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I'm Dysfunctional, You're Dysfunctional: The Recovery Movement And Other Self-help Fashions Hardcover – June 20, 1992

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Examines America's obsession with self-help groups, argues that people are now rewarded for calling themselves dysfunctional, and discusses the social and political implications
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Kaminer takes potshots at the omnipresent 12-step self-help groups that are threatening to put psychotherapists out of work. She dismisses the rhetoric and religiosity of the programs, finds their intimacy manufactured and their emphasis on "higher power" authoritarian. TV talk shows with true confessions by commoners and celebrities further debase the New Age movement, the author contends in a funny chapter. She also takes aim at Norman Vincent Peale, Werner Erhard and Shirley MacLaine accusing them of a related "Don't Worry Be Happy" approach. Kaminer, lawyer, journalist and author of A Fearful Freedom , credibly portrays the sillier aspects of recovery groups and offers some good one-liners: "The Family that reveals together, congeals together."
Copyright 1992 Reed Business Information, Inc.

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If you have been purchasing some of the many recent books on codependency, 12-step programs, or recovery, you should buy this strong critique of the self-help movement. Kaminer, a lawyer and journalist, does not address the effectiveness of such programs; she explores their social implications, arguing that they encourage passivity, social isolation, and emotionality, attitudes antithetical to democracy. A distinctive and highly recommended title. For other critiques of the self-help movement, see "Alternative Titles" in "Making Room for the Recovery Boom," LJ 5/1/92, p. 49-52.--Ed.
- Mary Ann Hughes, Washington State Univ. Libs., Pullman
Copyright 1992 Reed Business Information, Inc.

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  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Basic Books; First Edition (June 20, 1992)
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Hardcover ‏ : ‎ 600 pages
  • ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 0201570629
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-0201570625
  • Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 11.2 ounces
  • Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 5.75 x 0.75 x 8.25 inches
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  • Reviewed in the United States on October 15, 2011
    I loved it! It was a great book; I read it for a class on Freud and his influence on modern self help movements and it was extremely insightful, arrived on time and just wonderful
  • Reviewed in the United States on July 14, 2005
    I almost thoroughly enjoyed Wendy Kaminer's cynical commentary on our society. It's true: our culture pretty much is convinced that we are all suffering from some type of disease. There are twelve-step groups for every real and imagined disease out there! Do you know there is now a Grandchildren of Alcoholic group out there? Every neurosis has been turned into a disease. Every personality quirk can be improved by doing the 12 step recovery program. Note I said "improved", because one you're in a twelve-step group, you're in it for life. . . it's NEVERENDING recovery, meetings, etc. It's not a healthy and balanced life. You aren't supposed to surround yourself with non"addicts" because they wouldn't understand. Surround yourself with other self-professed sickies. That'll get you healthy. Anyone else note the irony here?

    Anyways, the only problem I had with this book is that she gave a free-pass to AA and NA and only criticized the offshoots of these groups. . . like CoDa, ACOA, Al-anon, etc. I am of the belief that they ALL deserve equal criticism. And, maybe AA deserves the most criticism, because if it wasn't for AA, these other groups wouldn't be in existence. Kaminer also neglected to correct the erroneous information that AA passes along as true. The scientific studies that have been done over the past years that prove that the disease model of addiction is incorrect. So, I think it would have been helpful if she at least directed her readers to some of the work that has been published that is out there. (Stanton Peele, Jeffrey Schaler, Albert Ellis, etc.)

    All in all, I thought this was an entertaining book that was mostly right on target. It's a refreshing and quick read.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on October 12, 2014
    This is a still relevant look at these types of pseudo-psychological "self-help" therapies.
  • Reviewed in the United States on July 19, 2016
    Scott Peck's "The Road" may not be perfect, but he opened my eyes to the destructiveness of the Roman Catholic Church.
    The 12 step programs may not be perfect, but those rooms have helped me stay clean for over 17 years.
    Kaminer needs to learn what I learned in life and in meetings: "Take what you like and leave the rest."
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  • Reviewed in the United States on September 30, 2009
    The author, even with her liberal background, shoots equal-opportunity barbs at such personages as Oprah Winfrey, Geraldo Rivera, Phil Donahue and Ali McGraw, as well as conservative religious and nonreligious persons. She spends much time on that old prototype self-help idea: "positive thinking." She thinks very little of Norman Vincent Peale, and almost nothing of the obscure silliness of Napoleon Hill, an earlier author speaking about thinking to grow rich. Recovery movements conclude two things obvious to any teenager: people like to talk about themselves, and they are mad at their parents. Popular recovery programs actively discourage people from helping themselves, says Wendy Kaminer; these programs are the opposite of what people need. Persons at recovery meetings seem to do much talk-show therapy on themselves.

    New Age movements get their own well-deserved chapter in "Dysfunctional." In the final analysis, new-age nonsense gives us a post-literate era, "where language is supposed to covey only an attitude, and a word means no more than a smile." Popular theology also gets its own chapter. Kaminer's temperate nature shows through here, when she observes that some people do get benefit from some of these organizations, though WE suspect that SHE suspects that most of those persons were inclined to be thinking, democratic (small "d") people in the first place. Here are some good tidbits from "Dysfunctional":
    · Testimony takes the place of conversation.
    · Reading itself has unfortunately become a way of thinking
    · Cults emphasizing the helplessness of the individual offer "absolution and no accountability."
    · "the marketplace of ideas becomes a marketplace of maxims."

    Kaminer uses just enough wisecracking to get the reader to laugh at the absurdities, rather than recoiling from the hard sarcasm that too many writers use. One wishes we could have a quiet talk with her about the real merits of free markets. Her bias away from this direction, though, is slight enough to not distract from the main message. that the outright In her concluding section the libertarian reader's heart will be warmed by Kaminer's thought that too much self-help literature "collectivizes" the quest for individual identity: such literature's aim is standardizing the self. Interesting. The book is reasonably short, and quite smooth to read. If ever there were a serious nonfiction "beach book," this is it!
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  • Reviewed in the United States on December 4, 2004
    This is not a comprehensive history or critique of the self-help movement, nor the last word on the culture of victimhood. It is a very well-written, short, entertaining "jeremiad" against that culture, however. I wish everyone would read it--our culture might gain some sense!
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  • Björk Guðjónsdóttir
    5.0 out of 5 stars A must read book
    Reviewed in the United Kingdom on May 31, 2014
    Kaminer writes a very critical book on a very interesting subject. A very eye opening book. I would recommed it to everybody interested in the American way of thinking.
  • M. Braithwaite
    5.0 out of 5 stars Five Stars
    Reviewed in the United Kingdom on April 26, 2016
    So funny and wise