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Imagine Me Gone Hardcover – May 3, 2016
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Praise for Imagine Me Gone:
"Haslett is one of the country's most talented writers, equipped with a sixth sense for characterization and a limber, unpretentious style. Perhaps his rarest gift is the apprehension of the invisible connections that tie people together...The chapters seamlessly negotiate the passage of time...[Oldest son] Michael comes to dominate the narrative, and Haslett perfectly captures the qualities that make him both seductive and infuriating. He is a motormouth with a fitful imagination and a wicked sense of humor; his nervous energy and 'ceaseless brain' are the battery power on which the whole family runs...Haslett is alert to the reality of others, and the insinuating power of this novel comes from its framing of mental illness as a family affair. Michael's siblings are both wholly convincing characters, shaped by the abiding question of how much, or how little, they are meant to act as their brother's keepers...Most affecting of all is Margaret, who is treated with impatience by her children but possesses a capacious understanding...'What do you fear when you fear everything?' Michael wonders. 'Time passing and not passing. Death and life....This being the condition itself: the relentless need to escape a moment that never ends.' That condition, Haslett's superb novel shows, is an irreducible part of the fabric of Michael's family, as true and defining as the love that binds them."
―Sam Sacks, Wall Street Journal
"Ambitious and stirring . . . With Imagine Me Gone, Haslett has reached another level, affording readers a full and luminous depiction of a mind under siege . . . By putting the readers in the same position as [oldest son] Michael's family members, Haslett has pulled off something of a brilliant trick: We feel precisely what they feel-the frustration, the protectiveness, the hope and fear and, yes, the obligation. If Michael is on the page, if his thoughts or actions are laid bare, there's a grueling sense of dread. If he's out of sight, if his thinking and whereabouts are unknown, the dread becomes all but unbearable . . . This is a book refreshingly replete with surprise. It sneaks up on you with dark and winning humor, poignant tenderness, and sentences so astute that they lift the spirit even when they're awfully, awfully sad . . . But make no mistake, the novel's most rewarding surprise is its heart. Again and again, the characters subtly assert that despite the expense of empathy and the predictable disappointment of love, our tendency to care for one another is warranted . . . Even when it's difficult or terrifying or impossible, especially when it's impossible, the impulse to calm those we hold dear is an absolute privilege."
―Bret Anthony Johnston, New York Times Book Review
"Imagine Me Gone brilliantly captures the excruciating burden of love and the role it plays in both our survival and our destruction. Haslett suspends a sense of dread over you like an anvil from page one, cutting the rope that holds it in the brutal last act. You'd be a fool to look away."
―Julia Black, Esquire
"A richly drawn, Franzenesque canvas . . . Haslett's prose shimmers as he peers unflinchingly at the risks and rewards of fighting for love."―O, The Oprah Magazine
"A devastating family drama . . . Haslett's considerable skills as a writer turn domestic conflicts into something more profound . . . In one beautifully rendered scene after another, Haslett shows the family dealing with John's illness and Michael's descent while also managing their own conflicts . . . Imagine Me Gone is a handsome work . . . the sort of writing that is guaranteed to turn heads."―Michael Magras, Miami Herald
"Searing . . . Devastating and gorgeously written . . . Pure genius . . . Haslett hits the nail on the head when it comes to describing just how anguishing and time-consuming psychiatric disorders can be, not only for the afflicted but also for the flailing loved ones trying their damnedest-and failing-to find a suitable fix . . . Haslett writes with his eyes wide open about the pitfalls of piled-on medication, the panicked late-night phone calls, the cycles of fear, frustration, and guarded hope. And herein lies the kicker: Because these chapters are told from the alternating perspective of each of the five family members, we believe every word in them and bear witness to just how complex and multi-angled the issue of mental illness can be . . . By signing on with Haslett and his characters we are given the chance to look beyond our minutiae and daily distractions in order to notice the passage of time as experienced by others. We are reminded of what it is like to be truly, if fleetingly, alive."―Alexis Burling, San Francisco Chronicle
"Powerful . . . Imagine Me Gone is a study of destructive family dynamics akin to Christina Stead's The Man Who Loved Children or Paul Theroux's The Mosquito Coast. Family here is a trap as filled with love and concern as it is with exasperation and dread. Moving with penetrating wit between the points of view of a father, mother, daughter, and two sons, the novel traces how the vein of mental illness running through this family affects every member . . . Haslett, as he turns the narrative over to first one and then the other, is uncanny in nailing how their differences in personality and temperament guide their respective actions . . . His sharp take on how minor family foibles become conflated with major family dysfunction introduces some unexpected comedy into the proceedings . . . Haslett expertly evokes family behavioral patterns that simply repeat themselves, taxing everyone's patience, before precipitating into panic-inducing crises . . . With its fugue of voices, each contributing a vital slant to the action, Imagine Me Gone offers rigorous formal pleasures. Yet while flirting with narrative artifice, Haslett stays keenly aware that in this family there is no explanation 'sufficient to account for the events . . . Lives weren't works of art.' In acknowledging that, Imagine Me Gone respects the mystery of how things happen the way they happen, while brilliantly conjuring the tide-like pull with which dreaded possibilities become harsh inevitability."―Michael Upchurch, Boston Globe
"Drawing vivid scenes and compelling characters from a tragic realism, Haslett intimately connects the reader to his characters' inner lives . . . A rare, complex story [with] exceptional storytelling and poignant insights [and] uplifting moments of humor, kindness, and love."
―Don Oldenburg, USA Today
"An extraordinary blend of precision, beauty, and tenderness . . . Haslett's prose rises to the challenge, lushly capturing the dense fog of depression that blankets John [the father] and occasionally lifts just enough to reveal the 'beast' moving in on him. But Haslett really shows his chops channeling [oldest son] Michael's amped-up voice . . . I got caught up in the beauty of Haslett's sentences and the lives of these oh-so-human people bound by shared duress and cycles of hope. Haslett's signature achievement in Imagine Me Gone is to temper the harrowing with the humorous while keeping a steady bead on the pathos. You want sympathetic characters? You want a narrative that showcases love as a many-splendored thing capacious enough to encompass stalwart, long-suffering spouses, loyal siblings, suffocatingly obsessive crushes, and casual, noncommittal relationships (both gay and straight) that morph as if by magic into soul-sustenance? You want writing that thrums with anguish and compassion? It's all here."―Heller McAlpin, NPR
"Smart and polyphonic...Haslett is that rare writer whose art can console without ceasing to be art."
―Boris Kachka, New York
About the Author
Adam Haslett is the author of the short story collection You Are Not a Stranger Here, which was a Pulitzer Prize and National Book Award finalist, and the novel Union Atlantic, winner of the Lambda Literary Award and shortlisted for the Commonwealth Prize. His books have been translated into eighteen languages, and he has received the Berlin Prize from the American Academy in Berlin, the PEN/Malamud Award, and fellowships from the Guggenheim and Rockefeller Foundations. He lives in New York City.
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This is not a light read. It isn’t a pleasant feel-good book, nor is it uplifting or particularly optimistic. It doesn’t really show how bad things can get with mental illness, but it gives a very realistic view into some of the trials and tribulations of all those who are touched by it. It certainly gets bad enough. And I appreciate that it wasn’t an over-dramatization of the worst case scenario, but instead, perhaps an introspective look at the more usual scenario.
As a society, we bury and ignore and shame mental illness and those suffering from it. Without any direct experience, we can’t begin to fathom what their lives, or the lives of their families, might be like. For some reason, we cannot accept the idea that the mind can be broken in ways that are difficult, sometimes even impossible, to fix. Either we are terrified by the possibilities (this could happen to me or my child!) or we are apathetic and lack understanding (they are weak, they aren’t trying hard enough). Either way, we need more books like this. We need more education and exposure and understanding. We need to be talking about it because so many people are affected by mental health issues, a great deal more than we realize because so many hide, out of shame or lack of understanding. You may think you don’t know anyone with mental illness (just like you probably think you don’t know anyone who has been sexually assaulted), but you most likely do. They just don’t talk about it. They manage it, or mismanage it, silently. Without support.
But I digress…back to the actual book. It was very well written. With each chapter, we are offered the perspective of someone else in the family, volleying back and forth between father, mother, Michael, and each of his siblings. Normally, I’m not a fan of this multiple-narrator approach, but it serves a very important purpose in this case. Because we need to see how one person’s illness impacts all those involved. And what a fantastic job Haslett does of developing each individual voice, of telling the whole story.
Mental illness is complex and the impacts are broadly sweeping. We are all impacted by those who suffer with debilitating mental disorders, and as a society, we need to learn more and do better.
A heavy read, but a must read.
First, Haslett names several of Michael's prescriptions by their brand name. Before reading this book, I never would have thought that seeing a drug that I take on a daily basis attributed to a fictional character like Michael would make me feel such a great sense of desolation, but it did. I think Haslett could have made the same point in his story without specifically naming the drugs.
Second, some of the characters in the book encourage Michael to go off his medications cold-turkey, believing that the meds only exasperate his problems. This is, of course, a common belief: Many people are skeptical of psychiatric drugs these days, and rightly so. Honestly, it's something I struggle with on a daily basis: Are my current symptoms a result of medication I've taken for years, or are they symptoms of an illness that still can't be fully treated (and probably never cured)? One thing I do know, though, is that dropping most psych meds cold turkey not only leads to physical and emotional agony, but also a risk of seizure. I was bothered by how irresponsible the characters were for believing that Michael could just drop his meds and become "normal" without considering the physical aspects of withdrawal. No matter where you stand on the use of psychiatric drugs, the fact that it's a terrible idea to quit them without medical supervision remains. Watching Michael deal with this hit close to home for me, and I think others who have had similar experiences should be aware that a large portion of the book covers this.
All in all, this was a very true-to-life depiction of depression. I recommend this book for anyone trying to understand what depression feels like. For sufferers of mental illness, though, I recommend this book with great caution.
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commit suicide after his father did in the past,but he did also.