect may be in order. Borderline personalities are often unhappy and are liable to suicide; they are often prone to foolish impulsive actions resembling those of mania. The International Classification (ICD) uses the term "emotionally unstable personality". The changes are rapid and occur within a single day or hour, and the emotions are those of love and hate and anger as well as sadness and happiness. The love and hate and anger are often directed at the therapist and are contagious, so that such patients are dangerous to treat although they are often bright and talented. The author's psychiatrists and therapists apparently behaved somewhat better than her mother's did and were more effective.
that I had enjoyed reading once before. I now have two
of her books. I was already familiar with her mother's work and can't begin to imagine how Linda dealt with
her mother's death by suicide; Half in Love (surviving the legacy of suicide) is about to tell me!
Sexton's book arrived safe and sound; packaged ever so
carefully. I'm on page 16 -
but, l can tell you that Sexton
is already on a roll; hold fast
and Godspeed.





