- Paperback: 184 pages
- Publisher: Nicholson & Stillwell; 1 edition (June 26, 2017)
- Language: English
- ISBN-10: 0999052020
- ISBN-13: 978-0999052020
- Product Dimensions: 5.2 x 0.5 x 8 inches
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- Average Customer Review: 6 customer reviews
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How to Write an Online Obituary: Virtual Memorials Made Simple Paperback – June 26, 2017
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A handy guide that demystifies the challenging art of modern obituary writing.
Most people are familiar with the boilerplate newspaper obit, but some may wonder: do we really need to keep writing them in the modern era? "The web has obliterated space limitations and media restrictions," writes the author in her introduction, "yet obituary writers are urged to follow the same shopworn templates folks used 30 years ago." The past few decades have seen great shifts toward secularism, confessionalism, and online social interactions. Kinsey, a longtime professional editor and writer, argues that contemporary obituaries should accommodate this evolution in order to properly celebrate the recently deceased. Her debut book is intended as a beginner's guide to obit writing, offering not only tips on the writing process, but also an expanded notion of what an obituary can be. Modern obits, she says, must celebrate the deceased's individuality and humanity--even if that means recognizing some flaws--with photos, videos, voice recordings, music, and other media in addition to simple prose. Kinsey tackles such topics as collaborating on an obituary (or writing one's own), figuring out a subject's essential qualities, choosing a digital platform, and even photo and video editing techniques. Citing real obituaries as examples, the author takes readers through the myriad options for making sure that an "obituee" doesn't become a mere name on a piece of paper. The author writes in a colorful, cajoling prose that keeps things light with numerous jokes and asides: "On my very first report card, the teacher wrote 'Easily distracted.' What do people remember about your obituee's habits and behavior?" She also peppers the text with quotes from famous authors and experienced obituary writers. Most illuminating are the excerpts from dozens of real obituaries, which Kinsey highlights to demonstrate successful uses of place and nostalgia and other elements of a thoughtful, balanced remembrance. In more than 150 pages, Kinsey approaches this art from every angle, and although she advocates for highly personalized obituaries, her book works well as a catchall guide to the form.
A thorough, accessible obit-creation manual.
From the Author
When my father died in 2014, I volunteered to write the obituary. No sweat. After all, I'd been a writer and editor for 20+ years. But it was trickier than I thought. Where to begin? Which stories and details would set apart my dad's obit from tributes to other beloved fathers, grandfathers, and military veterans? My Google searches for tips on obituary writing turned up only predictable suggestions: be brief, pound out a string of clichés, add a superfluous list of survivors, and toss in a few harps and angels. The resulting death notice is so bland, it could pass for a LinkedIn profile. My dad deserved more than that--doesn't everyone? Casting about for direction but finding little, I applied what I knew of writing in general and tried to tell his extraordinary story. When I was finished, I resolved to help others who want to remember their loved ones (or write their own obituaries) with warmth, authenticity, and a bit of chutzpah.
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And it provides a step-by-step guide for doing so, as well as provides examples to give you an idea of what the author is talking about. For instance, instead of telling readers how much the deceased loved animals, show them: "When one of her cats died, the word would go out in cat circles and a new stray would appear at the back door to take up residence."
In addition to instructing you on how to make your loved one "come alive" through words, the author also walks you through the technology of our digital age and provides valuable insights on how to use it, as well as how to incorporate photos, video, and audio into your online tribute.
As an English teacher, I've read far too many dull, boring, and poorly written obituaries of strangers and, yes, even friends and relatives as well. Read this book, follow the instructions, and you will be able to create a fitting and celebratory tribute to those you love. In other words, an obituary that both I and your deceased loved one would give an "A+."