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The Lost Wife Paperback – September 6, 2011
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Lescroart: Say a few words about your extraordinary Prologue to this book and how it initiated the creative process of the novel.
Richman: I had been hoping to write a novel where I could explore an artist’s experience during WWII and the Holocaust. So I started to do research about how certain real life artists were still able to create, even under these horrific and dangerous circumstances. But I didn’t know how I was going to frame the novel. Then one day I was getting my hair cut at a local salon, and I overheard the stylist next to me telling a story he had recently heard from another client. It was about a woman who had recently attended a wedding where the bride’s grandmother and the groom’s grandfather had not met previously. At the rehearsal dinner the night before, the groom’s grandfather insisted he knew the bride’s grandmother “from somewhere.” At the end of the evening, still convinced that he recognized her (despite her denials), he asked her to roll up her sleeve. There the six-number tattoo from Auschwitz was inked into her skin. He looked at her again, this time more closely. Studying her face one more time, he said: “You were my wife.”
When I heard that story, I knew I had the beginning of my novel! I would begin and end it at the wedding scene, but invent this couple’s journey in between: how they fell in love in romantic pre-war Prague, but then became separated as the Germans invaded, and later how they each begin new lives in America. I made Lenka--the “lost wife” of the book’s title--a young art student at the beginning of the war, so I could weave in my historical research about various artists who had survived Terezin and Auschwitz by using their artistic skills. It was my hope that my readers would learn and appreciate the history of these artists, while also becoming swept away into Josef and Lenka’s love story that I created.
Lescroart: I have rarely come across a novel where the visual arts have played such an important role, in both the personal and political realm. What is your own background, if any, in visual art? To what extent did your creation of Lenka the artist help you deal with the themes in the book?
Richman: I am the daughter of an abstract oil painter and a painter myself. I actually went to college thinking I was going to major in studio art, but then fell in love with art history. What I love about it was uncovering the story within the painting. My mother taught me, early on in my childhood, the “gift of seeing.” If you’re going to paint, you need to look at the clues of your subject, the traces of life--whether it’s the bruise on a pear or a wrinkle on a face. I try to bring that to my writing and to also incorporate texture and color into my words, so that the reader has a full, sensory experience.
To that end, the reader will experience a marked change in Lenka as the novel progresses. She starts off as a naïve, young art student, who is often more of an observer than a participant. Then becomes an artist willing to steal supplies for the young children in Terezin and anxious to become part of a secret resistance of artists trying to get their art work to the outside world. By the end of the war, she has wholly changed – both as a stronger woman and as a more risk-taking artist.
Lescroart: Josef and Lenka both go on to have lengthy married lives to other people after the war ends. Josef, particularly, builds a life with Amalia that is just heart-rending. How did you envision these people coming together? What kept them together? How was Lenka’s marriage similar, if at all, to Josef’s, and what does your answer say about the nature of marriage itself?
Richman: Many people who have read this novel have said that they’ve never read a book where there are so many different types of love depicted. There a “first love” between the young Lenka and Josef; the love between a parent and child, as well as between sisters; then the love among all the friends Lenka makes in the Terezin ghetto; and finally the loves that both Josef and Lenka experience within their second marriages later in their lives.
The first love between Josef and Lenka is the most beautiful, the most romantic, but I think it’s the subtler shades of love within their respective second marriages that are more complex and perhaps more interesting. On the surface, Josef’s and Amalia’s appears to be loveless. Lifeless. But it is a marriage that exists from a shared pact of silence and respect for their mutual pasts and survivor’s guilt over their lost families. I wanted to create Amalia as an almost “living ghost” because I wanted to explore how Josef would react: his heart is still attached to Lenka, who is truly a ghost of his past, but who still lives deeply within his memory.
Lenka’s post-war marriage to Carl is perhaps the biggest surprise to the reader. At the end of their lengthy marriage, they share a deep love that has transformed over time, built on family and her gratitude for his saving her after the war. But it is a very different kind of love compared to the one Lenka experienced as a young girl with Josef.
Lescroart: The central conceit of this book, and indeed the genesis of the title, strongly relies on the reader’s suspension of disbelief that these two lovers could not only have lost track of one another, but have entirely given up on each other’s survival. In this high wire act, you were completely successful, and I was left in awe by the technical virtuosity of your plotting. Can you describe your plotting/outlining process and some of the problems--both this and others--you found most difficult to solve?
Richman: Well, that’s a very good question. I knew I wanted to involve the Nazi’s sinking of the S.S. Athenia in 1939 into the novel. So I interviewed a survivor of that ship, whose family had mistakenly believed that their father had drowned but then later learned he had in fact survived. So I knew there was, in actuality, a great deal of confusion with casualty reports at that time. Then there is the issue of how inundated the Red Cross was right after the war, with so many refugees and other people trying to locate their loved ones but the information was coming so slowly over from Europe. One has to remember there was no computers or internet at that time.
But truly, the success of the novel’s ringing true to me has to do with the exploration of memory and just how powerful it is. Josef, who was safe here during the war, clings to the memory of Lenka in order to survive, while Lenka must suppress hers of him in order to survive her far more physically traumatic experiences in Terezin and Auschwitz.
Lescroart: You portray life in the Czechoslovakian prison camp of Terezin as horrible of course, yet quite different--more filled with intrigue, politics, and passion--than most other books that deal with the Holocaust. How did this pivotal landscape evolve in your consciousness as you were creating this book?
Richman: I was lucky enough to be able to visit the Czech Republic and meet with survivors of Terezin, some of whom had been artists in the Technical Department there and knew many of the real-life characters depicted in the book. Their testimony really enhanced my writing of the novel and breathed life into it that would have been impossible without hearing about their actual experiences. When you think of the Holocaust, you immediately and rightfully imagine those haunting images of tragedy and death. But through my research, I learned another aspect--the ability of the human spirit to defy great odds just to live--as well as to still be able to love and to create, even under great duress. I remember listening to one survivor of Terezin who said: “We thought we were going to die… so what choice did we have. We still wanted to love and laugh. We still wanted to live.”
"Staggeringly evocative, romantic, heart-rending, sensual and beautifully written... may very well be the Sophie's Choice of this generation." — John Lescroart, New York Times bestselling author
"Daringly constructed, this moving novel begins at the end and then, in a fully-realized circle through the most traumatic event of the 20th century, returns you there in a way that makes your heart leap." — Loring Mandel, Emmy-winning playwright and author of Conspiracy
"A love story wrapped in tragedy and survival, I read The Lost Wife in one sitting. Tense, emotional and fulfilling: a great achievement by Alyson Richman." — Martin Fletcher, Winner of the Jewish National Book Award and NBC Special News
Top Customer Reviews
The beautiful city of Prague with its elegant landscape and historical architecture was one of Hitler's conquests. As in most European cities during World War II, the Jews were the scapegoats, and the Germans enacted the Nuremberg laws giving the Jews little freedom and removed all their worldly possessions to fill their illicit coffers. Despite this despicable course of action, Josef and Lenka marry quickly. Fleeing the Nazis was the only salvation for any European Jew. Josef's family had secured exit visas; Lenka's family had no money or possessions to buy their way out of the Czech homeland.
What follows is not the predictable ghetto/concentration camps horrors, it is more of palpable images. From the perspective of an artist, Richman gives the reader the beautiful, radiant red and orange colors of Prague, the countryside, and happiness to the grays, blacks and fetid odors of the camps. Her writing evokes the smells of flowers and the stench of the train cars, barracks and the wretched illnesses prevalent in the prisoners.Read more ›
Ms. Richman managed to marry history and the human experience into a novel, rich in detail and emotionally charged, using her gifts of words, tempo, emotion and thorough research skills.
Personally, this was total fulfillment for me. I have traveled to Prague and Terezin, and having spent time there, all the places that were mentioned in the book came alive through the story of Lenka and Josef. Anyone that is not familiar with the customs of these persecuted people or the period in time spoken about in this book, will get a first class lesson and hopefully, a new understanding.
The time frames, places, and details all came together for me and reinforced my own personal experiences. Previoulsy, I actually had spoken with and emailed a few of Ms. Richman's resource people, who were so happy to assist me with our family search of those who had perished, or spent time at Terezin. I have a book of The Artists of Terezin, and I was so blown away as their names were mentioned; then their names became lives, then mere memories.
My final review of the book came as no surprise after reading all the author's previous works, I was so looking forward to the newest achievement, which is important and something that lived up to my expectations. The only thing missing is the date when the next novel will be released. Bravo!
Historical Romance -Sept. 6th, 2011
4 1/2 stars
Growing up in Prague in the 1930s, Lenka has a joyful childhood surrounded by family and friends. Everything changed though with the coming of the war. Lenka's family is Jewish. And suddenly their future seems bleak and uncertain with the impeding arrival of the Nazis. Just days before the invasion of the Germans, Lenka and her first love, a medical student, Josef, decided to get married quickly. Josef and his family planned to leave Europe and flee to America with Lenka. But when Lenka discovered that her family could not get the necessary papers to escape Prague, she decided to stay behind with them.
But although separated, Josef and Lenka could not forget each other even through the horrors of the war and the terrible Holocaust. In the year 2000, when the eighty-five year old Josef means the grandmother of his future granddaughter-in-law, he is struck by how familiar this old woman looks. Could she be his beloved Lenka?
The most amazing thing about this novel is that it was inspired by a true story. The author wrote in her notes that at a recent wedding, the groom's grandfather and the bride's grandmother, who has never met before the ceremony, realized that they were married to each other before WWII!! It takes a miracle for them to find each other after all these years. The novel itself doesn't disappoint. As I was reading it, I was continuously getting teary-eyed over the horrifying description of Terezin, the town where thousands and thousands of Jews were cramped into, and of Auschwitz. The relationships between Lenka and her family, Lenka and Josef, and Lenka and the other Jews shows the triumph of love over senseless hatred.
Touching and definitely thought provoking, this novel on the Holocaust is not to be missed.
Reviewed by Pauline by Bookaholics Romance Club
I think the book ended too abruptly, and would have been better served by expanding Josef and Lenka's reunion. We learn so much about the two characters and how their memories of each other affected them through their respective lifetimes. I think it would have been worthwhile to include an exploration of how their reunion affected them, both as individuals and as a couple. It didn't do that at all - it just stopped. Meeting each other after so much time would stir up so much emotion, and an exploration of these conflicting feelings and the ability to see each other as they were after so many years, in contrast to memories frozen in time, would have been very interesting and worthwhile, but that never takes place. It also might have been better to use a flashback technique, where they could relive their lives via flashback as they were relating their respective stories to each other in the present. Again, this didn't happen, and it all comes back to the teaser in the first chapter, which led to a disappointing ending.
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I was asked recently if I felt that there are too many books being written about WWII, and my answer then was "no", because there are so many stories still left to be told. Read morePublished 13 days ago by SUSAN PETERSON
It's so hard to read books about concentration camps, but this story was beautifully written and I loved the way the author describes how you never get over your first love. Read morePublished 25 days ago by Amazon Customer
You are gripped from the first chapter that sets the stage for what is to follow. Heartbreaking, informative & uplifting for the Jews who survived against all odds. Read morePublished 25 days ago by Neill Brownstein
I bought this book at Costco, thinking that it would be a decent quality read. I'm wondering whether or not the readers who awarded this piece of dreck five stars read the same... Read morePublished 27 days ago by Biblioknitter
A compelling story about a dark time in world history. If you read and enjoyed "Sarah's Key" you will want to read The Lost Wife. Read morePublished 1 month ago by BoomerRhonda
A bit different than many holocaust books I've read and I enjoyed reading from the perspective of someone within the camp who witnessed underground activity.Published 1 month ago by Sneiderwoman
The stories intertwined will captivate you, break your heart, yet uplift you at the same time. Living in Prague now and will surely visit the memorials this story were based on. Read morePublished 1 month ago by jacqueline tambini