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How To Go On Living When Someone You Love Dies Paperback – July 18, 1991
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“The most comprehensive, insightful, and helpful volume on loss and survival.”—Rabbi Dr. Earl A. Grollman, author of Living When a Loved One Has Died
Mourning the death of a loved one is a process all of us will go through at one time or another. But wherever the death is sudden or anticipated, few of us are prepared for it or for the grief it brings. There is no right or wrong way to grieve; each person's response to loss will be different. Now, in this compassionate, comprehensive guide (previously published as Grieving), Therese A. Rando, Ph.D., bereavement specialist and author of Loss and Anticipatory Grief, leads you gently through the painful but necessary process of grieving and helps you find the best way for yourself.
Whether the death was sudden or expected, from accident, illness, suicide, homicide, or natural causes, Dr. Rando will help you learn to:
• Understand and resolve your grief.
• Talk to children about death.
• Resolve unfinished business.
• Take care of yourself.
• Accept the help and support of others.
• Get through holidays and other difficult times of the year.
• Plan funerals and personal bereavement rituals.
There is no way around the pain of loss, but there is a way through it. Dr. Rando offers the solace, comfort, and guidance to help you accept your loss and move into your new life without forgetting your treasured past.
- Length
338
Pages
- Language
EN
English
- PublisherBantam
- Publication date
1991
July 18
- Dimensions
5.1 x 0.7 x 8.3
inches
- ISBN-100553352695
- ISBN-13978-0553352696
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Whether the death was sudden of expected, from accident, illness, suicide, homicide, or natural causes, Dr. Rando will help you learn to:
Understand and resolve your grief.
Talk to children about death.
Resolve unfinished business.
Take care of yourself.
Accept the help and support of others.
Get through holidays and other difficult times of the year.
Plan funerals and personal bereavement rituals.
How To Go On Living With Someone You Love Dies also includes a comprehensive resource listing and a chapter on finding professional help and support groups.
There is no way around the pain of loss, but there is a way through it. Dr. Rando offers the solace, comfort, and guidance to help you accept your loss and move into your new life without forgetting your treasured past.
"Dr. Rando's book should help anyone ho has survived the pain of this kind of loss and is trying to adjust to a new world without his loved one."--Art Linkletter
From the Inside Flap
Whether the death was sudden of expected, from accident, illness, suicide, homicide, or natural causes, Dr. Rando will help you learn to:
Understand and resolve your grief.
Talk to children about death.
Resolve unfinished business.
Take care of yourself.
Accept the help and support of others.
Get through holidays and other difficult times of the year.
Plan funerals and personal bereavement rituals.
How To Go On Living With Someone You Love Dies also includes a comprehensive resource listing and a chapter on finding professional help and support groups.
There is no way around the pain of loss, but there is a way through it. Dr. Rando offers the solace, comfort, and guidance to help you accept your loss and move into your new life without forgetting your treasured past.
From the Back Cover
Whether the death was sudden of expected, from accident, illness, suicide, homicide, or natural causes, Dr. Rando will help you learn to:
Understand and resolve your grief.
Talk to children about death.
Resolve unfinished business.
Take care of yourself.
Accept the help and support of others.
Get through holidays and other difficult times of the year.
Plan funerals and personal bereavement rituals.
"How To Go On Living With Someone You Love Dies also includes a comprehensive resource listing and a chapter on finding professional help and support groups.
There is no way around the pain of loss, but there is a way through it. Dr. Rando offers the solace, comfort, and guidance to help you accept your loss and move into your new life without forgetting your treasured past.
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- Publisher : Bantam; Reprint edition (July 18, 1991)
- Language : English
- Paperback : 338 pages
- ISBN-10 : 0553352695
- ISBN-13 : 978-0553352696
- Item Weight : 9.2 ounces
- Dimensions : 5.13 x 0.73 x 8.25 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #64,708 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- #113 in Grief & Bereavement
- #139 in Love & Loss
- #1,108 in Motivational Self-Help (Books)
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It is not. This book hits the nail on the head of what is
troubling you after losing a spouse and is very helpful
in addressing the grief.
Truly, a useful resource. I recommend it to you.
This field is extremely complex, many factors influencing the nature of the grief. The type of death, sudden, violent, long-expected; the age and relationship of the deceased, juvenile child, adult child, parent, sibling, friend, etc.; the quality of relationship between the deceased and bereaved; the age of the bereaved, and so on. Rando covers just about every base so there is something here for just about everyone.
I give the book four stars because it may not be as helpful for one who is the worst throes of grief and looking for help. For one reason, while they can probably find their type of situation discussed, because of the scope of the book, it may not be discussed in great depth. Secondly, the book is mostly expository discussion, and does not have a lot of suggestions for how the bereaved can cope and work toward reconciliation with their loss. There are other books, such as those by Alan Wolfelt, that are more oriented toward practical application.
Rando does include an excellent chapter on finding professional help and support groups. She also has an extensive list of resources, supportive organization, agencies, and books. However, this edition of the book was published in 1991 and there is a lot that has been written and done since then on working through grief.
Rando is to be commended for being a pioneer in the study of how best to help the bereaved. Her thinking is sound and this book is well-written. However, if you get it for yourself or someone you know who is suffering, I'd include Alan Wolfelt's "Understanding Your Grief: Ten Essential Touchstones".
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When you lose a loved one & grieving their loss, nothing will offer you comfort like this book. When you know of someone who are enduring the pain of losing a loved one. Do not buy them flowers. Do not bake them a casserole. Get them this book! It is the most thorough book on the subject of grief. Author Therese A. Rando covers every type of loss. Sudden vs anticipated. Accident vs illness. Suicide, homicide. Loss of a spouse, child, parent, sibling, peer......She covers all types of loss, and every step of grief and living a new life without the one you loss. Even if that someone loss their loved one - months ago, years ago. Get them this book. "Times does not heal all wounds. Insight does." And this book is the Insight. Get them this book! Get them this book!







