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Leaders of Character
on June 27, 2010
This is quite an inspiring book. I feel motivated to be a better leader and father after reading this. I also have a better understanding of the road my oldest son has taken when I drop him off in August for his matriculation at VMI (Virginia Military Institute). His journey will be hard, but I think the rewards will be more than worth it.
This is a book about leadership, and creating leaders. Leaders are not born, they are forged. The cadets at VMI have to endure some pretty tough times to graduate. Much will be asked and expected from these men and women. These trials and tribulations help form them into leaders that will make the right decision even when that decision is hard or unpopular. They then go on to lead in the military and also in the business world.
In America at the moment we are at a deficit when it comes to leaders of character. Without mentioning any names you can pick dozens of politicians and business leaders from the front pages of the papers that obviously do not live by the code "I will not lie, cheat, steal, or tolerate anyone that does." We desperately need the kind of leaders that VMI produces.
I enjoyed the history and accomplishments of recent VMI graduates that this book presents. I have heard and read about many of these people, but I was not aware that they were VMI graduates. That sends a very strong message when so many alumni are actually helping to make this country a better place. It is hard not to be proud of them.
I also enjoyed the last chapter "You may be whatever you resolve to be" where Professor Husted lays out 25 lessons of leadership. That alone is more than worth the price of this book.
I think this book should be required reading for anyone even remotely thinking about attending VMI. I also think it needs to be read by family members too. They need to have a better understanding of what their cadets will go through, and they need to be very supportive because their cadets will be pushed past their previous limits.
I think this book should also be required reading for anyone that aspires to be in any type of leadership position anywhere. They need to understand that leadership is not about telling people what to do, its about inspiring others to do the right thing, not the easy thing. They need to understand that being a leader means making sacrifices, but in the long run its worth it.
***10/18/2010*** Just returned home from a trip to Virginia Military Institute. It was parents weekend. My son looks fantastic and says he really loves being there. He did mention that the school is very tough, but he is rising to the challenge. We are very proud of him.
***2/2/2011*** The VMI Rats went through their "breakout" about two weeks ago. They are now officially Cadets! 5 months of the "Rat line" has finally ended as the Freshman class comes together as a team. I got to hear the stories from my son and a few other parents and alumni, I am very proud of my son and all the other cadets at VMI. Great job! Sounds like it was very tough, but they pulled through.
***5/17/2011*** Spent the weekend at VMI. My son has completed his first year and he absolutely loved it! I got to spend time with him and with many of his friends, a number of whom graduated and commissioned into the Armed Forces this weekend and are now going on to assume the ranks of Officers in various branches of the military. It is hard not to be proud of these men and women. They are our future leaders and I am sure they will continue to make us proud.
***8/20/2011*** Today is matriculation day for this years group of Rats. Today starts their "hell week" and I am sure they will remember it forever. I dropped my son off at VMI last week. He is part of the Cadre that will be training the new batch of Rats. I am so proud of him. It is a great feeling to see him so excited about being part of the Cadre and getting to work with the new rats and help them to succeed.
***5/16/2012*** Well I have not updated in a hile, so lets catch up. My son completed his second year at VMI, and he still loves it. He says the challenges remain and it is still tough, but he feels he is even more up to the challenge and continues to do well. He still feels he made the right choice with VMI and he is looking forward to going back in the fall.