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Berndt, a clinical hypnotherapist with an online radio show (the Love Hypnotist Show), believes that hypnotherapy techniques used for smoking cessation and weight loss can also be used to secure a happy relationship. As our fears, insecurities and relationship baggage is often deeply ingrained in the unconscious, Berndt offers a three-pronged plan to revealing and overcoming those unconscious obstacles: uncovering the issues, taking action to eliminate "roadblocks," and maintaining a healthy mindset. Each chapter is full of checklists, journal suggestions and step-by-step self-hypnosis exercises, as well as warm and friendly guidance that's blissfully low-pressure (and low-risk): "you need to be in only a light trance to experience the benefits of hypnosis," not much different from being engrossed in a book or movie-except that the goal isn't to check out of reality but to confront it on its most hard-to-read levels. A useful, relaxed approach to cognitive therapy, Berndt's guide gives readers an intuitive, healthy way to confront romance-defeating thoughts and behavior. END

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Debra Berndt has it right! No one will be interested in loving you until you can love yourself. Attracting the love of your life begins with you. Let Love In will change your life in positive ways.


--Drs. Charles & Elizabeth Schmitz, authors of Building a Love that Lasts: The Seven Surprising Secrets of Successful Marriage --Drs. Charles & Elizabeth Schmitz, authors of Building a Love that Lasts: The Seven Surprising Secrets of Successful Marriage (added by author)


Let Love In opens your heart and soul to experience a lasting, loving relationship.

--Katherine Woodard Thomas, author of Calling in "The One": 7 Weeks to Attract the Love of Your Life (added by author)


What I enjoy the most about "Let Love In" is that it isn't about "techniques" to become more generally attractive to a potential mate. It's about becoming clear on who you really are, and opening the doors to allow yourself to fully BE that person so that you attract the most appropriate match for you. Debra's methods ensure attracting love that will last a lifetime.


--Bob Doyle, (featured teacher in "The Secret") (added by author)
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Product Details

  • Paperback: 288 pages
  • Publisher: Wiley; 1 edition (March 1, 2010)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0470497491
  • ISBN-13: 978-0470497494
  • Product Dimensions: 5.9 x 0.8 x 8.9 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 13.6 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.5 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (49 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #256,709 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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This is one of the best books I've read on relationships and the subconscious mind. It's written in an easy-to-understand and straightforward way. What sets this book apart from other self-help/dating books in the market is that the author zeroes in on the crux of the problem, instead of glossing over it like most of the self-help books out there. She lays out the groundwork by clearly explaining the functions of the subconscious mind and its effects on our lives. She also demystifies the stereotype and false beliefs surrounding hypnosis. She makes you delve deep into your psyche by making you question the origin of your core beliefs and then guides you through a step-by-step self-hypnosis exercises in order to tap into your subconscious mind and rewire your internal software. When the conscious mind isn't alligned with the subconscious mind's core beliefs then we unwittingly attract unfavorable partners and situations. Our conscious mind desires to find love, a healthy relationship and a happy marriage, but our subconscious mind believes it's far-fetched and impossible. As a result, we find ourselves caught in the same horrible cycle. The conscious mind and the subconscious mind must work harmoniously together in order to create favorable situations in our lives and to magnetize men/women who are nurturing, honest, and compatible.

I am 27 year old and in the past several years, I've found myself dating the same domineering, unfaithful, and abusive man but with a differnt name/face. I couldn't understand why I was so unlucky. My self-esteem and self- worth had begun to suffer to the point where I had given up on finding Mr. Good Enough, let alone Mr.Right. My heart was chronically battered and bruised.
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I have to say that I was very impressed by this book. I have read a lot of books on dating, and attracting the right person and it was so refreshing to read a book that is focused on healing feelings of unworthiness and learning how to empower yourself and create a strong and healthy self image. I am married, but found many pearls of wisdom that I will be able to incorporate into my life in all areas. I will be reading this a second time and referring to it often.
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The author claims that success in romance is 100% determined by your thoughts. That is, if you purify your mind, then your life will automatically become the way you want it.

I think the gist of this advice is okay, and I'm an individual that frequently uses affirmations and believes in the power of prayer. So I'm cool with general idea behind the overall message. However, the execution of that message needs improvement. For example,

Ch 13: "They are doing all of the right things...but these women still haven't attracted that one special person because a simple unconscious block has not been addressed."

This is false -- no unconscious block is preventing anyone from accomplishing anything. I have many, many relatives who are orders of magnitude more emotionally F-ed up than I am, and that didn't stop any of them from finding love. Additionally, I'm skeptical of the idea that the PRIMARY reason a 5 year old was murdered was just because he wasn't thinking positively enough. We are each a single individual in a very large universe, and we do not completely control everything. The only thing we can do is do our best given what we have. Fortunately, when we do put effort in, it often does yield fantastic results.

Ch 13: "He then said something that forever changed my life, 'If you do not complete this [emotionally unresolved] situation with your parents, you will never have a healthy relationship.'"

And the author, on receiving this advice, took it seriously. Again, the general approach of improving your mindset and resolving emotional problems is great, but we don't have to be so fatalistic and melodramatic about it.
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I've known Debbie and her work for years. From her healing touch to her intuitive qualities to her self hypnosis cd's. Over 10 years ago, Debbie gave me an exercise for finding your perfect mate which included concepts from this book. I learned to focus on "putting out there" what I was looking for, and wrote it down on paper. Not long after I met my partner, and have been with him for 10 years. Over these 10 years, even some of the qualities that I had written down that I hadn't realized he had became apparent. The best part of this book is that you can even use it for improving the relationship you are already in. Or, you can use the same concepts for attracting wealth, freedom, or whatever you are hoping for. "Let Love In" helps as a communication tool, and helps you come to terms with old ideas and beliefs that are holding you back from whatever you desire and deserve. You won't regret reading this gem!
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What I love most about Debra Berndt's groundbreaking book, Let Love In, is that it empowers the reader to take full responsibility as the creator of their love life. It's a compassionate, humorous, heartfelt, no b.s. guide to help you open your heart (for real this time), take care of yourself, and let love in! I highly recommend this book!
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