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How to ADHD: An Insider's Guide to Working with Your Brain (Not Against It) Hardcover – January 2, 2024
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“The world of ADHD has been waiting for this book with bated breath for many years. If there’s a fairy godmother of our lot, it’s Jessica McCabe.”—Edward Hallowell, MD, coauthor of Driven to Distraction and ADHD 2.0
Forget “try harder.” When your brain works differently, you need to try different.
Diagnosed with ADHD at age twelve, Jessica struggled with a brain that she didn’t understand. She lost things constantly, couldn’t finish projects, and felt like she was putting more effort in than everyone around her while falling further and further behind. At thirty-two years old—broke, divorced, and living with her mom—Jessica decided to look more deeply into her ADHD challenges. She reached out to experts, devoured articles, and shared her discoveries on YouTube.
In How to ADHD, Jessica reveals the tools that have changed her life while offering an unflinching look at the realities of living with ADHD. The key to navigating a world not built for the neurodivergent brain, she discovered, isn’t to fix or fight against its natural tendencies but to understand and work with them. She explains how ADHD affects everyday life, covering executive function impairments, rejection sensitivity, difficulties with attention regulation, and more. You’ll also find ADHD-specific strategies for adapting your environment, routines, and systems, including:
• Boost the signal and decrease the noise. Facilitate focus by putting your goals where you can see them and fighting distractions with distractions.
• Have less stuff to manage. Learn why you have trouble planning and prioritizing, and why doing more starts with doing less.
• Build your “time wisdom.” Work backward when you plan, and track how long it actually takes you to do something.
• Learn about your emotions. Understand how naming your emotions and letting yourself experience them can make them easier to regulate.
With quotes from Jessica’s online community, chapter summaries, and reading shortcuts designed for the neurodivergent reader, How to ADHD will help you recognize your strengths and challenges, tackle “bad brain days,” and be kinder to yourself in the process.
- Print length464 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherRodale Books
- Publication dateJanuary 2, 2024
- Dimensions6.41 x 1.43 x 9.41 inches
- ISBN-100593578945
- ISBN-13978-0593578940
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“Jessica McCabe writes with honesty, intelligence and warmth about living and growing with ADHD. McCabe has created something that is more than a guide. This book is like the friend/coach/therapist you’ve always wanted to help you understand how to work with your unique brain, improve daily functioning skills, and love yourself in the process. I learned a lot from reading this book and will definitely be recommending it to colleagues and clients!”—Sharon Saline, PsyD, author of What Your ADHD Child Wishes You Knew and The ADHD Solution Deck
“How to ADHD is a must-read book. From the ADHD-friendly layout to practical tips that help readers feel comfortable in their own skin, Jessica McCabe delivers what they need to take their next leap in life. She is vulnerable, encouraging, and inspirational. But, most of all, she gets what it's like to live with a neurodivergent brain.”—Caroline Maguire, bestselling author of Why Will No One Play with Me?
“When it comes to ADHD, Jess has lived it, sweated it, cried it, studied it, and mastered it. Well, okay, it’s still a work in progress. But she’s learned a lot, often does great, and feels much better about it when things don’t work out. She’s here to share that hard-earned wisdom to make your journey smoother and to remind you that you’re in this together. Jessica McCabe is the ADHD friend that you need most.”—Ari Tuckman, PsyD, ADHD expert and author of four books on adult ADHD, including ADHD After Dark: Better Sex Life, Better Relationship
“How to ADHD is an intimate and charismatic guide to understanding someone with ADHD that has actually managed to hold my attention. I could feel the love with which it was written, and I laughed, cried, and had breakthroughs alongside Jessica as I was reading. I have no doubt that this guide will save many lives and help strengthen and improve relationships.”—Pina Varnel, creator of ADHD Alien and author of Feeling Like an ADHD Alien
“Jessica McCabe has once again proven why she’s the leading voice of modern ADHD education. How to ADHD is a masterful blend of science communication, life hacks, and raw vulnerability. If ADHD is your brain’s unique operating system, then this book is the ultimate user’s guide.”—Dani Donovan, ADHD creator and author of The Anti-Planner: How to Get Stuff Done When You Don't Feel Like It
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Hello, Brains!
You found my book! A BOOK! How did that happen? Well, first I had to write one. So why did I, someone with ADHD, do such a long and forever-taking thing? Because I lose and forget things, and what I have learned over the last seven years is too important to do that with. As I’ll explain in Chapter 1, my intention in starting the YouTube channel How to ADHD was to put everything I learned about ADHD in one place so that I could actually find it again when I needed it.
Well, it’s years later. Over the course of building the channel, I’ve developed a deep and detailed understanding of the invisible obstacles those with ADHD tend to run into, as well as our options for dealing with them. The (almost) weekly videos in which I’ve shared what I learned, every step along my journey, have helped me and millions of others learn to work with our brains, not against them.
In fact, my team and I have made so many videos that even I’m a little overwhelmed by the amount of information we’ve put together! Sometimes I wish I could just flip to a table of contents, or control-F my channel or my brain.
Until that is possible, I’m putting the most important information I learned—what’s been the most helpful for me and for my community—in a book. Something tangible, with a cover and a table of contents and an index. A reference to remind myself of a tool I can use when I’m feeling stuck. And if I accidentally leave it on the bus like half my school notebooks, I can just buy a new one—wherever I am in the world. (Hello, International Brains!!)
More importantly, though, I wanted to write a book that would give people the experience they’d have if they saw my TEDx Talk, binge-watched my videos, hung out in the comments section, and went to coffee with me. I wanted to give others, if I could, what I had found on my own journey: a deep understanding of how our brains work, a sense of solidarity, and a toolbox full of strategies tailored to the specific challenges we face in achieving what it is we set out to achieve. I wanted to make our invisible obstacles visible for as many people as possible, so we stop blaming ourselves for tripping over them and understand how to navigate them. And I wanted to do it all in one book.
It was an ambitious project, and I wasn’t sure how to make it happen. I was pretty sure it wasn’t even possible many, many times while creating it. But I used the book I was writing to push me over the finish line—tapping into the tools, reading the ending anecdotes for each chapter when I felt discouraged, and . . . well, here it is!
What you are holding in your hands right now is the book I needed and didn’t have. Maybe it’s the book you needed and didn’t have.
Think of this as a user’s guide to ADHD full of insights, research, strategies, and validation, one that both explains and embraces how our brains work. You won’t find definitive solutions for managing ADHD, but a menu of tools I’ve collected from the community, ADHD experts, lived experience, and research. You’ll also find deep dives into why we even need these strategies, so you can choose the ones that fit your unique life and brain. The information and strategies I share in these chapters are meant to empower those with ADHD, enlighten and support the efforts of those who love someone with ADHD, and be helpful and insightful for anyone who is simply human.
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- Publisher : Rodale Books (January 2, 2024)
- Language : English
- Hardcover : 464 pages
- ISBN-10 : 0593578945
- ISBN-13 : 978-0593578940
- Item Weight : 2.31 pounds
- Dimensions : 6.41 x 1.43 x 9.41 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #5,970 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
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Jessica McCabe is the creator, writer, and star of the award-winning, pioneering YouTube channel How to ADHD. Since its founding in 2015, How to ADHD has grown to over one and a half million subscribers. The channel - widely respected by treatment providers, ADHD researchers, and especially the ADHD community - has become a treasure trove of scientifically backed and experientially affirming information on how people with ADHD might work with their brains in a world not built for them.
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Customers find the book to be a phenomenal resource that helps understand ADHD challenges and offers helpful advice. Moreover, the content is easy to read and understand, with well-told stories that make it relatable and filled with appropriate emotion. Additionally, customers appreciate its entertainment value, with one noting it delivers great information in a fun way. The book receives positive feedback for its humor and cover design, with one customer highlighting its understated blue cover.
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Customers find the book to be a phenomenal resource that helps them understand ADHD and its challenges, providing truly helpful advice. One customer specifically mentions how it addresses everyday struggles like staying focused.
"...So, it has a memoir feel to it. I like that. It helps to have applied examples, and her writing style is personal and filled with appropriate..." Read more
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Customers find the book easy to read and understand, with one customer noting that any jargon is clearly defined in simple language.
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Customers appreciate the heartfelt story of the book, finding it relatable and well-told, with one customer noting how the author shares her own experiences and is honest about her struggles.
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Customers find the book entertaining, with one mentioning that it educates without being boring.
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"...More organized and less emotionally draining, because I would have had the proper tools! Thanks for doing this Jess! You truly are a Godsend <3" Read more
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"...It's been great underlining and scribbling notes in it to refer back to. I'm only a few chapters in and am SO glad I have a physical copy" Read more
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- Reviewed in the United States on January 24, 2024I was hoping I would like and appreciate this book as a resource to learning more about my new diagnosis. Thankfully, I do! There are soooo many books out there for ADHD, and this one may just be my favorite at this point. She applies all the material in the book to her own life. So, it has a memoir feel to it. I like that. It helps to have applied examples, and her writing style is personal and filled with appropriate emotion because it is so important to her, personally. It doesn't feel like a text book. It feels like a friend is teaching you all about your brain. It is very cozy and pleasant, which is great for ADHD'ers :) I am thankful Jessica chose to try this life path, and I am grateful for her time spent writing this tremendous and BIG written resource for ADHD brains. Thank you~ :)
- Reviewed in the United States on January 4, 2024I've been a fan of Jessica's since she started her channel, and have been helped so much by all her information. So, when she announced a book was in the works, I pre-ordered it, and received it yesterday.
I'm already up to chapter 6, and really appreciate the effort that was put into this book. It's definitely written for those of us with ADHD, by someone who also has ADHD. That makes a difference! It's relatable, easy to understand, and it makes sense to my brain.
Too many times, there are books written for self-help, and you can tell that the author has very little personal experience with the concept they are trying to write about. They come across as preaching or talking down to their readers. This is not the case with Jessica's book. She's been there, done that, lived through it, and personally learned from a lifetime of her experiences dealing with her own ADHD brain. She's not just passing on results from some random medical study, telling you what to do, she's giving you the benefit from her own experience.
Doctors and therapists can try to help, but their knowledge is limited, and their "help" is rarely based on more than the little training they've had with ADHD, and the common ideas of what ADHD is and the usual presentations of the complications.
This book can serve as a way for doctors, teachers, parents, therapists of all sorts to really better understand ADHD and how our brains work (or often don't as the case may be). It will help us to understand ourselves, and help others to understand us as well.
5.0 out of 5 starsI've been a fan of Jessica's since she started her channel, and have been helped so much by all her information. So, when she announced a book was in the works, I pre-ordered it, and received it yesterday.Life changing information for those of us with ADHD!
Reviewed in the United States on January 4, 2024
I'm already up to chapter 6, and really appreciate the effort that was put into this book. It's definitely written for those of us with ADHD, by someone who also has ADHD. That makes a difference! It's relatable, easy to understand, and it makes sense to my brain.
Too many times, there are books written for self-help, and you can tell that the author has very little personal experience with the concept they are trying to write about. They come across as preaching or talking down to their readers. This is not the case with Jessica's book. She's been there, done that, lived through it, and personally learned from a lifetime of her experiences dealing with her own ADHD brain. She's not just passing on results from some random medical study, telling you what to do, she's giving you the benefit from her own experience.
Doctors and therapists can try to help, but their knowledge is limited, and their "help" is rarely based on more than the little training they've had with ADHD, and the common ideas of what ADHD is and the usual presentations of the complications.
This book can serve as a way for doctors, teachers, parents, therapists of all sorts to really better understand ADHD and how our brains work (or often don't as the case may be). It will help us to understand ourselves, and help others to understand us as well.
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- Reviewed in the United States on February 19, 2025Because book about ADHD I’ve ever read! The book is specifically set up so people like me can read it! And if that’s still not working for u, the audiobook is amazing too!
- Reviewed in the United States on March 3, 2025I just love this book - easy to read, full of great advice, and practical techniques that really work!
- Reviewed in the United States on March 30, 2025As a fan of Jessica McCabe after I ran across her videos on YouTube, I can say that this book has her same positive vibe.
The world is full of books that claim to have the "answer" to coping with ADHD, and in a lot of cases, the advice just doesn't make sense. There are just too many people with too many differences for any one approach to work for everyone.
Luckily, McCabe doesn't try to give you the "answer". Instead, she tells her story about learning about the way her brain works, then turns to her community of thousands for strategies. Peppered through every section are hundreds of different individuals giving strategies that have helped them. Instead of presenting a single answer, the book is like a buffet-- conventional approaches not working? Here are ten unconventional approaches that helped at least one person. Try whichever sounds the most promising!
With so many choices, it's hard not to find some genuinely useful advice. I was surprised at just how often I said, "What a great idea! I bet I could do THAT."
If you're one of the people who had struggled with ADHD and all the self-help books sound like they have no idea what you deal with every day, here is a book that's different. Not just based on research and studies, but also based on real people struggling to be neurodiverse in a nerotypical world.
You can do this.
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Monika H.Reviewed in the Netherlands on March 24, 20245.0 out of 5 stars Absolute GOLD!!!
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Fanny ZebadúaReviewed in Mexico on March 11, 20255.0 out of 5 stars Jessica is awesome
Me encanta. Desde hace mucho que pensaba comprar este libro, es increíble. Me identifico mucho y me está ayudando a entender más mi cerebro con TDAH
Sherri MartelleReviewed in Japan on May 7, 20245.0 out of 5 stars Great book
We just really adore this Author
AnnaReviewed in Sweden on June 8, 20245.0 out of 5 stars I wish I’d had this book sooner
In my family three of four persons have adhd. This book is useful for all for of us, from different perspectives. I love Jessica’s writing style and she present the information in such an easy to understand way. I love this book and would recommend it to anyone who wants to learn about adhd! ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
Helena PrevolsekReviewed in Germany on March 1, 20255.0 out of 5 stars Good book
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