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Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man Movie Tie-in Edition: What Men Really Think About Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment Paperback – January 31, 2012

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As a popular comedian, radio host and red-blooded male, Harvey doesn't have the bona fides typical to most women's relationship self-help, but he still manages a thorough, witty guide to the modern man. Harvey undertakes the tast because "Women are clueless about men," because "Men get away with a whole lot of stuff" and because he has "some valuable information to change all of that." Harvey makes a game effort, taking a bold but familiar men-are-dogs approach: if you're "cutting back" on sex, "he will have another woman lined up and waiting to give him what he needs and wants--the cookie." Several chapters later, however, he introduces the "ninety-day rule," asserting that, actually, he won't always have another woman lined up--and the only way to makes sure is a three-month vetting period. Harvey also tackles mama's boys, "independent--and lonely--women," and the matter of children in the dating world ("If he's meeting the kids after you decide he's the one, it's too late"). Feminists and the easily offended probably won't take to Harvey's blanket statements and blunt advice, but Harvey's fans and those in need of tough (but ticklish) love advice should check it out (especially the hysterical last-chapter Q&A).
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“Harvey’s must-have guide to unlocking the male mind, understanding his game, anticipating his moves and countering with unstoppable offense and defense.” (Los Angeles Sentinel)

“Women should listen to Steve Harvey when it comes to what a good man is about. Steve Harvey dispenses a lot of fabulous information about men. It’s more than the average man will usually tell you. Steve Harvey will give it up.” (Aretha Franklin)

“A thorough, witty guide to the modern man....those in need of tough (but ticklish) love advice should check it out (especially the hysterical last-chapter Q&A).” (Publishers Weekly)

“Filled with practical principles, rules and tips, and illustrated with humorous and warm-hearted anecdotes from Harvey’s life and friendships, ACT LIKE A LADY, THINK LIKE A MAN gives readers the real deal about the differences between the sexes and how to bridge them for a mutually rewarding partnership.” (New York Beacon)

“Harvey offers surprising insights into the male mentality and gives women strategies for taming that unruly beast.” (The Philadelphia Inquirer)
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Product Details

  • Paperback: 240 pages
  • Publisher: Amistad; Reprint edition (January 31, 2012)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0062190989
  • ISBN-13: 978-0062190987
  • Product Dimensions: 5.3 x 0.5 x 8 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 6.4 ounces
  • Average Customer Review: 4.4 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (3,961 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #730,601 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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I wanted to read; Act like a Lady Think like a Man out of knowing that Steve Harvey is a wonderful comedian and so much insight comes through looking life from the lighter side. I was not disappointed. I laughed, I learned and my heart opened. He explains that men want to, are trained to and are good at the 3 "P's" when it comes to loving their women. They profess their love; meaning, they tell the world. This is my Lady, my girlfriend, my wife and until they do that know that you are not his. That's the good news...you know where you stand. Second "P": Protect: men will go out of their way to make sure that to the best of their ability the no harm comes to you. No one will talk down to you, nor will they even look like they want to harm you. He takes his job as protector seriously...if not, he's not yours and you are not his. Third "P", a man will Provide for the woman he loves and her/their offspring. He will make sure that all he has goes towards making sure she has what she needs. Even while dating...Ladies, don't rush to pay the check. He feels like a man when he can do this for you whether or not you can do for yourself...maybe even especially if you can do it for yourself. His DNA, according to Harvey and I've seen this in my life a well, providing is his responsibility. If he doesn't feel needed or wanted in any of these 3 "P's" he is not the guy for you nor are you the woman for him. Knowing this, it's easy to move on or to bring a man closer.

I love Harvey's simple and humorous clarity. I wondered if his was a throw back approach and then I realized with his help, women and men are different for a reason. Praise the difference, respect the difference, see the difference...have great relationships. Simple, clear, fun! In conjunction with "Act like a Lady...
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The central premise of Steve Harvey's book is that women are not setting stringent enough standards in their romantic dealings with men. As such, he posits, they are giving away their social power and selling themselves short on their dating/mating goals.

Steve is partially correct, but he misses the central point. It is true that women do tend to settle for less than they truly want when dating, but the damage they're doing to themselves is not ultimately a result of letting men get away with murder, so to speak. Rather, the problem originates from the fact that women are choosing the wrong men. Decent men don't look for any opportunity to take advantage of women. They don't take that mile when given the proverbial inch. The men who do are the players, chiselers and con artists, the kinds of men who may look good in the store window but fall totally apart when you get them home from the mall.

'Act Like a Lady' ultimately is a rehashing of the familiar 'men are incorrigible dogs' theory of gender. It's a tired story that I'd hope we had moved past, but here it is again in a new package. Yes, men like sex. Yes, men like to look around. But decent men are able to control their urges, especially when they know that not doing so will cause great pain to those around them. Steve's theory doesn't stand up to real life, where if you spend any time, you quickly realize that uniqueness is a defining human personality trait.

Most women do have high standards--that is, until they run into a man who knows all the right things to say to circumvent their defenses. A woman can absolutely KNOW that she's worth all the trouble, but she'll totally drop her guard when a skilled player comes along saying all the right things.
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No woman should read or relate in any way to this nonsense. If I could give it negative stars, I would. I'd hate to think of young, impressionable women buying into this nonsense. Why do women buy these books? Are men sitting around reading books about ways to understand women better? NO! Steve Harvey sounds like a caveman. For example, he claims not to condone cheating in men, however, he will explain a cheating man as just interpreting his own cheating as getting "tightened up," and nothing more. In other words, sex doesn't matter to men, so if you're an executive woman, off in a foreign country doing your job to bring in money and you leave your man alone at home, he may cheat b/c he's without sex and it's just a "tightening" for him. You should understand this might happen b/c men cannot do without sex. For Steve Harvey and all the other men who claim this type of cheating means nothing, why does it suddenly mean something when their woman just wants to get "tightened up" while she's away and also doing without sex? See, the opposite is never, ever addressed, which is what makes this the self-serving nonsense it is for those men that want to remain simple, selfish and self-absorbed and still find a reason why women should understand and tolerate these types of attitudes and human inadequacies. Women in the 21st century should burn these books like they did their bras in the 60's.
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... "Women, Blame Yourself and Not Us (Yeah, I said it). This book is not for a woman who knows herself, is secure with herself, knows what she will and will not accept and/or tolerate. SH's philosophies (if you will) are antiquated and sexist. Here are some standouts:

A) Him throwing a conniption when he wife went scuba diving because he wasn't able to "protect" her. His self-told performance showed that he is insecure and controlling. The thing that he loved about his wife, her sense of adventure, is the very thing he is trying to stifle.
B) The Momma's boy. A mother/son relationship is so complex at times that his woman can set all the boundaries she want but it's not until that man sets boundaries with his ma that things will change.
C) Cheating. It's a woman's fault men cheat. Period. Forget about self-control, commitment and communication - its all on the woman.
D) Single woman are too independent destined for loneliness. SH confuses being self-sufficient with being [too] independent. These days a woman may not need a man financially but need and want a man spiriutally, emotionally and physically. She is not suppose to wait for a man to save her (she already has a Savior) but be able to take care of herself and should want a man who appreciates that and likewise be able to take care of himself. Partnership isn't about completion but about two wholes joining together.
E) Meeting the children. I do not agree with a man meeting kids after a month of knowing him. That's unrealistic in this day and age. If it take 90 days to have sex, according to SH, it should take longer a man to actually meet the kids. Yes, he should know about them but should meet until a bond and commitment is formed.
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