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How We Love, Expanded Edition: Discover Your Love Style, Enhance Your Marriage Paperback – July 11, 2017
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“How We Love has the capacity to change not only your marriage but every relationship that’s important in your life.”
–Josh McDowell, Christian apologist, evangelist, and author of more than seventy-five books including More Than a Carpenter and Evidence that Demands a Verdict
“The authors have translated the complexity of how we love into a highly readable and clearly written book. Couples will easily be able to identify their love styles and how to transform them into genuine love. I recommend it to all couples.”
–Harville Hendrix, PHD, therapist and educator with over twenty-five years of experience, cofounder and president of the Institute for Imago Relationship Therapy, and author of Getting the Love You Want
“Milan and Kay bring us a fresh look at intimacy and how we learn to love. Their practical and personal approach will enrich anyone’s marriage.”
–Daivd Stoop, PHD, psychologist and author of When Couples Pray Together
“I found How We Love to be extremely enlightening: a discovery of how best to love my wife, how to nurture her through a better understanding of our love styles, and how to implement change.”
–Phil Waugh, executive director of Covenant Marriage Movement
“I have had the joy and privilege of working with Milan and Kay on a professional level and have been amazed at the success of their therapeutic techniques. Understanding our love styles and taking down the walls created by our imprints are skills that can help every marriage. I am thrilled that more couples will learn how to strengthen their relationships through the tools described in this book.”
–Dr. Elizabeth John, MD, psychiatrist
“Milan and Kay have taken their own life experience, their research over the years, and their experience in the counseling office, and distilled it into a work that is rigorous, original, and understandable. If you want to strengthen and enrich your marriage, as well as grow personally, I strongly encourage you to read and digest this material. The effect on all your relationships will be powerful.”
–Dr. Jim Masteller, executive director of the Center for Individual and Family Therapy
“Through Milan and Kay’s candid stories you will learn your own love style, find how to connect more deeply with your spouse, and ultimately realize who you were meant to be at the core of your being.”
–Greg Campbell, retired business executive
“Forget everything external you think defines you. The quality of your relationships and your contributions to them are what make life great or miserable. This book is a key to a world of insight into intimacy only you can bring to your relationships. With each page, I felt Milan and Kay had seen my movie! My marriage is different today because of the simple, profound help I discovered in these pages.”
–Kenny Luck, author of Risk and Every Man, God’s Man, men’s pastor at Saddleback Church, and founder of Every Man Ministries
“The Yerkoviches have taken important developmental and psychological concepts and given them to us in a user-friendly fashion. They give us a peek into their personal journey and the countless people they have helped move from young hurts toward more meaningful intimate attachment. How We Love helps us see ourselves more clearly and understand our roles in the impasses of our relationships.…A practical and impactful read for all!”
–Jill Hubbard, PHD, clinical psychologist, cohost of New Life Live! national radio program, speaker, and full-time mom
“I am excited that Milan and Kay have given us the guiding principles of a successful marriage. With candor and uncommon insight they have demystified the issues in relationships that cause so many couples to get stuck. This book will get the wheels rolling and provide a destination filled with hope, healing, and fulfillment.”
–Dr. Mick Ukeja, president of LeadershipTraq and chair of the Governing Council of the Ukleja Center for Ethical Leadership
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This book can uncover some pretty messed up stuff in you that you didn't know was there, and I know first hand that can be scary. You'll get the most out of this book if you give yourself some serious alone time to read and truly process the first 3 chapters. Going through this with your spouse makes the process ever more satisfying as you not only learn more about how and why you respond the way you do, you'll likely see your spouse in a way that you've never seen before.
Spouse or not, this one can truly help you in all relationships.
This is not a book to read: it is a book to learn, reflect on, and use as a practical guide to improve emotional connection and happiness in you marriage. The book must ideally be read and studied by both husband and wife together. However, in those cases where only one spouse is willing to make the effort of learning the book's content, I highly recommend that this one spouse makes the effort alone, and then device a strategy to bring the other on board. This book has the potential to be life changing for those couples who are prepared to put in the considerable effort required to improve the relationship. But the payoff is huge! It's worth the effort.
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Your experience of attachment to parents in early years will have shaped you in one direction or another when it comes to close friendships and especially romantic relationships. As a qualified counsellor myself, I've learned a lot about myself as I've used the questionnaires in the book and also helped others to reflect on their own patterns of behaviour, using them. This is one of my top 3 or 4 books on making marriage work, although of course it will help you understand how you tend to form any kind of relationship. I highly recommend it.
Nevertheless, even though there is some talk about the Lord and the Christian religion, it is still very readable and helpful. Those who cannot relate to religion can just simply ignore it or see it as a part of the Yerkovichs biography which they wanted to share with the reader in order to make you understand their own journey in marriage.
after 40 years of marriage, we can still grow closer!
Life is wonder full!!