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"Rex wants you to live the life of your dreams. His book is the road map to successfully and fully chase the excellence you desire and deserve. Happy reading." - Mark Victor Hansen, Author Chicken' Soup For The Soul'

"Rex Sikes is my own present day personal thought trainer" - Karen Barben, Napoleon Hill's Great-granddaughter

"This book is loaded with powerful insights and ideas that motivate and inspire you to accomplish great things. Get ready to change your life in a wonderful way." - Brian Tracy, Author 'Maximum Achievement'

"Eye-opening! Answers questions everyone has had about how to REALLY live the life of their dreams! Empowering! Read it!" - Dr. Joe Vitale, Author of "The Miracle", Star of "The Secret"

"Rex Sikes' book Life On Your Terms is brilliant! It offers cutting-edge tools that take you to another level. It's a practical manual with a fresh take on personal growth and transformation that's infused with love, wisdom, and some truly innovative ideas. I am reading it daily and it's changing my life. Not only do I feel a shift in consciousness but I have been waking up happier. This book offers hope to anyone who has lost their way in life." - Lydia Cornell, Actor 'Too Close For Comfort'

"As one of the 'Top 25 Network Marketers in World' and also a recovering alcoholic with over 30 years sobriety, I am constantly asked to review and read books on personal development either in business or recovery. Most of them are just like the last one I read. Nothing ever seems new or too useful. And then came Life On Your Terms by Rex Sikes. From the first page, I knew this book would be different and better. And the more I read the more right I was. This book has been haunting me in almost every area of my life. I am now controlling my thoughts instead of just being with them. Sikes Was "one of us." Just stuck in the muck. And like me, he had to change literally everything in his life. But he decided to start his change between his ears. And the book details that to the max. He showed me how to "move the furniture around in my head". And learn to make the most of every minute in every day. He made me realize that change for me literally started with my first thought of the day. I was almost instantly happier. As I read on, the book just took me deeper and deeper into what is absolutely possible for me in my life with literally no help from anyone else. But on the flip side of that, he showed me why I so need people around me. Read this book. It will change your life. Even if your life is great, like mine is today, it will make it even better. I have so many people reading it, from my son to my AA friends to my business associates, because it works for everyone. I LOVE THIS BOOK!" - Tom Chenault, The Tom Chenault Radio Show & co-founder

"Rex is absolutely brilliant and transparent. My go-to book for those I mentor who want to be happy and successful with their lives as they choose." - Fred Van Lieu, Author 'The Water Doctor'

"Rex Sikes is a walking inspiration. He inspires the inspirers, which is why I love the way he thinks, lives, and teaches. In this book, he deconstructs the myths of the law of attraction and makes it easier to understand how to apply it to your everyday thought process. It's one thing to wish and want something, and another to apply these laws effectively, which really do work. Why do some people appear to have everything and end up having nothing, while others have the true inner-secret to love, success, (whatever that means to you) and inner peace? Joy is there to be ours, peace is there to be ours, blessings are there to be ours, it is all about focus and harnessing our thoughts, dreams, and desires by using Rex Sikes simple and effective techniques. You must understand to apply, let Rex be your guide and your life can change no matter what you've been through." - Catherine Hickland, Hypnotist, Actor, Author 'One Life To Live'

"Rex's background as change agent, actor, magician, mentalist, communicator, performer, and survivor, makes him well practiced in the art of knowing the inner landscape of the human mind. In this book, he hands you the keys to unlock the magical kingdom within you. Not only do you receive the keys, codes, and passwords, you also get the full behind-the-scenes tour to know how to use them. You can now take charge of your own thinking and enjoy the abundant riches you are uniquely qualified to produce as you live life on your own terms." - Paul R. Scheele, Ph.D., CEO, Scheele Learning Systems and co-founder of Learning Strategies Corporation

"Rex Sikes has taken many of life's most relevant topics for success, and expressed them in a way that each of us are able to relate, value and apply to our lives. It's easy to journey through life and get into routines that leave us passing time with no improvement or excellence to celebrate. Rex offers practical methods, built on the basic platform of human psychology and inner development for anyone to comprehend. Overcoming personal barriers and navigating our way around life's roadblocks, is what determines your quality of life. You will find the juicy nuggets expressed in this book, to help you do just that. Now sit back, and turn the pages as you begin a little journey of personal discovery!" - Scott Fardulis, Network Marketing Professional

"Yes, you can achieve anything, and Rex tells you how to do it. He gives you pages of real-life principles shown to change lives. These can absolutely work for you. All you have to do is live these principles and you become the winner." - Pete Bissonette, Author 'Breakfast Tea and Bourbon', president Learning Strategies Corporation

"Having seen an early version of Life On Your Terms, I can say it has the potential to be life-changing, and help many people. Much of the self-help leaders focus on trying to differentiate and distinguish themselves in crowded markets. They're always trying to teach that one secret that nobody else provides. Sure, it is sexy for marketing and often useful. Yet, people lose sight of the 20% action practices that deliver 80% of the results. They forget the concept of true mastery of this 20%. There is great power within the 20%. I appreciate how your 80% is that powerful 20%. You then add in other stuff to fill in people's blind-spots, expand awareness, and take people to the next level. You are focusing 80% on the 20% that delivers 80 % of the results! Most of the self-improvement, NLP, and LOA world seem to focus on the low impact stuff, to the point where many people don't even recognize or appreciate the 20% that delivers 80% of the results. 80% of those who do recognize the essential 20% aren't taking habitual action and achieving mastery of the 20%. Those who master that 20% experience a shift in their world, and enjoy amazing results." - Michael Halbfish, Attorney

About the Author

Rex Steven Sikes transformed his life after a skydiving accident nearly robbed him of it. He now has four decades experience helping thousands of people transform their minds and lives. His innovations include Mind Design™ The Attitude Activator™ and Directed Questions™. 
He's a Master Trainer of NLP & DHE, A Master Hypnotherapist and Master Hypnotist, Educator in Whole Brain and Accelerated Learning, the Law of Attraction and is founder of IDEA Seminars. 

Rex is a professional speaker, coach, business consultant, and educator. He writes a blog Daily Inspiration And Gratitude. Plus, he's an actor, filmmaker and consultant to the entertainment industry. 

Rex presents seminars, public and corporate programs, full workshops and training events. He coaches professionals and newcomers in their fields. He's a keynote speaker on the power of your mind to get your goals, increase you bottom line and make your dreams come true. 

His captivating message inspires audiences and will remain with you! He's appeared before millions on TV, radio, live and streaming events. Contact him for list of topics and seminars.

Sikes consults for attorneys and news media offering commentary on famous trials and celebrities. He has programs available on productivity, diversity and other topics for business. He coaches actors, directors, performers, speakers, and consults for movies and television.

His clients include actors, filmmakers, professional speakers, attorneys, CEO's, sales professionals and managers, medical doctors, law enforcement, personnel managers, small business owners, training personnel, investors, teachers and educational administrators, military, law enforcement and people from all walks of life. What they share in common is a desire to live life on their terms and create their own best life.

Product details

  • ASIN ‏ : ‎ B086Y7DGPZ
  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Independently published (April 10, 2020)
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Paperback ‏ : ‎ 272 pages
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 979-8635723319
  • Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 13 ounces
  • Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 6 x 0.62 x 9 inches
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Rex Steven Sikes, has four decades experience helping thousands of people transform their minds and lives. His innovations include Mind Design™ and Directed Questions™. He is a Master Trainer of NLP &amp; DHE, A Master Hypnotherapist and Master Hypnotist, Whole Brain and Accelerated Learning, the Law of Attraction and is founder of IDEA Seminars. Find him online.

He conducts online programs and live events on transformation, Mind Design™ LOA, NLP. Sikes is a professional speaker, a coach, business consultant and educator. He's a professional actor and filmmaker and consultant to the entertainment industry. He has appeared before millions in films and TV.

He speak on television and radio interviews about making your dreams come true, conditioning and nutrition for the mind, why affirmations don’t work and how to get them to, creativity and intuition, making a great impression, creating rapport, and how to understand and utilize body language.

He consults for attorneys and on news media for famous trials and celebrities. He coaches actors, directors, performers and speakers. In addition to training, and executive coaching, Rex does customized expert modeling and customized business consulting.

Other clients include CEO’s, sales professionals and managers, medical doctors, law enforcement, personnel managers, small business owners, investors, teachers, educational administrators, and people from all walks of life. What they share in common is a desire to live life on their terms, and create their own best life.

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Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on May 18, 2021
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5.0 out of 5 stars A profound thought-provoking book packed full of life-changing, actionable insight
By Joe Soto on May 18, 2021
My personal development journey took a turn for the better back in 1996 when I was fortunate enough to be trained and mentored by Rex Steven Sikes.

It's been my ongoing wish that Rex would put his personal and professional development insights, his unique accelerated learning techniques, and basic to advanced mindset strategies (what he's rightfully termed Mind Design™) into a book.

He's finally done it and he's held nothing back. If taking control (or taking back control) of your life, freeing yourself from limiting beliefs, activating your winning mindset, and creating and living a happier life is appealing to you, then buying this book will be the best gift you will give yourself.

Rex equips you with everything you need to live a more empowered life inside of this book. Reading the book is like having Rex as your personal coach, guiding you on a life-changing journey, chapter by chapter. He has the uncanny ability to challenge your limiting thinking without you realizing that's what he's doing, and he guides you to the new pathways out of your own limitations with some really cool exercises, checklists and actions you can take to "try on" his ideas so you can actually work on changing yourself for the better - not just read about it.

He was the first person to really challenge me with the idea that to change my life, I had to change myself first. His concept of 100% Self-responsibility has served me so much in my life, it's now the cornerstone of all my training and coaching as well. In the book (Chapter 20) he states, "When you accept full responsibility for everything going on, you begin to access your inner strengths and power. When you accept responsibility your mind begins to look for solutions because you are responsible."

Bottom line: I'm a better coach, trainer, entrepreneur, husband, and parent because of Rex, his work, and the actionable insight he's poured into this book.

It's rare I buy a book that I read all the way through because it's so good. It's even rarer that I read and then reread a book over and over because it's so great. Life On Your Terms is one of those books.

Get the book, because your future self will thank you for it.
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5.0 out of 5 stars What can you say about the man who has everything?
By Tony Petrozza on August 25, 2020
Haha I thought that cliché would be a funny way to start this. I must say at the outset that my testimonial is bias, as you’ll find out. Cut to the chase; outside of my father and George Morrison, Rex is the most influential person I’ve ever known.
You might find that my biasness is for the greatest reasons. I first heard of Rex in the mid-90s when I was looking for a Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) institute to train at. Well, I wasn’t ready for any NLP training then. In 2012 I finally was. I had resumed learning about it and finally begun my training. Jonathan Altfeld was blowing me away with his NLP stuff. Then he said if you really want to get blown away, meet the guy who trained him – Rex Sikes. So I went to Florida to be trained by both of them. Jonathan was right. Soon thereafter, Rex became my mentor. We discussed many things. Indeed, he helped me create my virtual coaching program. After a while, he asked me to put together a body of my favorite writings of his, for a book. They would become this book now; ‘Life On Your Terms’. So yes, I was the original editor of this book. Rex threw me off the job when I tried to steal the book when I changed his name as author to mine. Haha that joke really happened but of course, I’m kidding about Rex’s reaction. And that is one of the things that I wanted to learn from Rex – how not to be bothered by anything. What an incredibly valuable notion – to celebrate everything. That’s the kind of stuff this book teaches you.
So, like anything really worthwhile; the book’s process took some time. At some point, I was replaced by a better editor. And this book? I predict that it will become one the more important Self-Help books of the modern age. It is highly accessible and requires no previous knowledge. And you can be blown away like I was, and you don’t need to learn any NLP per se. It was my honor to be involved with it. I’m so impressed by it all that I intend to make the public much more aware of it. This includes making a video series about it.
Congratulations to Editor Tim Shay and Rex for producing a book that will dramatically change the lives of anyone who reads it and applies Rex’s easy to learn principles.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Life changing experience.
By Deanna Sink on April 25, 2022
This book is a life changing experience. Yes I said experience! You will not just read this book you will and must experience it. A must read from a great mentor and man that gives you everything you need to live the life that you dream of. On YOUR terms.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Change your LIFE and Start Creating your Own Economy TODAY, best book year to date.
By Kamal El-Rassi on May 4, 2021
This book "LIFE on your TERMS" is truly a remarkable achievement, an eye opening and empowering gift to help you start winning in your life. It is a wonderful addition to my library of books and mindset training, I actually consider it essential and should be in any school system. It is not everyday you come up on a book that resonates with you, however this one is an amazing amazing book. I started reading it and could not stop for several hours. I am so ever grateful to have found it and met Rex on clubhouse and consider this book an ESSENTIAL book to anyone who wants more of life, more joy, more love, more money, more giving, highly recommended to anyone with a DREAM. The principles are straightforward expressed in a logical manner and in order for all levels of learners. Sit back, enjoy and start living your journey with LIFE ON YOUR TERMS. Rex Sikes, thank you for this gift I appreciate you man. Peace, for Health, Happiness, and Wealth.
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