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Loud Hands: Autistic People, Speaking Paperback – December 7, 2012
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- Print length408 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- Publication dateDecember 7, 2012
- Dimensions6 x 1.02 x 9 inches
- ISBN-101938800028
- ISBN-13978-1938800023
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- Publisher : Autistic Self Advocacy Network (December 7, 2012)
- Language : English
- Paperback : 408 pages
- ISBN-10 : 1938800028
- ISBN-13 : 978-1938800023
- Item Weight : 1.32 pounds
- Dimensions : 6 x 1.02 x 9 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #691,601 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
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Alyssa Hillary is an Autistic graduate student, studying neuroscience. They do work in Augmentative and Alternative Communication, both as relating to brain computer interfaces and as used by autistic adults. Alyssa's masters is in mathematics, and they have undergraduate degrees in math, mechanical engineering, and Chinese.
They've been into writing since high school, writing narrative essays, academic essays, poetry, and short fiction, typically science fiction or fantasy. Disability themes are also common, and even when disability isn't a theme per se, disabled characters have a tendency to show up. Forced homogeneity of the cast is a very poor plot driver, after all.
Supposedly, their disability and/or creative writing is done "on the side." This may or may not be accurate.
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If you are Autistic, or if you have ever known anyone who is, then this is a book you will want to devour and have all your friends read. But I ALSO encourage this book for other people with disabilities and our friends/relatives, even if you're not Autistic, because many of the experiences expressed by Autistic people in this anthology I think will resonate with other disability populations also. I know many do resonate with me as a non-Autistic woman who is Deaf and has attention deficit disorder (ADD). For example, the title of this book ("Loud Hands") was chosen as a defiant response to the command that so many autistic children hear when they are growing up, "Quiet Hands". (To understand more about this history, buy the book! and read the essay in it called "Quiet Hands")
They hear this command so often because the people around them don't understand that they NEED to move and flap their hands as much as they do. For some, it can be a way of expressing themselves--not (necessarily) with literal sign language but they may have a particular flap they use when they are excited and another they use when frustrated or feeling overwhelmed. Moving their hands is as natural as shifting our facial expressions is for the rest of us. Some autistic people also use hand motions to help them process sensory information (because many autistic people have sensory integration issues where sensory input that seems ordinary to the rest of us can seem very confusing and overwhelming for them). So when Autistic people say, "Loud Hands!" this is a way of saying, "We're fine the way we are! It's okay to be Autistic! It's not something shameful and pitiful, it's just a different way of being!" Which is NOT the same thing as declining to grow and change--they DO choose to grow and change, it's just that they do it as an Autistic person.
All this resonates with me as a Deaf woman because Deaf people have our own long history with hearing people trying to forbid us to sign (not me personally, but I've known plenty of Deaf people). At one point in history, Deaf people were afraid to sign in public because of this. So we, too, as a community have needed to reclaim pride in our hands and the way they move, and our RIGHT to move our hands in public.
This volume pulls together into one place many of the classic essays that put into words many of the thoughts and feelings many autistic people share in common (for example, "Don't Mourn for Us" by Jim Sinclair). And it also shares some new voices as well. So, please run, leap, and fly, to Amazon to order your copy.
This is the book I wish someone had given me or recommended, when my child was diagnosed. I wish I knew all along what I know now that I have read this book. This is one of the only books about autism I have read that didn’t promise to fix anything, but it’s the only one that did.
“Loud Hands” is an anthem of self-expression. In it, Autistic people write of their perspectives, of their pains and triumphs and all the things our society gets wrong about who they are and how they should be treated. There were so many things I didn’t know.
This is a community that has been deeply misunderstood and whose input has been all but ignored, even and perhaps especially by those who claim to serve it. They are forced to have “quiet hands,” not because it helps them be better versions of themselves, but because flapping hands make the rest of society uncomfortable. “Loud Hands” rejects that notion, and the joy and rage and defiance and love from being loud and unashamed sings from every page.
Everyone should read this book. It will broaden your understanding of the human condition, and you’ll be a better person for it.
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Lovely book to help people with loved ones on the spectrum (and also people who themselves have autism) understand the way their brains work a little bit better.
Je l'ai tenu comme promis fait suivre à une maman qui en avait bien besoin, merci
Every essay is a valuable piece in its own right.
Out of all the books I read on the subject, this is my top of the list. Invaluable. Extraordinary. Life changing.







