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Hold Tight Gently: Michael Callen, Essex Hemphill, and the Battlefield of AIDS Kindle Edition

4.7 4.7 out of 5 stars 36 ratings

In December 1995, the FDA approved the release of protease inhibitors, the first effective treatment for AIDS. For countless people, the drug offered a reprieve from what had been a death sentence; for others, it was too late. In the United States alone, over 318,000 people had already died from AIDS-related complications—among them the singer Michael Callen and the poet Essex Hemphill.

Meticulously researched and evocatively told,
Hold Tight Gently is the celebrated historian Martin Duberman’s poignant memorial to those lost to AIDS and to two of the great unsung heroes of the early years of the epidemic.
Callen, a white gay Midwesterner who had moved to New York, became a leading figure in the movement to increase awareness of AIDS in the face of willful and homophobic denial under the Reagan administration; Hemphill, an African American gay man, contributed to the black gay and lesbian scene in Washington, D.C., with poetry of searing intensity and introspection.

A profound exploration of the intersection of race, sexuality, class, identity, and the politics of AIDS activism beyond ACT UP,
Hold Tight Gently captures both a generation struggling to cope with the deadly disease and the extraordinary refusal of two men to give in to despair.

Editorial Reviews

From Booklist

*Starred Review* In an unusual way to approach the topic of AIDs, acclaimed author and historian Duberman offers a dual biography of two very different gay men battling a mysterious illness during the early days of the AIDS epidemic. Singer and activist Michael Callen was a white Ohioan who moved to New York and became a pioneering figure in the movement to increase AIDS awareness during the Reagan years. Essex Hemphill was an African American poet who contributed to the black gay and lesbian cultural scene in Washington, DC. Duberman sees their stories as opposite sides of the same coin; although they never met, they were both “undersung” and inadvertent heroes. The book is being released as public concern in the U.S. about AIDS continues to decline, “even as the disease continues to spread.” One reason for this turn of events, Duberman maintains, is that AIDS has become less a white disease and more a disease associated with people of color, both in the U.S. and globally. (Although black men make up 12 percent of the U.S. population, they account for 45 percent of new AIDs diagnoses.) An important and, unfortunately, still timely book. --June Sawyers

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Praise for Hold Tight Gently:

"A meticulously researched, nuanced, empathic and insightful portrait of two important artistic and political figures who came to prominence in the early years of the AIDS epidemic."
San Francisco Chronicle

"In this insightful history, gay rights activist and distinguished historian Duberman (
Stonewall) attempts to revive AIDS awareness by detailing the early years of the epidemic, particularly the period of 1981-1995. He sets the details within a framework constructed around the experiences of two men: white singer/activist Michael Callen and black poet/cultural worker Essex Hemphill, both of whom lived with AIDS for years and died at age 38. Duberman pulls no punches in capturing the chaos, uncertainty, and ignorance of the era, looking at the sexual culture that allowed the disease to thrive; he also examines the fear and contradictions of the political environment. Through interviews, writings, personal experience, and Hemphill's poetry, Duberman creates a vivid, complex snapshot of the fractured, conflicted gay community as it responded to the growing problem. It's a sobering narrative, replete with the sexism, racism, homophobia, and false leads that marked the onset of the AIDS epidemic. Most importantly, it addresses the role of AIDS as a 'gay disease' and exposes the differences between the white and black gay communities in their responses. Duberman's accessible, open, and honest prose reminds us that AIDS is not over; only the sense of urgency has waned."
Publishers Weekly (starred review)

"Seldom has a biographer been able to honor the doomed courage of his subjects with such redeeming insightfulness. Martin Duberman's
Hold Tight Gently is an unflinching masterpiece."
―David Levering Lewis, university professor emeritus, New York University, and recipient of the Pulitzer Prize for Biography

"We are always in danger of forgetting the past, and the huge advances we have made against HIV/AIDS often obscure the pain and the politics of the early years of the epidemic. In
Hold Tight Gently, Martin Duberman has brilliantly recreated this tumultuous era. Tracing these two lives through poetry and activism, Duberman captures the pain, despair, panic, heroism, and moral bravery that defined the generation of women and men who first faced this modern plague. Daringly imagined and beautifully written, Hold Tight Gently is a major work of modern history that chills us to the bone even as it moves us to tears."
―Michael Bronski, Professor of the Practice in Activism and Media Studies of Women, Gender and Sexuality, Harvard University

"A dynamic people's history of AIDS that must be read, debated, critiqued and applauded. Michael Callen, Essex Hemphill, and other visionaries are revealed as complex individuals who made change but did not benefit from it. Throughout, Duberman confronts the racism at the core of the AIDS movement that became the global crisis of access to treatment. A bold work for a community that wants to understand itself."
―Sarah Schulman, author
Israel/Palestine and The Queer International

"Martin Duberman's work has been a continuing rescue mission to make sure that vital, but forgotten, stories from the past remain alive in our memory. With
Hold Tight Gently, he has done it again and magnificently so. Michael Callen and Essex Hemphill come back to life in these pages. Funny and moving, enlightening and thoughtful, inspiring and enraging, this dual biography reveals the heartbreaking losses caused by the epidemic as well as the many ways people fought back. It can teach those who weren't there what that first decade of AIDS was like and remind those of us who were how intense those years were. And all this through the life stories of two compelling individuals."
―John D'Emilio, Professor of Gender and Women's Studies & History at the University of Illinois at Chicago

"
Hold Tight Gently is a deeply moving work of largely hidden history. Martin Duberman not only brilliantly chronicles grassroots AIDS organizing in the early days of the epidemic, but the vibrant black lesbian and gay political and cultural movement that flowered during the same period. Through the lives of two remarkable men, Hold Tight Gently illuminates how race and class are inextricably linked to the struggle for sexual freedom and that against all odds people can fight for justice every day. A wonderful and important book."
―Barbara Smith, author of
The Truth That Never Hurts and co-founder of Kitchen Table: Women of Color Press

"Through his probing and insightful chronicle of the lives two very different gay men who were early voices in the fight against AIDS, Martin Duberman has again brought light to shine in a personal way on the role of progressives in LGBT struggles and the importance of addressing how race, class, and gender impact this epidemic and who survives it. Sadly, these perspectives are still urgently needed in today's world where those facing the devastation of AIDS are often invisible to mainstream politics. A poignant and politically potent tribute to those who have died from AIDS and who fought to make a difference even as their lives were cut short."
―Charlotte Bunch, Distinguished Professor in Women's and Gender Studies, Rutgers University

"
Hold Tight Gently is an absorbing read. It's a necessary introduction to the uninitiated, and a profound challenge to the collective amnesia concerning the AIDS crisis in the 1980s, one that shimmers with insights and lessons about race, sexuality, and class. Duberman's take on these seminal figures illuminates their singular and collective triumphs and struggles, and critically how the pandemic profoundly impacted political and social organizing by gays in the eighties and nineties. The biographer renders Hemphill and Callen with respect and grace―just the way they should be."
―Steven G. Fullwood, co-editor of
Black Gay Genius

"Marty Duberman's profoundly moving reconsideration of Michael Callen and Essex Hemphill is much needed now, as AIDS continues to ravage so much of our world. This marvelous book, filled with surprising connections, will be read by activists everywhere and empower the future."
―Blanche Wiesen Cook, author of
Eleanor Roosevelt

"Duberman's history, with its battlefield metaphors, is as relevant and heartbreaking today as it was thirty years ago."
Bay Area Reporter

"Insightful. . . . A vivid, complex snapshot." ―
Publishers Weekly (starred review)

"A powerful book that displays both the malice and the nobility of our species." ―
Kirkus Reviews

"An important and, unfortunately, still timely book." ―
Booklist

Praise for The Martin Duberman Reader:
"A provocative collection that is thoughtful in both scope and attention to detail."
Kirkus Reviews (starred review)


“This collection not only serves as a wonderful introduction to Duberman's writing but is also a fitting tribute to a man who has devoted his life to promoting social change.”
Publishers Weekly

Praise for Martin Duberman:
"A deeply moral and reflective man who has engaged the greatest struggles of our times with an unflinching nerve, a wise heart, and a brilliant intellect."
―Jonathan Kozol

"Duberman is an unapologetic, uncategorizable, and non-sectarian radical whose constant questioning of conventional wisdoms―even on the left―has made him one of this country's preeminent participants in the political and cultural wars that have riven public life."
―Doug Ireland

"Martin Duberman is known for his unique combination of talents―as a distinguished historian, a talented writer, and an impassioned advocate of gays and other beleaguered members of the human community."
―Howard Zinn

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  • ASIN ‏ : ‎ B00FD4SDNY
  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ The New Press; Illustrated edition (March 18, 2014)
  • Publication date ‏ : ‎ March 18, 2014
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • File size ‏ : ‎ 3909 KB
  • Text-to-Speech ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Screen Reader ‏ : ‎ Supported
  • Enhanced typesetting ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • X-Ray ‏ : ‎ Not Enabled
  • Word Wise ‏ : ‎ Enabled
  • Sticky notes ‏ : ‎ On Kindle Scribe
  • Print length ‏ : ‎ 362 pages
  • Page numbers source ISBN ‏ : ‎ 1595589457
  • Customer Reviews:
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Reviewed in the United States on April 11, 2014
In Martin Duberman's latest book HOLD TIGHT GENTLY he chronicles the AIDS epidemic in the U. S. from the years 1981 through 1995 by highlighting the lives of two of the gay community's finest artists Michael Callen and Essex Hemphill, both of whom died of AIDS, Michael on December 27, 1993, Essex on November 5, 1995. Both men were thirty-eight years old at the time of their deaths. Mr. Duberman says in his Introduction that he knew both men only slightly but admired them as his highly informative account of their lives bears witness. He laments also in his Introduction the fact that AIDS is no longer anyone's top priority, that we are now concerned with same-sex marriage and the right to serve openly in the military even though "self-identified gay men in the United States do still make up 48 percent of the 1 million people currently living with AIDS." And I wondered, as I read this very moving book, how many in the gay community would read it. Several of my friends tell me they no longer want to read books or see movies about AIDS.

Mr. Duberman covers much of the same territory of Sean Strub's just-published BODY COUNTS although this is not a criticism of this book. Some overlapping is unavoidable. Many of the heroes and villains remain the same: the Elizabeth Taylors, the Mathilde Krims, many of the PWA's and members of ACT UP as opposed to the Pat Buchanans, the Ronald Reagans, The Jerry Falwells. (I was pleased to see Atlanta's own Reverend Joseph Lowery get the credit he rightly deserves for saying that the Civil Rights Act should be amended to protect the rights of lesbians and gay men and dismayed to learn that Callen and the Flirtations who had sung "Mr. Sandman" in the movie "Philadelphia" were eliminated when the soundtrack was produced.)

The author points out that these two men were very different and never met. Mr. Callen, for example, was much more of the type who had few secrets about any aspect of his life. For example, he tells the world how many sex partners he had. By his best calculation, he believed by the time he was 27 that he had "bottomed" for 2,496 men. Or in Mr. Duberman"s words: "He was outspoken and unashamed about his `sluthood.'" (Surely this is way too much information.) Mr. Hemphill, on the other hand, would never have made such a statement. And while it does not speak to their differences, Mr. Hemphill had a dual dilemma: he had to deal with homophobia in the black community and rampant racism in the white gay community as well. Mr. Callen of course only had to confront homophobia.

Mr. Duberman's book is thorough and extremely well-researched with voluminous footnotes. (To his everlasting credit, he does not do what so many biographers these days insist on doing: telling the reader what their subject was thinking when they have no way of knowing that.) Additionally, he had access to a large amount of material-- letters, speeches, diary notes, music-- of Callen's and less from Hemphill although he conducted interviews with many of his close friends and also gained assess to some of his unpublished poems. One of those, expressing Mr. Hemphill's feelings after the death of his friend Joe Beam (whose obit in the PHILADELPHIA INQUIRER said that ''he is believed to have died of natural causes'") is not one I will soon forget and worth the price of this book:

There should have been
More letters between us.
In later years it will be difficult to ascertain
The full meaning of our relations.
Most of us will not be here
To bear witness.
There should have been
more letters hastily written
or carefully typed,
long-winded scripts
or short, cryptic messages.
Volumes of letters
should have gathered
over time, but we leave
hastily scrawled postcards,
outrageous, long-distance
phone bills,
and in rare instances
evidence that some of us
were more than brothers,
we were intimate,
loyal, companions.

HOLD TIGHT GENTLY is another sad reminder of all those we have lost, not only the extremely gifted but the rest of us, the ordinary as well. Those of us who remain will never forget them.
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Reviewed in the United States on September 3, 2014
Hold Me Tightly is absolutely stunning. The book is a riveting and fast paced expose of the horrible and terrifying AIDS plague
that took so many lives leaving behind stunned and bitter survivors. While the gay agenda in recent years has shifted to
gay marriage rights the author fairly questions the lack of a gay community response to the ongoing disease and its continual spread into the gay community. This is a book that asks as many questions as answers them. The decision to tell the story through the lives of two
victims, each from a different social strata, clearly defines the struggles and the horrific fear that decimated at least two generations of gay men from different races, different regions of the country and different socio-economic brackets. The Reagan presidency, Mayor Koch
and Governor Mario Cuomo are not spared. History will judge whether these men could and should have done more to help the victims.
I would highly recommend Hold Me Tightly to anyone who lived through the Aids 1980-95 Nightmare, or who lost someone special to this
disease as well as anyone too young to remember the horror but would like to pay homage to the early pioneers who put on the pressure
to get the "cocktails" out there which has made the disease "manageable". However the author Mr. Duberman would rightly correct me
in making the assumption that AIDS is "manageable". His arguments for this belief are just another reason to read this important and honest
piece of work.
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Reviewed in the United States on September 17, 2014
I have been yearning for the seminal book documenting the AIDS epidemic. This is it. It is all here...for those of us who walked through the fire, this book is aflame. It is not an easy read, it was a horrible time...but it is not over and we should never forget the many too many who died, who fought for care, for understanding, for decency. This book shows what love can do....but we are not done yet....we need to get everyone we know to read and remember and not ever allow this to happen to any group of people again..thank you Martin Duberman for your heart and soul that went into this book. And of course for your exquisite writing. What an exquisite memorial.
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