- Hardcover: 240 pages
- Publisher: Revell; Revised, Expanded edition (February 1, 2011)
- Language: English
- ISBN-10: 0800719387
- ISBN-13: 978-0800719388
- Product Dimensions: 6.5 x 0.8 x 9.5 inches
- Shipping Weight: 1.1 pounds (View shipping rates and policies)
- Average Customer Review: 1,264 customer reviews
- Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #2,080 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
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His Needs, Her Needs: Building an Affair-Proof Marriage Hardcover – February 1, 2011
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The Best Book on Marriage Is Better Than Ever!
In this classic bestseller Willard F. Harley, Jr., identifies the ten most vital needs of men and women and shows husbands and wives how to satisfy those needs in their spouses. He provides guidance for becoming irresistible to your spouse and for loving more creatively and sensitively, thereby eliminating the problems that often lead to extramarital affairs.
This revised and expanded edition has been updated throughout and includes new writing that highlights the special significance of intimate emotional needs in marriage.|Willard F. Harley, Jr., is a nationally acclaimed clinical psychologist, a marriage counselor, and the bestselling author of numerous books, including Five Steps to Romantic Love, Love Busters, and His Needs, Her Needs for Parents. His popular website, www.marriagebuilders.com, offers practical solutions to almost any marital problem. Dr. Harley and his wife, Joyce, host a daily radio call-in show, Marriage Builders. They live in White Bear Lake, Minnesota.
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What will it take to make your marriage sizzle?
Time after time, His Needs, Her Needs has topped the charts as the best marriage book available. More than any other, this book helps husbands and wives give each other what they need most in marriage.
The millions of couples who have read His Needs, Her Needs have learned to keep the romance alive, and they are recommending it to others. Join those who have seen spectacular changes in their marriages by following Dr. Harley's tried and proven counsel. You will discover that an outstanding marriage can be more than a dream--it can be your reality.
What couples are saying about His Needs, Her Needs:
"My new husband and I were having trouble adjusting to marriage. I read the book and immediately things began to improve."
"It is the best book on marriage I have ever read."
"I have recommended this book to every one of my friends. It should become a staple in every house."
"I can't believe how peaceful and loving our marriage has become since reading this book. We went from being at the brink of divorce to experiencing the same love and excitement as when we first met."
Millions have already discovered the power of this book. Isn't it time you did as well?
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I've been married for 17 plus years and just now read this book and loved it so much that I purchased it for my entire family and will be giving it to all newly weds as well. Whether you have a fantastic marriage or on the brink of divorce this book is for you! I don't love the "affair proof" in the title part because it seems as if there is an issue even if there's not but that's it. I love his website that has so much free and good information on it too! Marriagebuilders.com It's awesome! I've read tons of marriage books and self help books but none of them actually address what your husband's needs are and what your needs as a wife are so despite every effort you could just be not doing what they need the most to make them the most happy and vice versa. I thought that after 18 years with my husband dating for a year then marriage for 17 plus that I knew his needs and wants but I was actually wrong! Crazy right!!?!! You might not even know what your needs are and this book will definitely help you figure that out and start making your marriage completely awesome!!! I also highly recommend the dvd and the guide for it! The dvd goes over the top 10 needs in 6 - 20 minute intervals or segments so you if you can't get hubby or wife to read the book you can get them to watch the 20 min videos and that alone is going to help tremendously! You could do it all in one or two evenings or break it into 6 weeks. If you do nothing else at all and do not buy this book I would suggest that you go to the website and click on the questionnaires and do the one that is for needs have yourself and your spouse fill it out to at least identify each other's top 5 needs. The website is free, no memberships no subscriptions unless you want to participate in forums. He also has a free radio show and app. He the author and his wife have been married for over 50 years! I really can't say enough good things about this book but I will say that one of you if not both of you have to want your relationship to work for this book to work for you. If neither of you is willing to make some changes and put the other person first then no one will change and no one's needs will be met. Even if only one of you is willing and the other one is still there but doesn't care anymore really I believe this book will work for you! You will be meeting their needs and they will have no choice but to feel happy seriously I know that might sound too easy or corny but it's true. I love love love this book and am so very happy I found it! It's made a world of difference and happiness in my life. I plan on getting some of his other books now :o)
LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE IT!!!!!
Dr. Harley shows the five top-order emotional needs of men and women and how each can meet the other's needs, in the context of 'affair-proofing' your marriage. Also, what stood out for me was that these needs are VERY different and therefore requires understanding, patience and WORK. But what you can begin to experience after reading this book, understanding the concepts, accepting and applying them, can make your relationship PHENOMENAL. My fiance and I have become closer and our interactions with each other have significantly improved our relationship (more love 'deposits' in our love banks - go read it for yourself!). Also, I found some of Dr. Harley's videos on youtube.com: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UGjriUcN39Q - This is the first in a six video series. I sent these to a couple of my colleagues, and they have nothing but the most outstanding reviews to give on these videos and want to purchase the book.
Thank you Amazon for making this available!... and please... we want more! :)
The husband and I have been on a knowledge seeking mission for the last two years and have read over 20 books on marriage and this is in the top 3.
Willard does such a great job breaking down what is needed and can be applied to your married to strengthen it no matter what level you are at.
We have been married 12 years now and the last year has been a honeymoon all over again.
Truly blessed for having read this book.