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Happens Every Day: An All Too True Story Hardcover – March 24, 2009
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Gillies left her recurring role on Law & Order: Special Victims Unit to follow her poet-professor husband to Oberlin, Ohio, when he got a tenure-track position in the English department. She threw herself into caring for her two sons, renovating an old house and teaching drama part-time—but her idyllic life was shattered when her husband decided he didn't want to be married anymore—or at least, not married to Gillies. (He subsequently wed a fellow professor.) Gillies brings both humor and sorrow to the narration. Despite a tendency to trail off at the end of sentences, which leaves listeners straining to hear the completion of a thought, she gives a brave performance that will have her audience cheering as she pluckily reassembles the pieces of her broken life. A Scribner hardcover (Reviews, Mar. 23). (Mar.)
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"Fans of Eat, Pray, Love will devour this book."
John Searles, MSNBC.com
“A memoir so raw you feel like it's your best friend telling you her story.”
“A smart, rueful memoir of love, betrayal and survival.”
O, the Oprah magazine
“You gobble up [Happens Every Day], rooting for the engaging Gillies? A guilty pleasure for readers."
“I couldn't help but admire her bravery in exposing the dark side of her seemingly perfect life in such a good-humored, self-effacing way?. You feel nothing but deepest sympathy.”
Elle --the Oprah magazine
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Gillies' telling of this story is nothing short of riveting. She has the uncanny ability to describe events with such clarity, such openness, that you honestly feel that you are hearing it directly from her over a cup of coffee at the local Starbucks. Gillies tells the story from her point of view after a summary opening of her and Josiah's meeting and marriage (he was married before and cheated on his wife and left a son) and their landing in Ohio. From there, Gillies pretty much goes from event to event until the time when Josiah tells her that he is done with the marriage. She describes her meeting and befriending the college professor that would end up being her children's step-mother. She talks about her own feelings of insecurity and her constant questioning of her self when the niggling at the back of her mind tells her that there is something going on with her husband and this "audrey hepburn-type" woman. What Gillies describes is every happily married woman's nightmare - to be blindsided with the fact that the guy you love, the father of your children wants someone else and is going to act on it.
The book is an important one, I think. Important for Gillies, yes, but startling in its ability to shed light on what truthfully, sadly, does happen every day. Gillies description of how she responded emotionally and physically to her new, albeit, unwanted reality was particularly well done. You can FEEL her pain with her. That's rare for a book to illicit THAT kind of response. Gillies does admit that this is clearly HER side of the story, that her exhusband would have another tale. However, when happily married, in love, having regular, great sex, enjoying the pleasure of two healthy young boys isn't enough for some guys, and when the existence of all those wonderful things does not a stop a young woman from moving in on it, you have to wonder...what the heck? Be afraid happily married gals out there, be very afraid....
If you're experiencing some type of upheaval in life, this would probably be a comforting read, if at least to know you're not alone.
The tone of the book is very straightforward, very down to earth. It doesn't feel forced and there are no unneeded literary flourishes. This is just the bare bones tale of something that truly does happen every day.
It is interesting to see from a distance how we as people can let ourselves fall so fully in love with an idea of a life and can cling to tightly to it. It's eye opening on that level. It feels so raw and real that it becomes easily to put yourself in the shoes of any one of these characters and to hate and hurt and love and suffer as they do. Which I think might be a very beautiful gift to the world.
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