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To Have or To Be? (Continuum Impacts) Paperback – September 6, 2005
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Well... to be, says Fromm.
In response to the materialism of our century and our propensity to reification, psychoanalyst Erich Fromm proposes a mode of living that he argues is the way out of our psychospiritual conundrum.
Within the pages of this book, one of the last before his demise, the author of the bestseller _ The Art of Loving_ describes the two modes possible--that of having and being. 20th century culture he says has developed into employing and relying on the having mode--of appropriating things and even humans for oneself. Even love has been turned into an object, when in fact no such thing exists. Only the act of loving is possible.
In contradistinction to having is being. It is a mode of active participation in life. While the misnomer 'falling in love' is touted by the world as the norm, Fromm argues that true loving is an effortful activity. While accumulating knowledge is the way of having, the being mode of knowing is a process of understanding.
Although written nearly three decades ago, Fromm's worldview continues to be the ideal. This work of his is a timeless caveat against the dehumanization of society.
This book was written in 1976. Fromm debates that there are two possible modes of living: one of having and of being. He points out the differences between the two and of a person living in the having mode to the one living in the being mode. He shows the differences in behavior and attitude between the two in many life's areas and experiences: studying, remembering, talking, reading, faith, love, handling authority. The less you are oriented on having, the more you are being.
The rest of the book, or should I say the actual book, is pure gold, but in order to reach it you need to be prepared to simply trust the author for the duration of the book. Then turn around and if you don't start recognizing things he's talking about in real life - feel free to debate him - during the second reading. If you jump to debate him every time he crushes something you consider 'sacral' you'll just waste your time. Consider this a test of your own brain - is it really working or just being busy filtering the uneasy information.
Also, be prepared to read the book twice, even if you don't feel like debating it :-) The reason is that pretty soon you'll want to quote something from the book but you won't have an easy one-liner. To quote Fromm, you'll need to quote the idea, and ideas take a few paragraphs or even pages to be 'painted' and understood properly.
Last but not least, be aware that Fromm himself was aware of the fact that the one who is discovering or telling a new thing doesn't actually have the vocabulary to express it, so be prepared to fill in and consider it normal if some words don't sound precise or modern.Read more ›
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Just getting into it. Reads as though it were written today.Published 3 months ago by M. C. Robertson
A modern classic that describes a lot of modern man's problems. Especially the analytical first part is great. Read morePublished 5 months ago by Karsten Decker
Erich Fromm for me basically helps me learn how to live a better life.
For me, Otto Rank, William James, and Erich Fromm are the three psychologist which have had the... Read more
This author is my favorite. I read this book in the 1980's and went on to read 3 more books by Erich Fromm. Read morePublished 11 months ago by Rick White
Erich Fromin is one of my favorites. I have read and reread him.Published 14 months ago by Amazon Customer
A great mind, a great read, re-inforcing all the quiet rebels against rampant consumerism, or the Madison Avenue Mentality, the robot following the herd... Read more
It starts inclredibly good, explaining the have / be approach to life and where it comes from, the effects of it, then it propose a whole new social arrangement that is kind of... Read morePublished 16 months ago by Hallin Hernandez