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Lost and Found: One Woman's Story of Losing Her Money and Finding Her Life Paperback – April 3, 2012
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I found so many connections to what she wrote about money and my own relationship...with dating and relationships. It was almost eerie, and I think anyone who's felt that they should look to an authority figure who "knows better," whether about money or another topic, who has purposefully avoided looking at the hard things, thinking they'd either go away or magically take care of themselves, who's used money to soothe themselves, will get something out of this book.
At first, especially if you're someone who lives paycheck to paycheck, the idea that someone with such a nest egg could feel worried about money seems a bit audacious, over-the-top, but it's a very clear line from those who are thin but feel fat, and what Roth does best here is describe that feeling, and how the extreme nature of what happened with her savings forced her to reckon with her previous thinking. The stories about her father's treatment of money (tossing it onto the floor and making everyone else literally scramble on the ground to pick it up) are eerie and disturbing, but Roth never asks us to feel sorry for her.Read more ›
<> When money (food) becomes simply money (food) - a means of exchange that allows us food, shelter, clothing, and comfort (nourishment, energy, stamina, strength, health) - instead of the antidote to our low opinions of ourselves, we can begin using it in ways that generate well-being rather than exacerbate insanity. But we cannot have a sane relationship with money (food) until we have a sane relationship with ourselves.
<> Obsession with shopping is a form of autism. But is it the thing/food I want or is it the aliveness, no matter how temporary? If I've convinced myself I need to buy something I can't afford (or to eat huge amounts of highly-caloric food), I need to remember that when my psychological survival is at stake, survival trumps good intentions every time. But if I allow the lack to be there - then there is no shame, no fight, no desperate need to fill it. As soon as I stop fighting the deprivation, I see that it's in the past and what I really wanted THEN was a feeling, not a thing.
<> Sufficiency is an experience, not a given amount. "Enough" is a relationship to what you already have.
That's what was useful for ME to read - but it took slogging through a couple hundred pages to glean that. Now that I think about it, I've had the same problem with virtually all of Geneen's other writings - there's too much hypothesizing "filler" and not enough substance! Still, if you've got the time and inclination, this book is not without insights.
Geneen pulls no punches in the book. From "grovelling for dollars" to "Madoff rage" to the "specter of homelessness," Lost and Found is a candid revelation about what Geneen learned by losing her life's savings in Bernie Madoff's Ponzi Scheme. The book gives us insight into Geneen Roth's open-ended inquiry into her relationship with money, her unconscious attitudes toward money, her life habits around money, and how she has begun to free herself from it all through awareness & inquiry.
It takes a lot of courage to reveal so many personal and intimate details as Geneen has in her book. The gift of it for the reader is that we can connect with her and her experience in a real way. Lost and Found isn't a dispassionate treatise on the effects and insights of falling victim to one of the greatest con men of all time, nor is it a tale of "woe is me." Lost and Found is more a journey of revelation from a person responding to a "wake up call" from reality.
We are fortunate to have a person like Geneen Roth who can show us the beauty and power of bringing awareness and inquiry into all of our life.
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Geneen Roth has a very geniune and authentique way of expressing herself. Was lovely meeting her in this book as well. Read morePublished 4 months ago by Amazon Customer
I read this book and began to understand some things about myself and my behaviors around money that I have never looked at before. Read morePublished 4 months ago by J. Deldeo
excellent book just as all of hers are!!!! great insights, personal, easy to relate to and nonjudgmental....you can feel the compassion Geneen has for her readers..... Read morePublished 7 months ago by camille marks
OK, this gal is seriously loony tunes. Granted, the author was dealt some seriously bad cards in the parent department. My jaw dropped (literally) at some of their actions. Read morePublished 10 months ago by Dairy Maid
this book was a real surprise and I learned about food and money- I needed to hear both!!Published 12 months ago by Lorna Davis
I purchased the audio version that I picked up in some dollar bin. I paid way too much to hear this riches to 100 count thread life story. Her voice is so whiney. Read morePublished 14 months ago by Bunnygirl63
Breathtaking. Truly. Maybe because I was so ready to read this and apply Geneen Roth's lessons to my own life, but I am beyond grateful to her for writing this book. Read morePublished 19 months ago by maidindetroit