- Hardcover: 211 pages
- Publisher: Atria; First Edition edition (2003)
- Language: English
- ISBN-10: 0743448782
- ISBN-13: 978-0743448789
- Product Dimensions: 6.3 x 0.9 x 9.5 inches
- Shipping Weight: 14.4 ounces
- Average Customer Review: 2.7 out of 5 stars See all reviews (145 customer reviews)
- Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #564,176 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
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Honor Lost: Love and Death in Modern-Day Jordan Hardcover – Abridged, 2003
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The author claims in her book (a claim repeated in her review of Queen Noor�s book �Leap of Faith�) that many Jordanian women are in jail for their own protection as they fear that they might be killed by their families. As an Australian of Jordanian descent, I know for a fact that it is indeed true and I believe that it shouldn�t happen as it is plain injustice that we should all fight.
But, by writing so in her book, the author shot unknowingly herself in the foot because, if she was REALLY threatened with death by her OWN family for 5 years, why didn�t she seek the jail�s protection against her family�s �death threat� like the other women? Quite the opposite, she spent the last FIVE YEARS of her life in Jordan AT HOME not in jail �in fear of her family�!
This is yet another undeniable proof that there was NO death threat made against her by her family. In fact, as two reviewers already noticed, her family belongs to a social upper class that does not believe in honour killing. Somehow, she �forgot� to mention this fact in her book. One wonders why!
If her family REALLY threatened her with death, she would have headed towards the nearest prison asking for protection, the VERY SAME day the threat was made. Something she didn�t do for FIVE WHOLE YEARS, by deciding to stay at home. So much for that �death threat�! Also a death threat that remains active for 5 years is just laughable.
I am therefore sad to say that this book is a pack of lies, written for a gullible and perhaps prejudiced western readership. This �death threat� claim and episode is just another illustrative example of the tendency of this book to be caught increasingly in the web of its own lies.Read more ›
21 pages is the maximum I could go with this book, I could not take the lies in it anymore. As a matter of fact, I believe it should enter the Guiness books of records as "the publication with the largest number of lies ever"!. Norma, maybe this will get you more fame, which is obviously the only reason why you wrote this book.
With all due respect to the people who liked this book, I think you should travel to Jordan before deciding that it was a good book and from the first sight, you will understand that it is all lies.
Being half Jordanian myself, I never saw anything that the author describes in Jordan at this age and time, is it the same Jordan we are talking about?
My suggestion to those reading this review, dont waste your money on a book like this, it is not real and not fun to read at all. The summary written above is all what the book is about.
Although the style of the book can be enticing sometimes, one fact remains undeniable and obvious to me, as someone born and bred in Jabal Hussein: There was/is no unisex salon in our locality.
Norma Khouri and Dalia most probably ran a women's salon; which is more likely and believable in our prevailing culture where men and women do not mix as freely as in the west. Indeed, with Muslim women wearing the hijab (Islamic scarf), a unisex salon is not only a social anathema but also a recipe for business disaster. So, I have found it mystifying, to say the least, to read the author say that their `unisex' salon's business was flourishing. In any case, had it existed, we would have known about it, as it allegedly became a success during five whole years. Such a salon cannot be missed over such a long period.
The reason why Norma Khouri bestowed the `unisex' character upon her women only salon seems to justify the introduction of Michael to set off the `love story' saga. Whether Michael is a real person or imaginary, the jury is still out.
The fact that Norma Khouri was so `imaginative' about the setting of this book, for a start, suggests that the whole book `love story' cannot be trusted as facts can be interchanged with fiction at will. As a reviewer put it, Dalia could have died of natural causes that have nothing to do with honour killing.
Honour killing is a serious matter of life and death that we ought to address objectively and truthfully, with no allowance for fiction or self-declared `revenge', to fight till eradication the mentality that breeds such willingness to kill innocent lives.Read more ›
In my line of work, I have dealt with claims, as dramatic as the authors', that are made by people eager to enter the west by any means. The author's assertions have simply not been backed up by any material evidence. This is a `love' story with not a single proof! The contrast between this book and Queen Noor's which describes her love story with King Hussein is amazing. In that book, the documented evidence of their love is for all to see-even letters and photos were included!
The author writes that Dalia's death is genuine and her `love' story is true. However, a close inspection shows unbelievable contradictions documented by your reviewers. I may not be Jordanian or a Muslim but, because I have lived for a while in Jordan and the middle-east, I have noticed that the author has been truly careless about her description of her country of origin and Islam. It is as if the author's bottom line, when writing this book, was: `western readers know nothing about Jordan and Islam, so they WILL believe anything they are told anyway'.
For example, the author claim's that photography is forbidden in Islam is blatantly false. As an amateur photographer, I am fascinated by the beauty of Jordan and have attended IN AMMAN photographic exhibitions about the red city of Petra. Also, since she claims to be a close friend to a Muslim lady called Dalia, has the author never seen -in Dalia's home- an Islamic calendar with photos of, say, mosques around the world? I have got one at home!Read more ›
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Honor killing is the bedrock of the book Honor Lost by Norma Khouri. In this narrative story, Khouri, a female Christian, depicts the short love life of Dalia, a Muslim girl, in... Read morePublished 20 months ago by Mehdi
This book, "Honor Lost: Love and Honor in Modern-day Jordan," by Norma Khouri, is a story of love and divinely sanctioned murder told under the strain and tension of an alien... Read morePublished 22 months ago by Herbert L Calhoun
Amazing story !!! thank you Norma.. I'm Muslim women and I know what you talking about. its very important to have stage and place for those woman who were killed in cold blood... Read morePublished on February 16, 2014 by samah
I want to give it five stars because it is a riveting story. I want to give it one star because it claims to be a non-fiction, personal account, but it is all fabricated. Read morePublished on November 21, 2013 by Carolyn J.
I'm confused as to why people are so mad that it was fiction( it says on this site that is fiction)! Read morePublished on October 21, 2013 by spiffyloo88
This book is complete farse. Born and raised in California, I lived in Jordan from 2004-2006 while serving in the Peace Corps. Read morePublished on March 26, 2011 by Ryan
I forced myself through this book because I thought I was reading a true story about an important cause. Read morePublished on January 27, 2011 by SpecialK
This book is exceptionally well written. And my Mother and I both vied for it when we were reading it. Read morePublished on September 24, 2009 by CelticWomanFanPiano