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The Like Switch: An Ex-FBI Agent's Guide to Influencing, Attracting, and Winning People Over (1) (The Like Switch Series) Paperback – January 13, 2015

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From a former FBI Special Agent specializing in behavior analysis and recruiting spies comes a handbook filled with his proven strategies on how to instantly read people and influence how they perceive you, so you can easily turn on the like switch.

The Like Switch is packed with all the tools you need for turning strangers into friends, whether you are on a sales call, a first date, or a job interview. As a Special Agent for the FBI’s National Security Division’s Behavioral Analysis Program, Dr. Jack Schafer developed dynamic and breakthrough strategies for profiling terrorists and detecting deception. Now, Dr. Schafer has evolved his proven-on-the-battlefield tactics for the day-to-day, but no less critical battle of getting people to like you.

In
The Like Switch, he presents these techniques for how you can influence, attract, and win people over. Learn how to think and react like your favorite TV investigators from Criminal Minds or CSI as Dr. Schafer shows you how toimprove your LQ (Likeability Quotient), “spot the lie” both in person and online, master nonverbal cues that influence how people perceive you, and turn up or turn down the intensity of a relationship.

Dr. Schafer cracks the code on making great first impressions, building lasting relationships, and understanding others’ behavior to learn what they
really think about you. With tips and techniques that hold the key to taking control of your communications, interactions, and relationships, The Like Switch shows you how to read others and get people to like you for a moment or a lifetime.
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Reviewed in the United States on October 5, 2021
I first heard Jake Shafer on a podcast and was impressed so I purchased this book. It’s the best book I ever read. Looking at some of the one-star reviews, I realized maybe some people are very familiar with techniques in this book so to them, it may not be worth it.

Some of the things I read, I realized I have done before but not on purpose. Some of the things I just thought were so obvious that I wondered how it is I never realized it before. Other things I thought were so simple yet so brilliant.

After reading the book I realized how different I would have handle people and situations in my past. I went to a lot of business meetings and conferences where I’d meet a lot of new people for the purpose of doing business and making business connections. If I were to do that again, I would walk in with confidence that I control the situation. I would be able to connect with anyone and everyone that I wanted to connect with. I also realized that my failure to make a lot of connections was my own fault. I used to think that it was the other person that was not giving me friend signals. Now I realized I was just a guilty as they were.

Since reading this book, I have never, and will never have that awkward moment in a conversation again where neither person can think of anything to say thanks to a simple statement – So you…
It is such a great feeling to walk in a place with a goal and using what I learned in this book to achieve that goal. One time I had to drop my car off on a Saturday for repairs on Monday. My goal was to get them to have my car ready as early on Monday as possible. That didn’t happen, instead they said they would fit me in now if that would be better for me.

I had to get a shot at a pharmacy but they don’t start giving them out until 4:00 and I had a 4:15 appointment. I ended up in the area at 3:00 and really did not want to wait around. I used everything I learned in this book and I was out the door at 3:30.

I have since purchased this book for my son’s and my niece.
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Reviewed in the United States on July 6, 2024
This book is easy to read. Yes, a lot of these things are obvious when you think about them but honestly I have never thought about them! I needed this book before high school! Love the formula for both situations- making friends and losing the people you don't want to hurt but you can not stand being around. It's good for adults too!
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Reviewed in the United States on July 8, 2016
This is a very informative book that started out very good. The author talks about his techniques to get suspects to warm up to him using a very scientific, deliberate, and calculated method. He then breaks his method down into its subparts... and that's where it kind of goes off track. He gradually forgets to loop back to his original intent and just goes deeper into a lot of pop psychology like reading body movements to tell if a girl is interested in you. This is information that is already out there and has been trodden over so much it looks like an old, muddy road. If he had stayed with the original technique I would definitely have given it 5 stars, that part was every interesting.
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Reviewed in the United States on September 5, 2024
This has helped me in my life to get whatever I want
Reviewed in the United States on November 5, 2017
Have you ever wanted to get better at connecting with people? Specifically, what can you do if you want others to be drawn to you? You might think of some obvious ways, such as smiling or being authentic, but these are just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to attracting people and winning them over. In the book, The Like Switch: An Ex-FBI Agent’s Guide to Influencing, Attracting, and Winning People Over, authors Jack Schafer and Marvin Karlins share practical strategies for getting an accurate read of people and positively influencing them.

I have often said I try not to read too much into body language and focus more on what people are saying. It turns out, this is not a good strategy for understanding where people are coming from, as a large percentage of communication comes from almost universal non-verbal signals such as head tilts, eyebrow raises, and smiles. Who better to reveal these cues than an FBI agent trained in the skill of instantly reading a room and winning people over who are not naturally disposed toward trusting them? These methods have even been used effectively to encourage resistant informants to openly share their secrets. Fortunately, these principles are clearly presented in The Like Switch.

They present a simple formula for Friendship that combines Frequency + Proximity + Duration + Intensity. If all this sounds too contrived, just consider the basic truth that people enjoy being around those who make them feel good about themselves. Actually, that’s not too far off from the Golden Rule of Jesus that says “Do to others whatever you would like them to do to you.” (Matthew 7:12, NLT) When you are genuinely interested in someone, the Golden Rule of Friendship inspires reciprocity. They, in turn, become more interested in you.

In our high-tech digital culture, it can be even harder to read the signs of whether or not you are effectively connecting with someone. The authors devote some time to helping you understand how to read the signs of honesty through social media and other types of digital communication as well so you can avoid being the victim of the latest cyber-scam or catfishing attempt.

Another helpful acronym explained in the book is the word LOVE, which stands for Listen, Observe, Vocalize, and Empathize. Simply put, this reminds us to engage in active listening through eye-contact and never interrupting (something I really have to work on), looking for those non-verbal cues, respond appropriately with what you say and help them to know that you understand where they are coming from.

The Like Switch is especially helpful for anyone who wants to grow in their ability to develop relationships with others. It is interesting throughout with lots of real-world examples to illustrate the ideas they present. I was personally challenged to continually grow in these skills by becoming a better reader of those non-verbal signals and to be a better listener. I highly recommend this book if you also are ready to develop these relational skills.
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Reviewed in the United States on November 29, 2023
...I really like this book. It is a really good book with more practical advice than the excellent but theoretical Cialdini book(s). Well written, well organized, and quite helpful.
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Liam Vo
5.0 out of 5 stars Easy to read and understand
Reviewed in Canada on September 20, 2022
I bought this book because my job requires me to community and understand people in a non verbal way. The book highlights a lot of clear concepts and examples that I find interesting and easy to implement. I would recommend this book for anyone wanting to make friends and business relationships lasting
Tamara
5.0 out of 5 stars Unterhaltsam und nützlich
Reviewed in Germany on November 2, 2023
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Alina
5.0 out of 5 stars Full of amazing advice
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on September 3, 2023
I've just started but there are several useful insights already. Would highly recommend for people who wonder why others don't approach them or not notice them walk into a room. Instead of some courses of how to talk confidently, or how to own the space (that didn't appeared useful for me) I would reco to start from reading this book.
Vaibhav
5.0 out of 5 stars I just Loved this Book! Useful techniques.
Reviewed in India on February 21, 2023
Practical techniques to apply in real-world life
Pedro Colvero
5.0 out of 5 stars Rich Insights
Reviewed in Brazil on July 8, 2020
The book is very good, filled with rich and inestimable insights. Definitely a "write worth reading".