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About Lee H. Baucom Ph.D.
Dr. Baucom is happily married for over 30 years.. He and his wife have two adult children. In his spare time, Dr. Baucom scuba dives, paddleboards, trail runs, and practices jiu jitsu.
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- Stop chasing happiness, and allow it to find them
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- Forgive themselves and others, easily and consistently
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- Build resilience in order to face difficult times and still thrive
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Unfortunately, many marriages end needlessly after infidelity. Often, this is a result of not knowing there is another option. This is complicated by not having access to tools and understanding that can heal a marriage. In fact, those tools can help a marriage move toward greater health than was there before the affair.
Dr. Lee Baucom provides a roadmap for dealing with physical or emotional infidelity. His book can provide guidance on how to confront an affair, how to understand the reasons behind the affair, and how to move forward through a healing process. His approach gives resources to both the person who had the affair and the spouse.
Additionally, Dr. Baucom provides a special Question and Answer bonus to readers that covers common questions from other readers.
Your marriage CAN survive an affair. In fact, it can be stronger than before the infidelity. You just need the tools and guidance to get there. Find those tools in this book.
Barriers block a spouse from seeing possibility, of seeing a path back to love and connection. That's the bad news. Those barriers (there are 3) keep a spouse from seeing the possibilities. The good news is the barriers need not be permanent.
If you want to save your marriage, you want to make sure those barriers do not get in your way. But you also need to understand how to help a spouse move beyond the 3 barriers.
In this brief and straightforward manual, Dr. Baucom tells you the 3 boundaries, so you understand why your spouse is stuck. But more importantly, you will quickly learn the 3 responses to the boundaries. Your response to each boundary makes the difference between stuck/failingÂ and connection/love.
What if these “laws” are frequently broken?
In fact, you probably are breaking some of them right now.
Anyone struggling or feeling stuck in life is breaking at least one of these laws. Just like gravity, these laws affect every person, whether that person understands them or not. Instead of breaking the laws (even without realizing it), readers discover how to obey the laws. They learn how to get “unstuck,” find success without chasing it, and finally, obtain peace.
The Immutable Laws of Living helps readers understand:
- Why life isn’t fair, and why that isn’t the problem.
- How to deal with life challenges, and come out ahead.
- How your thoughts keep you stuck, and how to free yourself.
- Why fighting change won’t work, and why you don’t have to.
- How to deal with your fears and get them to help you.
- How to make a real and lasting impact.
- If you believe there are hidden rules or laws to living a great life, there are. And you can learn them for yourself. Follow the laws and learn to thrive!
In fact, there are only 3 steps involved. And those steps are easily mastered. In this easily readable guide, Dr. Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D., the founder and creator of Save The Marriage, boils the process of saving your marriage down to 3 simple steps.
If your marriage is in trouble (or headed for trouble), you will find help and direction in this simple, yet powerful, approach.
If your spouse does not want to work on your marriage, you can STILL address the issues, working alone.
If you and your spouse are working together, this guide will simplify the process and help you rekindle the connection that both of you are seeking.
Do you find yourself wanting to work on your relationship, but are not even sure where to start?
You will find a step-by-step guide that points out each step, telling you exactly where to start and what to do next.
Are you frustrated with the relationship, but don't believe things can change?
Your limiting beliefs are in your way. But you will discover how to change your limiting beliefs AND address the issues that are in the way.
Do you find the same issues re-emerging after working on your relationship?
You will discover how to work through the recurring issues. But more importantly, you will learn how to permanently heal the underlying issues.
If you yearn for more in your relationship, or if you see that your marriage is headed for real trouble (and possibly divorce), you owe it to yourself, your spouse, your marriage, and your spouse, to unlock the simple secrets to an amazing marriage, regardless of the current problems.
Is your relationship worth the risk?
You can discover happiness for yourself and for your marriage, starting today.
A Marriage Fail Point is the spot where a marriage is most likely to fail, where a couple must choose a path. Either find a way to deal with the problems or fail. Interestingly, these “fail points” have only a limited number of causes. By identifying and understanding the fail points, you can save your marriage. Not just save it, but turn your marriage into one you and your spouse will treasure and protect.
Discover the Marriage Fail Points before they cause your marriage to fail.
In Marriage Fail Point, you will discover:
Why marriages get into trouble.
How marriages move through the Arc of Disconnection.
What causes a “Pause Button Marriage.”
How to start recovering your marriage.
How to access resources in your efforts to save your marriage.
Relationship expert, Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D., delivers the information you need, directly and briefly. Discover what readers around the world have discovered with Dr. Baucom's help. Your marriage can be saved. The starting point is understanding what went wrong, why it went wrong, and how to start turning it around.
Use this brief guide as the starting point for a new marriage -- with your same spouse -- that will last a lifetime.
The Jiu Jitsu Training Journal provides space for taking notes, drawing illustrations, and tracking critical details and indicators to enhance student retention of the techniques taught in class. It includes practical help for your journey to help you stay on track with your goals and optimize your learning experience, covering topics such as:
If you need a methodical approach to your training, the Jiu Jitsu Training Journal will help you format your training for reflection and learning.