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It's How You Play the Game: The Powerful Sports Moments That Taught Lasting Values to America's Finest Paperback – May 13, 2008
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In life as in sports, it's how you play the game that matters
You don't have to be a star athlete to take away valuable lessons from the world of sports, whether it's learning how to get along with others, to never give up, or to be gracious in victory and defeat. In this companion volume to his New York Times bestseller, The Games Do Count, Brian Kilmeade reveals personal stories of the defining sports moments in the lives of athletes, CEOs, actors, politicians, and historical figures—and how what they learned on the field prepared them to handle life and overcome adversity with courage, dignity, and sportsmanship.
- Print length384 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherIt Books
- Publication dateMay 13, 2008
- Dimensions6 x 0.96 x 9 inches
- ISBN-100061246328
- ISBN-13978-0061246326
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“It’s How You Play the Game tells us what [athletes] were looking for when they started and what they found.” — Teddy Atlas, boxing trainer and commentator
“Really gets at the heart of what sports is all about. …Great read for anyone who ever played a sporyt.” — Tommy Lasorda, former Los Angeles Dodgers manager
“I’ve watched many great players, but this is the first book that shows me how they became great people. ” — Joe Buck, Fox Sports
“Brian does a masterful job laying out the values that have made America great.” — Gen. Tommy R. Franks, U.S. Army (Retired)
“This is essential reading for sports fans and sports parents everywhere.” — Rick Wolff, host, “The Sports Edge” WFAN Radio
“It’s How You Play the Game is a great read―insightful and well written.” — Donald J. Trump
“…Humanizes our icons in a way that makes their success seem achievable and their life lessons invaluable.” — Jake Steinfeld, Chairman & CEO, Body by Jake Global
“Helps to understand the value of sports and how it prepares you to deal with the stresses of everyday life.” — Bob Ferraro, President of the National High School Coaches Association
“Like having a library of motivational books by successful people…a book you’ll refer to the rest of your life.” — Lou Holtz, former college football coach
“This book taught me more about some of my favorite leaders than any profile of them I had ever read…” — Don Yaeger, Sports Illustrated writer, New York Times bestselling author
About the Author
Cohost of cable television's number one morning show, Fox & Friends, Brian Kilmeade has reported on or provided live coverage of every major American sport over the last twenty years. He lives in Massapequa, New York, where he still coaches soccer.
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It's How You Play the Game
The Powerful Sports Moments That Taught Lasting Values to America's FinestBy Brian KilmeadeHarperCollins Publishers, Inc.
Copyright © 2008 Brian KilmeadeAll right reserved.
ISBN: 9780061246326
Chapter One
Terry Bradshaw
NFL Hall of Fame, 1989
4-time Super Bowl champion, 1975, 1976, 1979, 1980, 2-time Super Bowl MVP, 1979, 1980
NFL MVP, 1978
NFL quarterback, Pittsburgh Steelers, 1970?1983
This isn't nuclear physics, it's a game. How smart do you really have to be?
—Terry Bradshaw
I was a child who needed to be outdoors, and I loved playing any game. My attraction to football was the fascination with throwing this little rubber football. I can't explain it other than to ask, Why do people sing? Why do people dance? Why do people show horses? When I was introduced to a football, it just consumed me. I was determined to make that thing spiral. I didn't know how to do it, but I kept trying. On top of that, every Sunday I watched football with my dad, and I just had to throw the ball like the guys on TV did.
Get a Plan
How did I finally learn to throw? Well, in one word, practice. I was living in Iowa and my dad had this huge blanket. I would lay it on this snowbank and throw the ball into the blanket, and the snowbank would absorb the shock and the ball would roll back down.
And then, in the words of Jim Lampley after George Foreman KO'd Michael Moorer, "It happened!"
One day, I threw it and it spiraled. To make sure I really had it figured out and that it wasn't just a fluke, I did it a few more times until I was convinced. I remember running into the house and hollering to my mother and asking her to come outside and watch this. She knew I was serious, so she came out and sure enough, I did it again. She knew I thought it was a special moment, and that was good enough for her. I haven't forgotten it, but this is the first time I ever told that story. Here I was, nine years old, and it was the first thing I did well.
Most Enjoyable Time
If I had only played college ball and never played a down in pro football, I would have been okay with that. Those years were the most fun because we were free. I made grades, played football, had fun on campus, played in a new stadium. It was just great. You might think I liked college because I did well, but that wasn't the case. It was more about me just being a part of something. It was always about the team. If we lost and I played well, there was nothing good about that. The main reason I liked college was because I loved the coaches and they loved me back. In the pros my coach, Chuck Noll, was a tough love kind of guy, and I couldn't handle it early with the Steelers.
Successful in Sports Early, Successful in Life Late
I was always five years behind: five years behind in maturity level, five years behind in relationships, five years behind in college. I was clueless to anything that didn't involve me getting to the NFL. I never had good enough grades and I never had a Plan B. I just kept working hard to get what I wanted, with no fallback plan.
Now for Plan B
When I was done with pro football, I went right into broadcasting, doing color commentary with Vern Lundquist. The problem was, I didn't know what I was doing, and so I lost all my confidence.
Wait a minute! Mr. Four Super Bowl rings lost his confidence? Something doesn't compute here.
I ran into the same problem in the booth as I did in school, and that was remembering names. I couldn't match up faces and players, and I was all but overwhelmed. I know it when I study it, but I kind of lose the words when the light comes on. Even today, you don't see me getting into many specifics with players, because I don't know their numbers.
Pressure? Bring It On!
Nevertheless, I enjoyed broadcasting, and I learned to do well under pressure. I take a great event and then downsize it on my mind, so I can relax. I tried hypnotism. I even used buzzwords like relax, confidence, and concentrate. Eventually, I learned to release all that energy in a positive way.
Well, he wasn't known as the best clutch quarterback in history for nothing.
At one point, I was so relaxed I almost fell asleep in the locker room before games. But all this helps me perform in front of an audience. The first thing I do is to strip people of their titles, and then I strip the event of its importance. I convince myself that they're my friends and they're not better than me. And then, when I've stripped them of all that, they're just like me, so I'm out there talking to a bunch of me's. It settles me down and makes it easier to talk to them.
Personally Speaking
I lost all my money twice, I've been divorced three times, I've been called stupid and dumb. And that's just a starting point! I learn what I need to know to get comfortable at it, and the whole time I'm going full speed ahead. I hear the critics, but it doesn't stop me. It's never stopped me and it never will.
My Wrap
Just when you thought you knew him as a guy who had it all, you learn that no one has it all. Terry, especially, never had nor will he have it easy. The important thing is, he kept moving forward, kept learning, and kept working, and the end result is two distinct Hall of Fame careers, one as a player and now one as a broadcaster. Who knows, his next frontier might just be acting. I saw Failure to Launch and ol' Terry was great. Of course he'd be the last to acknowledge it, but he'd always be appreciative that you said it.
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- Publisher : It Books (May 13, 2008)
- Language : English
- Paperback : 384 pages
- ISBN-10 : 0061246328
- ISBN-13 : 978-0061246326
- Item Weight : 14.8 ounces
- Dimensions : 6 x 0.96 x 9 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #831,697 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- #397 in Sports Essays (Books)
- #1,197 in Sports History (Books)
- #13,771 in Motivational Self-Help (Books)
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About the author

Not many broadcasters can say they are on the air for 6 hours a day, 5 days a week, but that is exactly what Brian Kilmeade has been doing since 2006. After joining Fox News in 1997, he was soon named co-host of Fox & Friends, where he still thrives alongside the extraordinarily talented Steve Doocy and Ainsley Earhardt. Together they have powered their way to the top spot in morning cable TV. After Fox & Friends from 6 - 9AM ET. Kilmeade has the privilege of hosting his nationally syndicated radio show, “The Brian Kilmeade Show” on Fox News Talk from 9-12 noon.
Every weekday morning, Kilmeade provides viewers with the latest on the breaking news, sports, politics and entertainment. During his tenure at Fox News, he has developed the ability to interview and provide insight into newsmakers, politicians, celebrities and athletes. On any given day you might see him with former President George W. Bush, Michael Jordan, Simon Cowell, Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson, or supermodel Miranda Kerr. His radio show features many Fox personalities, big names guests and somehow still manages to cover the news of the day with seriousness and a smile.
Brian has written 5 books, 4 of which were New York Times best sellers: ”The Games Do Count”, “It’s How You Play the Game” and more recently, “George Washington’s Secret Six” and “Thomas Jefferson and the Tripoli Pirates” co- written with Don Yaeger. His fifth book “Andrew Jackson and the Miracle of New Orleans” is due out in the fall of 2017, again teaming up with Yaeger with the hope of mirroring their previous success.
Prior to joining FNC, Kilmeade was an anchor/reporter on NEWSPORT TV. While in Los Angeles, he was an anchor on KHSC-TV and a host on all sports radio’s XTRA AM690. His duties on XTRA included co-hosting The Jim Brown Show where he struck up a friendship that still flourishes today. One his first jobs was as a correspondent on Channel One, a daily national high school television news program. Along way, he also managed to fit in 10 years of stand-up comedy experience.
He currently resides in Massapequa, NY where he grew up with his wife and 3 kids. When he is not working, you can often catch him on the soccer field watching or coaching. He graduated from LIU-CW Post with a BA in Communications in 1986 where he also played soccer.
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I am a little biased, because I love sport. I am now more than 50 years old and I love to compete (playing soccer). I personally think that practising sport helps you to build your character. You learn discipline, team spirit, efficiency, how to reach your goals and confidence. Most of all, you learn to cope with disappointments and success. Is sport always fair and just? Of course, not! Sometimes, the weaker team (athlete) wins. But, life is also not always fair.
I love to read about all the impact of the games to so many different people with different backgrounds. It cannot be an accident that sport impacted so many successful people in politics, military, film industry or business.
The last point: you have to dream to succeed. Is it realistic to become a great athlete? No, but if you do not believe it, who should? The turning point of most of the stories was: when the athlete started to believe in him(her)self (mostly encouraged by some coach).








