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The Little Black Book of Big Red Flags: Relationship Warning Signs You Totally Spotted... But Chose to Ignore Paperback – June 18, 2011

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“Splendid book! I love it!” --E. Jean Carroll, advice columnist for ELLE magazine

"Though these three twenty somethings have been blinded by love in the past, their hindsight is perfectly keen...The Little Black Book enumerates dating portents with moxie." --Marie Claire

"The Little Black Book of Big Red Flags [is] essentially the dating guide for the Sex and the City generation. Take the [authors'] advice...they could save you a lot of time and heartache. --Jill Dobson, CBS's The Early Show

"This captivating book is based on an abundance of bad date anecdotes pulled together at BigRedFlags.com. While the book offers warnings for single women, it is primarily a fun, somewhat voyeuristic window into the disastrous side of the dating world." --Library Journal

The Little Black Book of Big Red Flags may very well become the dating girls' handbook. Run out and get a copy of the book before you say yes, or no, to your next date, ladies!” --Examiner.com

“According to a new book called The Little Black Book of Big Red Flags: ‘How a guy treats you right after sex can be just as important as how he treats you during it.’ It's so true!” --Michael Musto, The Village Voice

“Funny and engaging yet brutally honest, The Little Black Book of Big Red Flags marries useful advice and startling stories that will assure readers they're not alone in the often-rocky quest to find Prince Charming.” --YourTango.com

"The Little Black Book of Big Red Flags can help you understand women, which will help you get dates and help you get laid, and if you're really special, get laid on your dates." --MTV's Clutch Blog

"Dating gurus Natasha Burton, Julie Fishman and Meagan McCrary tell it like it is for dating newbies and experienced romantics alike. These writers break the tired self-help, pity-party mold." --The Philadelphia Tribune

"From bad boys to the emotionally infantile, these women manage to dish it out on the warning signs many women ignore. They find fun, light-hearted ways to talk about these tender topics in a blunt, honest tone." --The Frederick News-Post

About the Author

Natasha Burton is a serial monogamist who's currently the Relationships Editor of Glo.com, a women's lifestyle website partnered with MSN and ELLE magazine.

Julie Fishman
is a tomboy turned comedy writer who teaches at a college in Hollywood and writes for screen, print, and web.

Meagan McCrary
is an L.A.-based yoga teacher with an adventurous spirit for romance, who has also written for a variety of local lifestyle magazines.

Natasha, Julie, and Meagan are all Los Angeles-dwelling Pisceans who met while earning their Master's degrees in creative writing from the University of Southern California. This is their first book.
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Product Details

  • Paperback: 256 pages
  • Publisher: Adams Media (June 18, 2011)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1440512655
  • ISBN-13: 978-1440512650
  • Product Dimensions: 5.5 x 0.7 x 7.5 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 12.5 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.3 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (140 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #65,152 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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After following the blog for several years the book definitely didn't disappoint. The stories made me both laugh and cringe, and (unfortunately) I can relate to many of the red-flag-worthy references. Behind the humor is a great deal of truth and good advice that both guys and gals will enjoy. Highly recommended!!!
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The Big Red Flags blog has cracked me up, and made me cringe, for a long time. So I was thrilled to see this book released with new horror stories and some of the funniest entries from the blog. It's a hysterical read for guys and gals alike. As a bonus, it will help you recognize total creeps and potential stalkers in your own dating life.
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I wish this book was around before I got married 28 years ago. I bought this book for my 25 year old daughter but my 50+ year old friends are much more interested in it. It has a wealth of good information that ALL single women should read so they know what to look out for. ALL single men should read it to see what men do to screw up - so they don't. I suggested my son read it as well. It's funny but right on the mark. There are some chapters that get into the nitty gritty of sex so it wouldn't be appropriate for the younger crowd.
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I followed the blog since its inception and watched it develop a meaningful following. The book was a natural addition and is a must-read / easy read. Blends subtle and explicit humor into the often callous life of dating. The anecdotes resonate and make you grin from experience. You will not be disappointed!
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being a girl who has dated a red flag or two- i found this book informative, enjoyable and fun as well something i could relate to! this book would make a great addition to any reading list and will be a perfect summer read- i absolutely loved it (and you will too!)!!
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This book is awesome because it turns kind-of-crappy situations into a hilarious lessons. As girls, we all have moments with red flags. It's great to be able to take a step back and recognize the situation as it is, without getting all emo and self-doubtful about it. Somethings just weren't meant to be and at the end of any relationship is an opportunity to recognize what YOU want and need. Triple thumbs up if I could!
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I'm a forty-something, love to laugh and have bent over, mid- walk with girlfriends, to laugh hysterically at the tale of the date who brought along his father, or the one who needed TWO chairs to sit. This book rendered nary a chuckle. Maybe twenty-somethings will find it amusing.
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By Jess on September 25, 2013
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I returned it. I would have appreciated the book more had it been a simple collection of dating lessons and funny stories. Instead, there were pages and pages of the authors giving vague (and mostly non-applicable) advice between stories. They prefaced the whole book by stating they weren't experts and that was obvious, so why they kept giving the advice is puzzling.

For example, 'Don't ever let a guy lick your toes. There may be an indication that he's into fetishes. Therefore, he might have mental issues.... (rambles on for another 2 pages about weak connections). Now read the following story where a girl wakes up to find a guy licking her toes.'

Took the suprise and interest out of the whole damned thing.
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