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Dear Ijeawele, or A Feminist Manifesto in Fifteen Suggestions Paperback – May 1, 2018

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NATIONAL BESTSELLER • The award-winning author of We Should All Be Feminists and Americanah gives us this powerful statement about feminism today—written as a letter to a friend.

A few years ago, Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie received a letter from a childhood friend, a new mother who wanted to know how to raise her baby girl to be a feminist.
Dear Ijeawele is Adichie’s letter of response: fifteen invaluable suggestions—direct, wryly funny, and perceptive—for how to empower a daughter to become a strong, independent woman. Filled with compassionate guidance and advice, it gets right to the heart of sexual politics in the twenty-first century, and starts a new and urgently needed conversation about what it really means to be a woman today.

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A volume as fierce and illuminating as bringing up a confident daughter

I love this book so much, for many reasons.

Adichie epistomizes and epistolizes our potential

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Dear Ijeawele is a volume as fierce and illuminating as bringing up a confident daughter, both with love at their core.” —O, The Oprah Magazine

“I love this book so much, for many reasons. Chimamanda is one of my favorite authors.” —Amber Tamblyn,
GQ

“Adichie epitomizes and epistolizes our potential in 
Dear Ijeawele." —Sloane Crosely, Vanity Fair 

“Personal and urgent. . . . Adichie is passionate about equality. Her new book offers 15 ways that we can encourage girls to be strong, to plant seeds of feminism. But more than that, Adichie hopes the book will help ‘move us toward a world that is more gender equal.’ Doing so means knocking down ingrained assumptions about how men and women think and behave.” —
The Washington Post

“Adichie’s suggestions are logical and stated clearly, full of her dry wit, and range from the obvious (‘Do it together’) to the bold (‘Reject likeability’). . . . As much as this is a book written to mothers of daughters, fathers of daughters would benefit from reading it, too; parents in general would do well to try to raise children who won't have to grow up and read it at all. . . . Powerful and life-affirming, offering wisdom for everyone.” —
The Village Voice
 
“Adichie has partly written
Dear Ijeawele to reclaim the word feminism from its abusers and misusers. Her advice is not only to provide children with alternatives—to empower boys and girls to understand there is no single way to be—but also to understand that the only universal in this world is difference.  Adichie is a brilliant novelist and a serious thinker, and she is also someone who makes no apology for her own trivial interests. Her understanding of feminism is intertwined with her understanding that we all want to be more than one thing.” —The Guardian

About the Author

CHIMAMANDA NGOZI ADICHIE grew up in Nigeria. Her work has been translated into more than fifty-five languages. She is the author of the novels Purple Hibiscus, which won the Commonwealth Writers’ Prize; Half of a Yellow Sun, which was the recipient of the Women’s Prize for Fiction “Best of the Best” award; Americanah, which won the National Book Critics Circle Award; the story collection The Thing Around Your Neck and the essays We Should All Be Feminists and Dear Ijeawele, or A Feminist Manifesto in Fifteen Suggestions. Her most recent work is an essay about losing her father, Notes on Grief, and Mama’s Sleeping Scarf, a children’s book written as Nwa Grace-James. A recipient of a MacArthur Fellowship, she divides her time between the United States and Nigeria.

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  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Vintage
  • Publication date ‏ : ‎ May 1, 2018
  • Edition ‏ : ‎ Reprint
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Print length ‏ : ‎ 80 pages
  • ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 0525434801
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-0525434801
  • Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 2.31 pounds
  • Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 4.4 x 0.3 x 6.3 inches
  • Best Sellers Rank: #65,200 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
  • Customer Reviews:
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CHIMAMANDA NGOZI ADICHIE grew up in Nigeria. Her work has been translated into more than fifty-five languages. She is the author of the novels Purple Hibiscus, which won the Commonwealth Writers’ Prize; Half of a Yellow Sun, which was the recipient of the Women’s Prize for Fiction “Best of the Best” award; Americanah, which won the National Book Critics Circle Award; the story collection The Thing Around Your Neck and the essays We Should All Be Feminists and Dear Ijeawele, or A Feminist Manifesto in Fifteen Suggestions. Her most recent work is an essay about losing her father, Notes on Grief, and Mama’s Sleeping Scarf, a children’s book written as Nwa Grace-James. A recipient of a MacArthur Fellowship, she divides her time between the United States and Nigeria.

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4.8 out of 5 stars
6,654 global ratings

Customers say

Customers find this book to be a wonderful quick read filled with wisdom and thought-provoking insights. The writing style is brilliant, and one customer notes how the author explains complicated ideas simply. Moreover, the book effectively reimagines gender-based attitudes and provides excellent information and advice. Customers appreciate its unapologetic and concise nature, with one noting the careful word choice, and find it easy to read.

186 customers mention "Readability"183 positive3 negative

Customers find the book to be a wonderful and quick read, particularly suitable for mothers.

"Great read! It was an evening read for me and I recommend this book!" Read more

"Great book. Easy to read. So very well written and organized. I was looking for something like this for the longest time...." Read more

"...It’s a quick read, but filled with lots of wisdom and depth to resonate long after you are done reading." Read more

"Quick, simple and easy read on a very important topic. I am recommending this book to everyone. It needs to be read, over and over" Read more

99 customers mention "Wisdom"99 positive0 negative

Customers find the book full of life lessons and great advice, with one customer noting how the wisdom is presented in a simple and applicable way.

"This is an engaging, to the point, accessible read...." Read more

"Thought provoking. I do not agree with everything says but it allows you to critically think...." Read more

"...Brilliant. Insightful. Witty. Powerful. Fun" Read more

"...The chapter on how early we need to do this was eye opening and thought provoking." Read more

49 customers mention "Writing style"49 positive0 negative

Customers praise the writing style of the book, describing it as brilliant and well composed, with one customer noting how the author suggests different ways to raise girls.

"Beautifully written, simple and clear, important and helpful. Adichie lays out the tenets of feminism in a perfect format for new parents...." Read more

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"Beautifully and thoughtfully written. Appropriate for parents of both girls AND boys!..." Read more

30 customers mention "Information quality"29 positive1 negative

Customers find the book informative and powerful, with one customer noting that the author does a good job of explaining complicated ideas simply.

"...The advice that is in the book is practical and thought-provoking- and it is perfect for every young woman...." Read more

"...have to do this or your stupid"; it was very gentle and informative." Read more

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26 customers mention "Feminist perspective"25 positive1 negative

Customers appreciate the feminist perspective of the book, which reimagines gender-based attitudes and provides good insights. One customer notes it's particularly suitable for those just beginning to explore feminism.

"...A central theme is the dismantling of gender roles...." Read more

"...It is very practical and presents feminist theory as something to be lived, not just discussed, so it serves as a handbook as well as a book of..." Read more

"This "how to"book is great! The ideas on how to raise a feminist are great...." Read more

"A thoughtful examination of gender roles in Nigerian Igbo society...." Read more

25 customers mention "Pacing"23 positive2 negative

Customers appreciate the book's pacing, finding it sensible, concise, and unapologetic, with one customer noting that the words are carefully chosen and deceptively simple.

"Concise and to the point. I like it. 👍🏾 Her suggestions make sense and are, dare I say, LOGICAL. Ijeawele, you lucky duck!..." Read more

"This is a gentle, kind, delightful look at how to be a good human being, from the lens of a loving Auntie who wants the best world for her friend's..." Read more

"Very simple, concise, straight to the point and hopeful piece of writing. Recommended to anyone who wants to end up a little bit smarter that before." Read more

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24 customers mention "Book length"21 positive3 negative

Customers appreciate the book's compact size.

"Short and sweet. This book changed the way I've thought of feminists...." Read more

"The book is very informative and short. It gets to the point. Taught me so much that I didn’t know and will pass on to my daughters and siblings." Read more

"A short book that everyone should take out the time to read, both men and women. Very impressed by the clarity of thought." Read more

"...I matter equally. Full stop." This book is a very small book (65 pages) with very important messages...." Read more

24 customers mention "Ease of read"24 positive0 negative

Customers find the book easy to read and appreciate its simple presentation.

"Simple and Beautifully Written concepts for the modern day feminist. It felt like a conversation with an old friend...." Read more

"Quick, simple and easy read on a very important topic. I am recommending this book to everyone. It needs to be read, over and over" Read more

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How to Raise a Feminist - The Definitive Guide
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How to Raise a Feminist - The Definitive Guide
If you've been following my reviews, you've seen how head-over-heels I was (still am) for We Should All Be Feminists by this author. And my feelings for that book haven't changed. I still maintain that it's the most articulate primer on Feminism that I have come across. But this book is something else. On a rating scale, yes both these books are 5/5 stars. But what does that even mean? Not much. Not when I feel the way I feel about these books. Though admittedly, one of the reasons why I feel strongly about these books is because I feel strongly about the causes that they represent. And this is not to undermine the sheer brilliance of the manner through which Adichie communicates her message. Because she excels in packing a very effective, very hard-hitting punch in very few, super articulate words, all the while keeping the tone light and conversational. And this book is especially more conversational (though no less thought-provoking) because it was inspired by a letter the author wrote to her friend, who at that time, was a new mother to a baby girl, who sought Adichie's advice on 'How to raise her girl as a Feminist'. This book is essentially Adichie's response to her friend, sharing her 15 suggestions on how to raise a feminist. But let me tell you, it's no ordinary letter. It's a letter that should be laminated/framed, and passed on to the future generations. In-fact it's a letter that should be made mandatory reading for everyone (yes, for everyone - girls and boys), right along with We Should All Be Feminists. Because if We Should All Be Feminists was the best, most concise and articulate primer on Feminism, this is one on Parenting with respect to Gender Equality. Which is why it's a MUST READ for EVERYONE. And I keep emphasizing everyone, because I read somewhere that this is a 'Must Read Book for Girl Moms', and I was like no, no, NO!! This book, feminism, gender equality is not just for girl moms, it's for boy moms, it's for parents of all humans, which includes dads too, btw. However, that being said, I personally feel like you don't need to be a parent to read this book. We, as a society have had centuries of terrible conditioning that needs to be challenged/reversed/set right. Which is why I highly recommend both these books to every one. Start with We Should All be Feminists, but then pick this one up right away. But if you could read only one, make it this one. - Shantala at Shanaya Tales
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  • Reviewed in the United States on December 2, 2024
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    In Dear Ijeawele: A Feminist Manifesto in Fifteen Suggestions, Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie offers a deeply personal yet universally relevant guide on raising a child to embrace gender equality. Written as a letter to a friend seeking advice on raising her daughter, Adichie blends poignant storytelling with incisive social critique, crafting a work that is both accessible and profoundly impactful.
    A central theme is the dismantling of gender roles. Adichie emphasizes the importance of teaching children that "gender is not an indicator of ability" and encourages questioning societal norms that perpetuate inequality. Her advice to empower girls by prioritizing self-worth over societal expectations is both timely and transformative.
    Reading this book reshaped my understanding of feminism, highlighting the subtle ways gender biases manifest in everyday life. Adichie’s candid examples—from language choices to the division of domestic labor—compelled me to reflect on my own actions and assumptions.
    While the book’s conversational tone makes it engaging, its brevity sometimes leaves certain ideas underexplored. Readers seeking more depth may find themselves wanting additional context or examples.
    Overall, Dear Ijeawele is an inspiring and practical guide for fostering equality. Its simplicity is its strength, making it a must-read for parents and anyone committed to a more equitable world.
  • Reviewed in the United States on March 10, 2017
    Format: HardcoverVerified Purchase
    Spend $10 to buy this book right now. It's brilliantly simple, gentle but direct, unapologetic, and earnest. It took me a mere 15 minutes to get halfway through it this morning while getting ready for work, and now I'm itching to get back home to finish it. EVERYONE should read this book and it MUST change the way you interact with all those you love: women, men, girls, and boys alike.

    When I hear the word feminism, I think, "Oh, to be a feminist I have to be really in-your-face, angry, on a pointed mission, purposeful about flouting cultural norms, and anti-men." I know I'm wrong... but that's unfortunately the ingrained association I have with that word, and thus I've always felt unfit to call myself (or even to aspire to be) a feminist. Yet of course I want to set an amazing example for my children of how to be an unstoppable human being -- is that "in spite of" being a woman? is it "because" I'm a woman? is it because I am who I am, which is a lot of different things?

    In the span of a few pages, Adichie swiftly opens my eyes to a completely different definition of what it means to be a feminist: feminism is about being empowered, educated, authentic, and tenacious. Who wouldn't want to live in a society in which ALL individuals felt they were on equal footing to demonstrate those attributes?? I'm only halfway through this book and yet my spirits are renewed and my hope that I truly can make a difference is revitalized.

    Read this book... and then pass it on to everyone you love.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on August 31, 2018
    Format: PaperbackVerified Purchase
    My coworker and friend gave me this book when my twin daughters turned 5 - more of a birthday present for me, I suppose. I read this book in an hour, and refer back to it often, reading even a few age appropriate lines to my girls, now alomost 8.

    This book is derived from a letter the author of the book Ms. Adichie wrote her friend, Ijeawele, when Ijeawele had her first baby. Ijeawele reached out to her friend for advice on raising her daughter. Among the 15 beautifully packaged pieces of advice Ms. Adichie gives her friend, the following themes resonated with me. I've taken the liberty of paraphrasing in my own inartful way.

    -Be a full person yourself, but ask for help when you need it.
    My interpretation: Don't be ashamed to work outside the home. Your kid will be fine.

    -Raise your child together with your partner - women shouldn't be relegated just to the female roles.
    My interpretation: You are both equal parents. Dad doesn't need a standing ovation when he changes a diaper - he should be doing this.

    -"Because you are a girl" is never a reason for anything. Ever.
    No interpretation needed.

    -Teach her to reject likeability. Teach her to be brave, kind and to stand up for herself.
    My interpretation: "You do you!" Being kind, brave and assertive are not mutually exclusive things.

    Overall, lots of very good advice in an easily readable format.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on April 25, 2017
    This is an engaging, to the point, accessible read. It is very practical and presents feminist theory as something to be lived, not just discussed, so it serves as a handbook as well as a book of feminist theory. Parents will find this the most useful as it sets out Adichie's feminist beliefs surrounding gender roles and how patriarchy affects children, but I enjoyed it as well. It does not get bogged down with technical jargon - Adichie skillfully simplifies complicated theory into more accessible language.

    My only criticism is that it does occasionally move into cissexist territory, and knowing Adichie's beliefs surrounding trans politics, I would recommend people to keep this in mind when they read it.
  • Reviewed in the United States on May 26, 2025
    Format: PaperbackVerified Purchase
    Great read! It was an evening read for me and I recommend this book!

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  • Alessandra C.
    5.0 out of 5 stars Consiglio a tutti di leggerlo!!
    Reviewed in Italy on July 10, 2019
    Adoro questo libro, si può leggere tranquillamente in un'ora o anche meno. È bellissimo.
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  • MimCull
    5.0 out of 5 stars Indispensable
    Reviewed in Spain on November 5, 2018
    Libro de ágil lectura, súper-interesante e indispensable para cualquier persona que quiera educar a los más pequeños en unos valores cívicos, democráticos y justos.
    Feminismo del sentido común.
  • Natalia
    5.0 out of 5 stars Perfect book for everyone, adults and kids
    Reviewed in the Netherlands on May 27, 2025
    Perfect book for everyone, adults and kids no matter the gender or age
  • Nina Rosales
    5.0 out of 5 stars Un libro que todos deberíamos leer
    Reviewed in Mexico on November 23, 2019
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    Si me preguntaran qué cosas cambiaría sobre cómo fui educada desde niña, pediría que lo hicieran así como propone Chimamanda. Me parece una reflexión bastante significativa sobre lo que significa, para otros y para una misma, nacer mujer. Me encantó la manera de abordar ciertas cuestiones, de visibilizarlas y de plantear una formación diferente. Quisiera que hubiera profundizado más en ciertas cuestiones, pero igual pienso que la extensión favorece el ritmo de lectura.
  • amysreading_nook
    5.0 out of 5 stars Should be a required reading.
    Reviewed in the United Kingdom on September 20, 2020
    I picked this one up after reading "We Should All Be Feminists" and loving it, so I definitely thought I needed to give this one a go.

    I think the main thing I love about this book is that it started off as a letter to her friend on how to raise a feminist daughter; the book evolves slightly from that but essentially at it's core it is that letter. It's the sort of letter that I wish I was given growing up, that I wish everyone is given growing up. We aren't asking people to be perfect or non-judgemental, we're just asking people to have opinions and question things and just try to be a little bit better. I love the way that Adichie writes; there is something that is so effortless and the writing just flows.

    I especially love the messages in this book about the language we ascribe to fathers "helping out" or "babysitting" - please see biggest eye roll from me ever. It is one of my biggest hates when fathers say they are babysitting their own children... you cannot babysit your own child. So much of what she writes I relate too, and I just want to go and explore the rest of her writing.