From Library Journal
Journalist and free-speech activist Levine (My Enemy, My Love: Women, Men, and the Dilemmas of Gender) here argues that trying to protect young people from sex can actually exacerbate or even create the much-feared sexual danger. Her well-documented horror stories of zealotry and incompetence are chilling; Levine is particularly good at showing that abstinence-based sex education leaves many teens without the information they need to make intelligent choices. Misrepresentations of fact, unfounded assumptions, the runaway media hype offered by so-called experts, conservative agendas, and simple conformity, she writes, largely determine our approaches to censorship, "the pedophile panic," youthful sexual behavior, sex education, abortion, and the suppression of information about sexual pleasure. These factors, she holds, predispose young people to have bad sex with unwanted outcomes. Instead of overreaction and overprotection, adults need to saturate their children's world with accurate, realistic information and images of love and sex, including sexual pleasure. Her book, which provoked considerable controversy even before its publication, provides no easy answers to a complex question but is highly recommended as a wake-up call. Martha Cornog, Philadelphia
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Review
A fresh taste of truth, a surely needed wake-up call to common misconceptions of sexuality and youth. -- Philadelphia Daily News
A major book. Sharp, extraordinarily informed, and wittily incisive. The most wide-ranging we have on the subject. Crusading and kind. -- James Kincaid
A sage, intelligent, industriously reported and eminently sane book. -- In These Times
A vitally important book. -- Dr. Joycelyn M. Elders
An astute analysis of what's gone wrong between adults and children in the U.S. -- Village Voice
Levine's central preoccupation, running like a golden thread throughout the book, is the pursuit of happiness. -- The Nation
One of the most significant books of the season. -- San Francisco Examiner
THE book parents, teachers, and health professionals need to educate our children that most things about sex are normal. -- Robie Harris
About the Author
Judith Levine is a journalist, essayist, and author who has written about sex, gender, and families for two decades. Her articles appear regularly in national publications, most recently Ms., nerve.com, and My Generation. An activist for free speech and sex education, Levine is a founder of the feminist group No More Nice Girls and the National Writers Union. She is the author of My Enemy, My Love: Women, Men, and the Dilemmas of Gender (1992), and lives in Brooklyn, New York, and Hardwick, Vermont.
