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It's Good to Be a Man: A Handbook for Godly Masculinity, Embrace the Masculine Man that God Created, Inspiring Christian Books for Men Paperback – January 4, 2022
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"This book is an exercise in moderate extremism, or perhaps you might want to call it radical moderation.... This book is a careful, balanced, scriptural look at the task that God has assigned to men, and is a celebration of God's good wisdom. And God is willing to give men the grace and ability to do what they were created and called to do-so men should make sure that they know what they are asking for. This is not possible apart from looking to Scripture for our answers. A man is not a deficient woman, and a woman is not a deficient man. God's calling and God's gifting line up. This book is highly recommended-for pastors, for parents, for teachers. If you have young men in your life, this book is essential." Douglas Wilson
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- Publisher : Canon Press (January 4, 2022)
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Michael Foster is the pastor of East River Church. He and his wife, Emily, live with their seven children on a small farm in Batavia, OH.
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Customers find the book highly recommended, excellent, and worth their time. They also find the biblical wisdom inspiring, convicting, and thought-provoking. Readers describe the writing style as remarkably concise, simple, and self-evident. Opinions are mixed on the masculinity, with some finding it compelling and clear, while others say there are too many premises you have to accept.
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This is a very easy to read book. Mr. Foster's and Mr. Tennant's writing style is pleasingly simple and straightforward, sometimes even to the point of bluntness. But then again this is a book about masculinity, after all. Fourteen chapters, roughly fifteen pages each, clocking at 223 main body pages in all. It's like a 1hr 45min action movie: perfectly lengthed. Particularly it encourages and benefits a second read-through, which I gave it right away after finishing my first.
The delightful thing about this book's approach is that it does not need paragraphs of accumulated reasoning from scholarship and theologians to prove its points (though it happily uses those resources too). One of its implicit messages is: just read the Bible bro, literally just read it, it's right there, God wrote it down so it'd be easy for you. In fact, this message is explicit in the opening of the second chapter, stating that Genesis (particularly the Creation account) serves as the "blueprint" for (re-)building masculinity. It can all be found in Scripture, because these are things crafted by God Himself with the intention that we know and follow them. The points in this book, then, do not so much need proving—so obvious that they are—as highlighting, contrasting from misconceptions and misconstruals (particularly of the modern, Western variance), and connecting with other points that might otherwise seem arbitrary. That rulership, dominion, and forceful subduing are not just permissible but godly and good, as shown in our first-received commandment (Gen 1:28) and in other biblical passages, is one example.
Another example more generally anthropological, an insight that I had heard previously from these authors and elsewhere, and which I was happy to find here: what men are aroused by sexually is explained by "fertility cues" (p.33). Big butts and thighs? Child-bearing hips. Breasts? Nursing. Youth? Health and vigor to do all the above, and beauty, which shows God's character. Think of "evopsych" but with divine intentionality. The fun thing about truth is that it's very simple and self-evident.
One thing in the text, though, that I noted to take issue with (with due respect) is the way "the Church" is referenced occasionally when describing widespread Christian errors. In certain places the authors write that "the Church" does x or "the Church" does y; for instance, on page 160: "The red pill is the truth that society has been ravaged by feminism and fatherlessness, that you have been lied to about fundamental truths of sexuality, and that the Church has betrayed you for a kiss." This kind of phrasing is an issue for two reasons: first, because it too much suggests a holistic apostasy of the household of God requiring restoration, which, even when distancing from Roman Catholic etc. views of ecclesial infallibility, would be against normative Protestant thought; and second, granting that the authors' meaning is instead likely that "those in the Church have largely bent toward" x or y, it is still bad practice to speak over-broadly and in effect throw "the Church" as a singular entity under the bus before the world, as widespread as these evils and these confusions are. That all being said, it is certain that we are in a Church age prime for masculine reformation, when "Nehemiahs" are badly wanted (p.13). This is strictly a matter of honorable speech before public audience, not a request that Christians be treated with kid gloves and not get rebuked.
There are a few instances of this sort; but these are minor elements, things that do not substantially detract from the message, and which can be considered for oneself while reading and reflecting. Relatedly: this is a very good book to read with a pencil handy to comment and take notes on in the margins. I saw connections with other writing I've liked, from "Decision Making & The Will of God" by Friesen & Maxson to "Patriarcha" by Filmer, and I had fun "agreeing and amplifying," and adding my two cents.
I highly recommend It's Good to Be a Man, to all men everywhere but most particularly to those of my times and of my generation. I think it will serve to break the ice on streams of thought many men might not have considered to tread into—or not felt confident and safe to, given our mainstream culture. We live in times when being a proper man feels like being "the bad guy." For men raised exclusively by women ("of both sexes," p.86), and who have the natural intuition to not be "bad," this difficulty is understandable: either one embraces being "bad" wholesale, or rejects manhood. I find it very difficult, coming from a good home. For men from truly warped, broken, or homes just nonexistent, this difficulty is even more profound. Michael Foster and Dominic Bnonn Tennant have written a fine work to start us all on our way.
Reviewed in the United States on May 27, 2022
This is a very easy to read book. Mr. Foster's and Mr. Tennant's writing style is pleasingly simple and straightforward, sometimes even to the point of bluntness. But then again this is a book about masculinity, after all. Fourteen chapters, roughly fifteen pages each, clocking at 223 main body pages in all. It's like a 1hr 45min action movie: perfectly lengthed. Particularly it encourages and benefits a second read-through, which I gave it right away after finishing my first.
The delightful thing about this book's approach is that it does not need paragraphs of accumulated reasoning from scholarship and theologians to prove its points (though it happily uses those resources too). One of its implicit messages is: just read the Bible bro, literally just read it, it's right there, God wrote it down so it'd be easy for you. In fact, this message is explicit in the opening of the second chapter, stating that Genesis (particularly the Creation account) serves as the "blueprint" for (re-)building masculinity. It can all be found in Scripture, because these are things crafted by God Himself with the intention that we know and follow them. The points in this book, then, do not so much need proving—so obvious that they are—as highlighting, contrasting from misconceptions and misconstruals (particularly of the modern, Western variance), and connecting with other points that might otherwise seem arbitrary. That rulership, dominion, and forceful subduing are not just permissible but godly and good, as shown in our first-received commandment (Gen 1:28) and in other biblical passages, is one example.
Another example more generally anthropological, an insight that I had heard previously from these authors and elsewhere, and which I was happy to find here: what men are aroused by sexually is explained by "fertility cues" (p.33). Big butts and thighs? Child-bearing hips. Breasts? Nursing. Youth? Health and vigor to do all the above, and beauty, which shows God's character. Think of "evopsych" but with divine intentionality. The fun thing about truth is that it's very simple and self-evident.
One thing in the text, though, that I noted to take issue with (with due respect) is the way "the Church" is referenced occasionally when describing widespread Christian errors. In certain places the authors write that "the Church" does x or "the Church" does y; for instance, on page 160: "The red pill is the truth that society has been ravaged by feminism and fatherlessness, that you have been lied to about fundamental truths of sexuality, and that the Church has betrayed you for a kiss." This kind of phrasing is an issue for two reasons: first, because it too much suggests a holistic apostasy of the household of God requiring restoration, which, even when distancing from Roman Catholic etc. views of ecclesial infallibility, would be against normative Protestant thought; and second, granting that the authors' meaning is instead likely that "those in the Church have largely bent toward" x or y, it is still bad practice to speak over-broadly and in effect throw "the Church" as a singular entity under the bus before the world, as widespread as these evils and these confusions are. That all being said, it is certain that we are in a Church age prime for masculine reformation, when "Nehemiahs" are badly wanted (p.13). This is strictly a matter of honorable speech before public audience, not a request that Christians be treated with kid gloves and not get rebuked.
There are a few instances of this sort; but these are minor elements, things that do not substantially detract from the message, and which can be considered for oneself while reading and reflecting. Relatedly: this is a very good book to read with a pencil handy to comment and take notes on in the margins. I saw connections with other writing I've liked, from "Decision Making & The Will of God" by Friesen & Maxson to "Patriarcha" by Filmer, and I had fun "agreeing and amplifying," and adding my two cents.
I highly recommend It's Good to Be a Man, to all men everywhere but most particularly to those of my times and of my generation. I think it will serve to break the ice on streams of thought many men might not have considered to tread into—or not felt confident and safe to, given our mainstream culture. We live in times when being a proper man feels like being "the bad guy." For men raised exclusively by women ("of both sexes," p.86), and who have the natural intuition to not be "bad," this difficulty is understandable: either one embraces being "bad" wholesale, or rejects manhood. I find it very difficult, coming from a good home. For men from truly warped, broken, or homes just nonexistent, this difficulty is even more profound. Michael Foster and Dominic Bnonn Tennant have written a fine work to start us all on our way.
The book begins with the authors laying down the foundation of all that follows: God has created a world in which men are to rule. This rule is part of the fabric of the cosmos, and it's unavoidable. Men are to have dominion over themselves, their households, and in the wider world. The rest of the book seeks to flesh this out in the various spheres of life. Subjects such as sex, marriage, brotherhood, discipline, and mission are covered. This book works well alongside C.R. Wiley's "The Household and the War for the Cosmos" and Zachary Garris' "Masculine Christianity."
I won't go into great detail on each of the chapters; other reviewers are far more suited to this task than I am. I will say, at least, that this book is sorely needed in a western culture that has not only rejected the goodness of masculinity but even masculinity itself. It is GOOD to be a man; it isn't something to be ashamed of or to apologize for. It is GOOD to pursue manhood if you are a man. This isn't to say it's bad to be a woman, and the authors in no way seem to hold that view. This isn't another red pill word dump. Nor is this book a reaction to feminism; the authors don't seem interested in arguing against feminism so much as they are interested in promoting and praising godly masculinity. Our sons and daughters need to know that it is good to be who God created them to be, and in a culture - and even in a church culture - that has lost sight of this, it's good to have some signposts showing the way. This book is one such signpost.
A four-star review is appropriate for a great book that gives lots of information. This book gets five stars because not only does it give lots of great information, but it also has a certain gravitas that strengthens and encourages you in your pursuit of godly masculine living. The chapter on mission, for me, was particularly engaging, and I'm sure I'll be going back to it again. The book would be worth the purchase for that chapter alone.
I purchased this book on Kindle, and I have a copy coming from Canon Press. It'll be a good and certainly well-worn book on my shelf.
The first chapters place man at the center of everything, which seemed pretty alarming to me. However I think this is done on purpose to offset the current discourse about men being worthless.
This structure works, because after getting your attention, the author sets theological bases of what is to be a man, which make the first chapters make much sense.
This book contains concepts that are obviously in the bible but I have never heard before, specially inside of my church since it has become so politically correct and secular.
Read over three reading sessions.. (Fairly quick read.)
Pastor Michael Foster makes some solid points on masculinity and how God designed man.
Not being a fan of Douglas Wilson, I was concerned about how this book was a Cannon Press book.
Where I disliked the book was the use of foul language and limited use of scripture, which is not saying there wasn't any.
It borders the line on legalism, but the author tries to overcome this with mentioning grace. It is evident that Douglas Wilson has impacted this pastor. Much of the same tones were given.
Overall, this is a decent read for the meat it gives, and for the bones, spit them out. Young men are better reading. Just do Something by Kevin Deyoung, Thoughts for Young Men by JC Ryle.
Men, read it to be encouraged in how you can disciple young men or just gain something for yourself.
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